Help? I HATE my life?!


Question: Help!? I HATE my life!?
I have been depressed lately, for atleast months now!. I hate myself, people have caused me to hate myself!. I get insulted and picked on constantly at school for being ugly, they enjoy my pain!. I don't fit in anywhere and no one understands me!. I have a few good friends, but i cant talk to them!. I am failing school, I can't seem to focus and i loose everything!. I have basically cut my contact from most people, I hardly see or talk to anyone!. No one in my family can relate to me, my mom cares about herself more then me!. She spends loads of money on things like making the house look nice and pointless stuff that she finds for cheep prices, and then when i need things (ex: counceling or anger management or help) we all of a sudden dont have any money!. I am nothing compared to my succesfull and perfect family!. i feel invisible and i dont fit in anywhere!. Im sorry for ranting but can anyone help me!? or atleast relate to me!? Please no rude comments or saying i need to stop felin sry 4 myselfWww@Answer-Health@Com


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hi, im going to give you some advice!. First, get a journal!. Write everything down, all of your feelings and thoughts!. For starters you can put what you just wrote here, in your journal!. Second, write down 100 things that you like about yourself!. Think, even though you are going through a hard time now, it will make you stronger in the long run!. Try to do something that makes you happy, ex: going for a walk, shopping, picking flowers, watching a movie, or excersize!. Listen to music, there are a ton of songs that relate to how your feeling, try listening to these and then try listening to some happy songs!. As for school, its almost over!. This is a hard time in your life, but once school is over this year, you need to make a serious action plan as to how you will become more organized and focused in order to do better!. Little by little, try spending more time with other people!. Know that you are not alone, there are tons of other teenagers out there going through hard time just like you, so dont worry!. Plan for your future, that makes you feel better to know that you have something to live for!. Realize that you are beautiful, everyone is unique in their own way!. Try getting a pet, that gives you a sense that there is someone who loves you and depends on you!. Take a weekend to yourself, examine the way you are feeling, and sleep!. I know that sounds weird, but it helps!. Think about the happy things and the things that are good in your life!. Watch a funny movie or tv show!. Try to meditate or relax, take a hot shower, find your happy place!. Take a deep breath and smile!. I hope this helps & feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow, i feel horrible!. Just find your best qualities and think about them!. Be proud of yourself when you get a compliment or good grade!. and most of all!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
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SMILE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell the teacher and have a talk with your parents!. then u will feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi, you seem to be around mi age group!. in high school or around there!. In my opinion the first thing you need to realize(which you may have already) is that the people that pick on you do so only in a joking manner to laugh themselves and especially entertain thier friends!. This means that whatever they may say is probobly not true!. As far as school goes, i am relatively smart so i am not in expert in failing, but try going and asking the teacher after class for some extra help!. 9 times out of ten they will help you!. unless their a real *****!. lol!. Chances are that now is a trying time for all teenagers but the time will pass and people mature and act less stupid as time goes on!. If you feel really sad or upset with one person in particular, try going to the school's guidence counselor!. i know this can be embarrassing but they can talk to your parents about getting help!. when all else fails do what the other person said is find a hobby!. maybe its walking in a local park, drawing or whatever!. i hope my advise is useful!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

ok!. same here!. its rly hard but no matte what always find a gud sie to things!. i kno dat everyone allways says this but its easier than u think, everytime u think about it, say to urself, positive!. i mean, i knoe there looks like theres nothing positive for u rite now but what bout, uareusing a computer and u have just expressed urself meaning not everything is kept inside!. and that since ur on da computer, u mite as well have sum fun!. im not gonna say stop feeling sorry for urself because everyone does that but look around u!. everyone u see, no matter how perfect thir lives may look, there hiding something just as bad that u dont know about!. Everyone has problems and if u listen carefully, sum have rly stewpid problems but they think its rly big!. its not because ur problem is worse, ts because its big for them!. just like how u think ur problem is big!. if sum other people read it, they'll probably be thinking that they wih they were u!. another positive, u can get answers from yahoo answers for ur problems!.
dont worry bout people calling u ugly or wateva!. the best way is just either to totally ignore them, laugh wit them, (depending how bitchhhiee they are!. or find something u can use against them dat they cant give a combak for!.!.!.(first one is da best one, i would be rly rly rly careful if u are gonna us da others)
hope this helped u!. memba!. POSITIVE! hehe!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What these assholes have done is thrown their **** on the image you have of you!.

Because you believe the image is you, you hate yourself!.
But the image is not you, like a postcard isn't the landscape!.

Whether you will take a journey to know the landscape, or just keep a damaged postcard---this is up to you!.

I suggest a tour guide!. Eckhart Tolle!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok im gonna tell you this: i suffered from deppression for a while but what i did was relieze good things bout myself even if they are small like, my hair always looks nice or i can beat the crap out of people in 5 minutes!. Just say to yourself "you know this is me and there will never be anyone else like me so im very special!" do something that you will get remembered by!. Make an amazing art project or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com

i kno how u feel kinda when i was younger i had kinda the same problem i also have depression now dont kno if i had it back then but got it now!. You say ppl call u ugly and pick on you i say you say **** THEM thats it just live your life and do what makes you feel good!. i would suggest a hole new start get your things in order like school work and fixing what you feel insecure about!. Also try to get depression meds if needed they should help u talk to ppl and listen and just not care about the stupid *** holes around!. GOOD LUCK **** THOSE PPL AND LET YOUR PARENTS REALLY KNOW WHATS WRONGWww@Answer-Health@Com

As soon as you get connected with God, you will find life delightful and worth living!. Just come to Jesus with genuine repentance and faith, you will have peace, joy, purpose for your living!. Life is God's great gift for each of us!.

In the Beginning God created heavens and earth!.
God gives us air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy!.
God gives us water to drink and food to eat!.
God gives us a wonderful body and a sound mind and life!.
God loves us, and we are precious to Him!.
The Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven!.
Jesus



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