I've been thinking about suicide, how can I stop it?!
Question: I've been thinking about suicide, how can I stop it!?
This is my life:
male
16
on the "popular" side in school
too nice
people like me
mom & dad together
brother & sister handicapped - ups and downs w/ that
i feel like there is no point to life
really, there is nothing for me!.!.i can't take it!.
I don't know how to stop thinking about suicide!.!.i never show my real feelings to anyone, i always act happy and i'm funny to others!.!.i don't show my true selfWww@Answer-Health@Com
male
16
on the "popular" side in school
too nice
people like me
mom & dad together
brother & sister handicapped - ups and downs w/ that
i feel like there is no point to life
really, there is nothing for me!.!.i can't take it!.
I don't know how to stop thinking about suicide!.!.i never show my real feelings to anyone, i always act happy and i'm funny to others!.!.i don't show my true selfWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
sorry to say this, but suicide is selfish!.!. if you die, you die!.!. but think of the people you leave behind!.!. you say that you have handicapped siblings!.!. i'm sure that's stress enough for your parents!.!. think if they found out that you committed suicide!.!. then what would that do to them!? that would not only make it wayyyyy harder on them but your siblings would feel the effect too!.!. and think of the people that you say like you!.!. what if you are the only happiness to that person!.!. you say you are funny!.!. what if you die, and someone, somewhere is going through a difficult time, but you make them happy, but then your gone!.!. so who's there to comfort them if you are not!? also, it's not good to put up a front!.!. bottling stuff up leads to thoughts like suicide!.!. seriously, is that what you want!.!. you have a whole life ahead of you to live!.!.!. what if you could, somewhere in your future, make a world of a difference to someone!.!. someone might really need you, but they won't have you if you are gone!.!. just think about it!.!. think about the affect this will have on the people around you, that love you!.!. hope you change your mind!.!. and if you feel like no one else loves you, then i love you!.!. because you are someone in need!.!. and i want you to know that someone- I - care about you!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, I'm glad you are wanting to change that!. I think that while you say you see there is no point to life, I think you must see some point!. You care enough to want to stop!. That's a good thing- really!!
I think you should talk to someone!. A school counselor, a parent, someone you trust!. It sounds like you have some good things going for you and some things that cause you struggles!. I just think that the pressure of holding it all in (and maybe not wanting to bother your parents since they have two high needs kids to take care of) is making it even harder for you to cope with it all!.
In addition to talking to someone: maybe you could find some things you enjoy, ways to relax, things to distract you!. Maybe if you find a way to distract yourself from your problems for a few moments it will help you get through them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should talk to someone!. A school counselor, a parent, someone you trust!. It sounds like you have some good things going for you and some things that cause you struggles!. I just think that the pressure of holding it all in (and maybe not wanting to bother your parents since they have two high needs kids to take care of) is making it even harder for you to cope with it all!.
In addition to talking to someone: maybe you could find some things you enjoy, ways to relax, things to distract you!. Maybe if you find a way to distract yourself from your problems for a few moments it will help you get through them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Start a journal!. It can be a serious help!. Write your feelings down!.
Get involved in school!. Sports, extracurricular activities, etc!. I did and you meet new people with your own interests and people you can really relate too!.
Suicide is a selfish way to go!. Imagine the grief you would cause on your family and friends who love and care about YOU!. And all because you felt that there is nothing out there for you!. There is plenty out there in the world, you just have to grab it by its horn and do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get involved in school!. Sports, extracurricular activities, etc!. I did and you meet new people with your own interests and people you can really relate too!.
Suicide is a selfish way to go!. Imagine the grief you would cause on your family and friends who love and care about YOU!. And all because you felt that there is nothing out there for you!. There is plenty out there in the world, you just have to grab it by its horn and do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
the most important thing to do is to take time for yourself!. After this accept yourself and accept there are things in your life that you can not change, and that these things are not your fault!. Next tell your parents or tell someone that you are comfortable talking to!. It is very important to get help now, because things can escolate!. Good luck and remember their are people that love you and who want to help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have a brother with a cleft lip/palate and know what its like with the family focus on a sibling!. Be grateful for your health, unbroken family, and keep up the positive attitude!. I'm 19 and can think back to when I went through a time like this!. Some ppl take a little longer to go thru this phase!. Truly, if you wanna alleviate your bad thoughts, try volunteering which will make you feel like you have a purpose!. You really need to talk to someone to vent!. its not going to help you keep all that inside of you!. Fortunately, I always talked with ppl!. It helps!. If you need an ear!.!.!.my email addy is goodfellas_girlie@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry you are feeling this way!.!.!.but I do know how you feel!. Suicide is always on my mind!. But I have other issues that make it hard to get it off my mind!.
First I really think you need to talk to someone!. Sit your parents down and calmly tell them how you are feeling!.!.!.if that isn't possible!.!.!.try a friends parents or a school counsler or teacher or even a religious leader!. You need to get it out and have someone listen!. You really need to do that!. If you are very serious about suicide and you don't feel comfortable talking to anyone you need to call the police and tell them how you are feeling!.
I hope you get help
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
First I really think you need to talk to someone!. Sit your parents down and calmly tell them how you are feeling!.!.!.if that isn't possible!.!.!.try a friends parents or a school counsler or teacher or even a religious leader!. You need to get it out and have someone listen!. You really need to do that!. If you are very serious about suicide and you don't feel comfortable talking to anyone you need to call the police and tell them how you are feeling!.
I hope you get help
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Trust me when I say that if you do sincere, honest to your heart, nice things for others that you're not obligated to do (anyone; not just people you know,) there will be a friend out there just waiting to help you for what you've done for them!. This has happened to me and it's the best thing of my life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i agree with the other girl!. you need to turn to real people, the people you love will understand and help you find meaning!.
mabey if you get into a religion, or find something to believe in!.
also if you take medicine like aderol for add or adhd then that can be a sideffect!.
talk to your loved ones and doctor soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com
mabey if you get into a religion, or find something to believe in!.
also if you take medicine like aderol for add or adhd then that can be a sideffect!.
talk to your loved ones and doctor soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to your family doctor and get a referral to a therapist or a psychiatrist! You need help!.!.!.as soon as possible!. Either go to your folks and tell them what's going on or get help at an Emergency Room right now!. You have alot going for you!.!.!.don't waste your life! Get help!.!.!.NOW! kjlWww@Answer-Health@Com
don't give up on life!.
talk to a doctor!. talk to a shrink!. you are a good person, you just need to tell people how you are feeling!. they love you and they want to understand you and help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to a doctor!. talk to a shrink!. you are a good person, you just need to tell people how you are feeling!. they love you and they want to understand you and help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sweety, you need to seek professional help!. You are entirely to young to want to end your life, Life haven't really begun for you yet!.!.!.Please seek help, life is what you make it!. I will be praying for you!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to your parents about it or a best friend, but dont act on it your only 16 things will change trust me =]
good luck
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good luck
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maybe you should talk to someone!.!. that is not the internet!. i hope someone can help you!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
I vividly remember the "suicide/depression" unit of health back in high school!. We were told that people who committed suicide were selfish!. They didn't think about the impact their death would have on their family and friends!. Could you imagine how your mother and father would react if they discovered you dead!? People care about you!. Personally, I wouldn't be able to take it!. I also remember my teacher describing suicide as a "permanent solution to a temporary problem!."
I think this may just be a stage you're going through, what with all the hormones raging through your system!. To stop it, my suggestion would be to go to a therapist, doctor, someone you trust and just talk to them!. It'll make you feel better!. :)
Just my two cents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think this may just be a stage you're going through, what with all the hormones raging through your system!. To stop it, my suggestion would be to go to a therapist, doctor, someone you trust and just talk to them!. It'll make you feel better!. :)
Just my two cents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com