Boys and Friends issue, need advice QUICK!?!


Question: Boys and Friends issue, need advice QUICK!!?
I have this new friend, and we'll call her M for now!. and, I like this guy, we'll call him X!. I'm J, ok!? Well, I've liked him for a while and i went to school with him but now we still know eachother but aren't friends and we don't see eachother!. I haven't seen him for about 5/6 months!. We talk on IM, and he's usually nice to me but when my friend signs in, he ignores me and tells me to piss off!. that hurts, and I cry alot about it!. My friend tells me not to bother with guys like that, but I want to impress him!. Life has been putting me down lately, and M is one of my close friends but I've lost trust in her after many things!. Months ago she added X to tell him that I liked him for me, as I was too embarrassed!. she did successfully, but he didn't feel the same way which was OK for me!. but i told her to delete him and she didn't, now they talk nonstop and she's in his Myspace Top friends!.!.!. and i am not even though we talk alot!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
This guy actually told you to "piss off!?"

A little advice: this guy isn't worth going after in the first place!. And honestly, the only way the two of you are going to change is if you leave him alone for a little while!. There needs to be some space, some distance, some time!.!.!.!. Talking to this guy more is only going to drive him away!. You need to step back a bit and concentrate on things that make you happy in life!.

Learn to love yourself!. Get involved with something new!. Maybe learn to play the guitar!. Something that makes you fun, happy, and fulfilled!. Guys will be drawn to that, I promise!. :)

Forget Myspace!. Forget these worthless little high school cliques and jealousy spells!. (I know, easier said than done!.!.!.)!. All of that means a whole hill of nothing, I promise!. Just learn to be you, learn to smile!. Get fit!. Take up running or weights or swimming or get involved in church or what have you!. Learn to feel good about yourself!.

All of the above are ways to impress guys!. An in-shape girl with a life of her own who has a killer smile and a good attitude on life!.!.!.!.unbeatable!.

I also promise you that it's not worth losing a friend over this guy!. Unless you can look at the guy and say, "This is a guy I can see myself marrying," it's not!. And if you can't see yourself marrying, yet, it's really not worth it!. There are plenty of others out there, probably more than a few who are but a smile and a compliment away from asking you out!.

On top of this, you're probably going to screw up a relationship or two down the road!. It's going to be good to have a friend to fall back on when that happens!. Trust me!. If I were you, I'd apologize to your friend, tell her that you really liked this guy, and that you let it make you jealous towards her!. Thank her for being a friend and asking about this guy for you!. And then tell her that you don't want a guy to come between you two!. #1 This will solidify your friendship!. #2 This will make her feel a bit guilty if she has been running around with this guy!. #3 It actually lets her know that you were mad, gives you a very small chance to vent, and then to move beyond it!.!.!.!.all in a few short lines!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

honestly, u won't like my answer, but move on, and once ur over it, then tell M that u WERE mad at her!.
no idea if this is good advice or not!.!.!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

A wise woman I know once said ' Men in your life will come and go but your women friends are there for life' - and it's true!. Don't bother with this guy - he's obviously not interested in you, go out and have fun with your friends and you'll soon meet another guy who will like you!. And accept the fact that your friend may start going out with the first guy!. That's just the way these things happen and you have to start getting used to it - it's all part of the search for the one special person you want to spend your life with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you don't mind me asking, how old R you!? It sounds like you are in high school!. Unfortunately you will go thru this not just now!. But many times!. Most of the PPL you are friends with now, you wont be when you get older!. Take it as a life lesson!. Be friends with your friend and NEVER let a man come between you!. Men come and go!. Friends that are TRUE friends, don't!. You will come to understand what kind of drama you want in your life and what kind you don



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