Does everyone have this much going on in their lives?!


Question: Does everyone have this much going on in their lives!?
-Cancer at age 31/cancer free now but conted checkups
-Hysterectomy at 31/I have one child luckily
-Divorce
-Abusive former spouse///verbally and sexually and emotionally
-Loss of job and on disability due to mental distress caused by former spouse
-No dreams accomplished
-Emotional eating which has led to obesity
-In therapy since 2002
-2 past suicide attempts
-Constant high stress custody battle for a year
-Bankruptcy in 2004
-20000 in legal bills now
-Depressed, depressed, depressed
-No significant other

I am 33 now, and I feel like nothing gives!. I wanted so much from life!. I was a Miss title holder and everything in high school, even a page for the US Senate!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I think a lot of people have an overwhelming amount of life going on!. It sounds like you've been through a lot of difficult things!. It does sound like you've been given hope for overcoming the health problems you had!. All the other things sound like things you can take control of!. You are taking a great step by using therapy to cope!. You can identify and work for your dreams!. You can enjoy the time you have with the child you were gifted with!. You can focus on your happiness and wake up everyday with a mind towards improving what life you make!. It's hard work to be positive and nothing comes easily!. You could give up, but that's the easy way out and won't change anything!. It's 100% up to you!. You have to be your own significance, not look for it in others!. When you find yourself, and love yourself all the other things you want will find you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well you have had more than your share of misfortune to be sure!.

The older we get (not that you are old) the more we can see what things we really want to go for and the harder it becomes to achieve them!. Life has a way of pouring more responsibilities on us each year and this takes from our flexibility to attain your dreams!.

How about going Zen with this a bit!? Do you really want to be someone important, constantly in the spotlight!? Or do you want to find the "you" that makes you comfortable and happy!. The person who enjoys her life regardless of what comes her way!. Find a way to let all the bad stuff go- I mean you'll still have to pay bills, but don't think and worry about it so much!.

Take dare of your inner life and everything else will begin to fall into place!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No i cant say i do!.!.!. but think of it this way, you are still so lucky to be alive!. and with all the things you have been through someone is certainly on your side!. you say you havent accomplished all you want but all you need is a little faith in yourself!. you have been through so much doesnt that give you at least a little inspiration to live the life you want!? just belive in yourself and have faith that everything will turn out ok!. so far you always made it through hard times!. when things get bad they can always get better, and the bad things always make you truly appreciate the good moments!.!.!.no matter how big or small!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well you could be like me, thinking about how to commit suicide, and then actually doing it!.

I wish i could make your life better, i would trade what i take for granted to have a normal life!.

time is all that remains!. How to deal with it is the choice we have!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweety you need to seek JESUS, you have been through hell already, aren't you tired!? give him a try and guess what!? He is free of charge!. I will be praying for you my sister!!! If you need to chat on a more personal basis email me and I can add you to my IM!. okay!!! Good Luck on your new journey!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know 3 people that died when they were 15!.

You're WAAAAY ahead of them!.

And, now that you have the problem years out of the way, you can make the rest of your life better!.

If you choose to, that is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i can't say that i have that going on in my life, no!. i'd prescribe weed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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