Depression and Loneliness?!
Question: Depression and Loneliness!?
I have from a chronic condition called vitiligo (patches of the skin turn white) i am Spanish skin color!. For years i have been up and down with depression!. I recently turned 14 (2 months ago) and i liked someone for a while but now i have given up because i know she would not date me!. I have lost interest in most thing i liked even 5 months ago!. Loneliness is always running thru my mind, and i am always thinking about how my future seems hopeless!. My vitiligo has begun spreading at an alarming rate!. I have recently begun turning my back on religion because i feel that god is not listening at all!. I have a few good friends (most of which ive moved away from) i have a couple here but i am always sitting alone on the computer or in my room!. I feel like no one understand what im going thru and my family is always telling me to cheer up and i have no reason to be depressed because i can walk around!.
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how can i overcome this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I've never suffered from depression for long periods of time, but my wife has had chronic depression most of her life!. So I am familiar with what it does to people!. Depression is a real disease!. It is highly treatable and you can be helped!.
I doubt that there is a cure for the vitiligo!. However, the skin condition is just something to blame for the depression, not the real cause!. Go to the doctor and ask for help!.
Don't give up on God!. He is always there and He always listens and He does not burden anyone with more than they can bear!. No one has a burden laid on them that is more than they can stand!. That's in the book! Those who are strongest are given the heaviest loads!. You can do it!. Be glad you are strong!. Smile and remember that no one but you is in charge of your happiness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I doubt that there is a cure for the vitiligo!. However, the skin condition is just something to blame for the depression, not the real cause!. Go to the doctor and ask for help!.
Don't give up on God!. He is always there and He always listens and He does not burden anyone with more than they can bear!. No one has a burden laid on them that is more than they can stand!. That's in the book! Those who are strongest are given the heaviest loads!. You can do it!. Be glad you are strong!. Smile and remember that no one but you is in charge of your happiness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok, first realize that depression is often physical in nature!. Because you are 14, your hormones are changing and probably contributing to your depression!.
It sounds like your depression is made worse because of the skin condition!. Realize that this is probably a temporary condition!. I don't know the treatment options, but medical science is moving ahead so fast, there may be a cure right around the corner!.
To counteract depression, get more exercise!. Something tells me you should be in a Karate or Tai Kwan Do class! That will give you exercise, self confidence, balance and help you make friends!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like your depression is made worse because of the skin condition!. Realize that this is probably a temporary condition!. I don't know the treatment options, but medical science is moving ahead so fast, there may be a cure right around the corner!.
To counteract depression, get more exercise!. Something tells me you should be in a Karate or Tai Kwan Do class! That will give you exercise, self confidence, balance and help you make friends!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get some anti-depressants from the doctor, get a referral for counseling!. Then get involved in clubs and organizations so you are not sitting alone on the computer all the time!. People will accept you!. Start exercising too, it really helps with depression!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, why are you turning from God!? The devil has really got a grip on you! Start opening up your bible and start going to church!. Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
do things with ur friends get out of your house even try to b friends with the girl u like if u find some thing to do that is fun with some one who u r friends with then u wont be lonely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Faith and Prayer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Depression can be treated naturally by your friends and families!. Tell them your problems!. I am sure your boys can understand, then pull into to guys night out dates!. (Go play guitar hero (any other video games) together, order/eat and bet on the piles of pizza you can eat for that night) If you are a more lonely person (you might start reading a series of books, or spend more time with your family <pets are helpful: they listen to everything>)
Your School Counselor helps too!. They will listen when no one does!.
About vitiligo- do not get yourself tanned!. wear sunblocks when you go outside!. Always keep thinking positive because I been often discouraged at my white hair that started at age 13!. I don't dye my hair, I want people to recognize that it's not my fault for looking old at a young age because it was my DNAs fault for cutting off the color pigment in my hair and not my fault (I cannot control something involuntary)!. Also, your friends and family will get used to of what you look like (mine did with my hair)!. Cheer up!.
Loneliness is not cured by dating!. Every human being on earth is like a fisherman in a boat!. We are waiting to catch a true fish!. Would this make you feel better if I told you my dad and mom got devorced because they are not made for each other, but both of them got married again!? They found happiness some where else!. AND you are 14! I am 18 and I don't even date (rit now)!. That doesn't mean I am not going to find another boyfriend soon (I started dating at age 17)!<--- and you are complaining at age 14!.!.!. you make me look bad like a loser!.!.!. ahahaha!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your School Counselor helps too!. They will listen when no one does!.
About vitiligo- do not get yourself tanned!. wear sunblocks when you go outside!. Always keep thinking positive because I been often discouraged at my white hair that started at age 13!. I don't dye my hair, I want people to recognize that it's not my fault for looking old at a young age because it was my DNAs fault for cutting off the color pigment in my hair and not my fault (I cannot control something involuntary)!. Also, your friends and family will get used to of what you look like (mine did with my hair)!. Cheer up!.
Loneliness is not cured by dating!. Every human being on earth is like a fisherman in a boat!. We are waiting to catch a true fish!. Would this make you feel better if I told you my dad and mom got devorced because they are not made for each other, but both of them got married again!? They found happiness some where else!. AND you are 14! I am 18 and I don't even date (rit now)!. That doesn't mean I am not going to find another boyfriend soon (I started dating at age 17)!<--- and you are complaining at age 14!.!.!. you make me look bad like a loser!.!.!. ahahaha!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to think of the things you have and look at the things you enjoy, that's what makes one happy, cuz no one has a perfect life and no one has everything they want to have,for example do this for this moment: close your eyes and ask yourself, what are the things in my life that gives me joy, then answer, you will find that there are many things you can do and enjoy that you wont even have time to be depressed,
just remember no one has a perfect life, every one has got problems and the difference between happy and depressed people is that, happy people think of the things they have and they enjoy and depressed people think of the things they dont have and which gives makes them sad!.!.
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just remember no one has a perfect life, every one has got problems and the difference between happy and depressed people is that, happy people think of the things they have and they enjoy and depressed people think of the things they dont have and which gives makes them sad!.!.
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Please know that there are people who will stand by you and see you for who you are!.!.!.!.
I live in Detroit, and one of our favorite newscasters, Lee Thomas, recently wrote an excellent book on the subject because he was diagnosed with the condition (he is black so it is very noticable)!.!.!.I think it's called "Turning White"!.!.!.!.!.as you can imagine, having the condition and being on television has caused him much trouble!.
Maybe God is giving this to you as a very strange gift!. You can inspire others and know who your true friends are!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
I wish you much luck and am sending love your way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I live in Detroit, and one of our favorite newscasters, Lee Thomas, recently wrote an excellent book on the subject because he was diagnosed with the condition (he is black so it is very noticable)!.!.!.I think it's called "Turning White"!.!.!.!.!.as you can imagine, having the condition and being on television has caused him much trouble!.
Maybe God is giving this to you as a very strange gift!. You can inspire others and know who your true friends are!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
I wish you much luck and am sending love your way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com