I would love to just be self-destructive?!


Question: I would love to just be self-destructive!?
I just want to cut myself, deep, go out and drink, do x, dance, smoke and sleep with random guys!. It gives me this really nice feeling when I think about doing those things!. The only reason I haven't done those things is b/c I am grounded for shoplifting and bad behaviour at school, and my mother is keeping a very close watch on me!. But the only reason I shoplifted and acted out at school was b/c I was angry, I still am, and just wanted to yell out and ruin things!. I have worked hard to keep a clean, good image, but I can't take life anymore!. So I don't care!.

I spent a lot of time with my best friend lately and now all of the sudden she isn't spending that much time with me, and I am so confused!. I want to be her friend, but I am angry at her, I want to push her away, but I want her all for myself!. It's hard!. I think she hates me and is going to abondon me, even though she promised she never would, she keeps on complimenting me but I dont belive someone can like me that much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi,

Your friend is pulling back because you are doing things that are not good!. Her parents also may not want you hanging around you because of your distructive behavior!. Your friend still cares about you and doesn't want you to hurt yourself!. If she didn't care she wouldn't be complimenting you (which is how she truely feels) or continue talking with you!.

The reason your being so distructive is because you are very upset about something or things going on in your life!. It will help you out alot to find a support group or counciler to talk things out!. Most schools have a Counciler which is a good place to start!. You want to talk with someone who is trained and knows how to help!.

Sometimes I find that playing video games helps; it gets your mind off of what is bothering you!.

Your mom Grounded you because she loves you and and cares about you!. She wants you to have a better life!. Believe it or not your Mom loves you very much!.

I should know I'm a caring and loving Dad to 3 girls and have had to ground my daughters too!.

Sincerely signed one caring Dad
AKA BusterWww@Answer-Health@Com

feelings like this can be some-what normal for teenagers and such!. maybe you should tell your friend how you feel!. she seems to care about you so im sure she will listen!. also you can try out counseling it helps to talk to someone you know wont judge you!. and dont be too angry at your mother she's keeping a close eye on you because she cares!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Have at it!. Just remember once your life is ruined, then it's ruined for good!. You can't undo things later in life when you regret them!. But hey it's your choice to go act selfish and destroy yourself!. Just know that you are hurting people who love you in the process!. If you are that selfish of a child, I wish you luck on your self destructive rampage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take my meds and then you won't be able to do much at all!.

About the self-harm, I used to self-harm and I did it very badly one night!. Four years on and I still have disfiguring scars which I have to either hide or let people figure it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think ur friend just wants 2 b there 4 u, and i think it wud b a bad idea 2 push her away!. those things may give u a gd feeling wen u think of them but if u actually did them i doubt it wud make you feel gdWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like you have borderline personality disorder from what you've described!. By the way!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.what's your question!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Awwww!.!.!.!.what a sweet girl!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You just want attention!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay, as a former self harmer, this is what cutting gets you!.!.instant gratification and control!.!.then in the next minute you have scars - regret- remorse- and you feel like an idiot!. Drinking and doing x could likely kill you and sleeping with random guys could get you the same!. Hey, we were all rebellious as teens, but you have to keep the rebellion to a safe level!. You have to figure out why you are so angry!. If you need to talk to someone, tell your mother or talk to the guidance counselor at school!.
As for your best friend!.!.why don't you think someone could like you that much!? I think it's really that you don't like yourself that much!. You have to love yourself first for people to be able to love you!.
Please be well, don't destroy your life and get some help!. I've been down the road you are heading down and it wasn't a picnic!. Don't throw the pieces of your life down unless you really are prepared to pick them up later!. This is the only life you have, treat it well!. Treat you well!.
t!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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