How to get over my Grandpa's death?!
Question: How to get over my Grandpa's death!?
My Grandpa dies of Cancer and I Never went in to see him when he was dead and I feel as if I missed my chance to ever see him again and my whole family hates me because I did not go in to see his dead body!.!.!.and all these thoughts are comming to my attention!. How to overcome this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Don't worry so much about it!. It was the body, not the person you didn't go to see!. As long as you remember him the way he was, it is maybe even better!.
My father passed away last summer and I saw him dead, and it wasn't him anymore!. It took me quite some time to get over the fact, that this was whatever was left of him, and I wish I hadn't seen him like that at all!.
If your family is weird, tell that you wanted to keep your grandfather in your memory as you knew him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My father passed away last summer and I saw him dead, and it wasn't him anymore!. It took me quite some time to get over the fact, that this was whatever was left of him, and I wish I hadn't seen him like that at all!.
If your family is weird, tell that you wanted to keep your grandfather in your memory as you knew him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You dont have to feel bad for not seeing your grandfathers body!.
And you dont have to feel bad for the way you feel
Everyone handles loss differently and no one should make you feel bad for not doing what they thought was right!.
Your grandfather would not care if you didnt see his dead body!.
Your family is wrong for making you feel bad!. You did what you were comfortable with!. It was not their decision!. It was yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And you dont have to feel bad for the way you feel
Everyone handles loss differently and no one should make you feel bad for not doing what they thought was right!.
Your grandfather would not care if you didnt see his dead body!.
Your family is wrong for making you feel bad!. You did what you were comfortable with!. It was not their decision!. It was yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why does your family hate you because you didn't view your grandfather's body!? My grandmother died just after New Year this year and while I miss her a lot and still find myself thinking of her often (and cry when I do), with each passing day it gets a little easier!. By the way, I am 37 and couldn't bring myself to approach her casket!. I stood in the back of the room and could see her from there and that was more than enough!. I want to remember her happy and smiling, not laying in a box!.!.!. just a shell of who she was!. Miss you Grandma!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just know that your grandpa knows you are sorry for not seeing him!. I'm sure his spirit is with you & your family!. He knows you loved him very much! Don't worry about what your family says, he knew how you felt and he knows how you feel now!.!.!.!.You'll be ok, he'll make sure of it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
my mom is like this to she can;t handle seeing dead body's so went she went to mom's and dad's she was there but didn;t really doesn't see the body, your parent's shouldn't hate you for that, it's not your fault your made that way!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just close ur eyes, and take deep breath, u will see ur grand pa is near to u, say sorry to him and do some help of needy people like buying cloths, eating and just giving them some money, and tell them to pray to GOD for my grandpaWww@Answer-Health@Com
After he is buried or cremated, go see him with your family and pay your respect!. If you're religious, pray for your grandpa!. At his grave, remember everything you guys done together!. It'll help!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For the cure of any mental sickness,try homeopathy before you try psychotherapy!.Homeo!.cures mind swifter than any other systemWww@Answer-Health@Com
It's fine that you didn't want to see him!. I wouldn't want to go in and see a pitiful dead body of someone I loved! I probably couldn't withstand it! It's okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-Love and Hate are two sides of the same coin!. They are still your family and care bout you!.
-Face your fears!.
-Dont pity the dead, grandpa wouldnt want that!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
-Face your fears!.
-Dont pity the dead, grandpa wouldnt want that!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Think that he is in GOD's handWww@Answer-Health@Com