I'm depressed, I want to hurt myself, but how can I do it without my mom fin!
Question: I'm depressed, I want to hurt myself, but how can I do it without my mom finding out!?
The last time I scratched myself with thorns I managed to get away with it by lying that it was my bird's claws when I held him on my hands!. I don't think I can do that again !. !. !.
A few years ago I punched into a box filled with fragments of glass, and the robbery-combat members of the neighbour came rushing on their motorbikes thinking someone had broken into a house through a window!. I don't want that to happen again!.
I also tried whipping my legs but makes huge sounds across the house and I'm scared somebody will come running to see what's going on!.
There's a limit to what I can do !. !. !. what other choices to I have!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
A few years ago I punched into a box filled with fragments of glass, and the robbery-combat members of the neighbour came rushing on their motorbikes thinking someone had broken into a house through a window!. I don't want that to happen again!.
I also tried whipping my legs but makes huge sounds across the house and I'm scared somebody will come running to see what's going on!.
There's a limit to what I can do !. !. !. what other choices to I have!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hey, i know that there are a lot of reasons for your depression!. it may be your social life, your love life or anything that bothers you a lot!. you may have been through a lot of pressure and stuff, but the thing is, why hurt yourself!? do you realize you are hurting others too!? im not blaming you for anything!. but its just that, sometimes, dont you realize that there are many people out there who love you!. who are willing to be your friend!. who are willing to love you the way you are!.walk out of your depression!. i know you can do it!. do it for those you love!. everythings just so hard these days, i may not feel your pain but i somehow understand!. stop hurting yourself!. please!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can recognize that wanting to do yourself damage isn't right!. Your other choice is the toughest one, to recognize that you don't have to be depressed and trying to hurt yourself, you need to see a professional and work through to the real psychological pain that makes you want to cover it up with physical pain!.
So if you want hurt, do the work that gets you out of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So if you want hurt, do the work that gets you out of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Instead of finding ways to hurt yourself, try to help yourself!. Talk to a proffessional or a friend who is trustworthy about your depression- it is hard work but so much more healthier! In the meantime, I did read that flicking rubber bands on your wrist hurt alot without permanent damage or marks!. But it still isn't healthy!. Do yourself a huge favour and find the trigger for your depression, maybe it was an event or a person that caused it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dont hurt yourself you could lose respect from both you and your family if they find out my friend cut herself i told her if she does it again im not talking to her and i meant it if your depressed talk to someone close to you or go see a professional ive got 1 depressing lifestyle nobody could understand or live but i put up with it i dont hurt myselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
get help now!.since you like hurting yourself it willseem painful to you to actually save your life and return to being normal whatever that is in this day and age!. i can be a big pain in the butt, don't do anything self destructive 'til you have a few dates with me lol!. seriously i think you may have some deep rooted issues that need addressing, please don't hurt yourself we are strangers but siblings via mother earth, therefore i and others care!. seek help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here are other safer ways:
1!. Whenever you feel the need to hurt yourself write in a journal instead!.
2!. Call a friend when you feeling depressed, see if they want to hangout!.
3!. Go for a walk in the park alone!.
4!. Join the gym, working out is a great to relieve stress/depression!.
5!. See a therapist
6!. Write a list of why you are soo amazing and whenever you feel depressed go over that list!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
1!. Whenever you feel the need to hurt yourself write in a journal instead!.
2!. Call a friend when you feeling depressed, see if they want to hangout!.
3!. Go for a walk in the park alone!.
4!. Join the gym, working out is a great to relieve stress/depression!.
5!. See a therapist
6!. Write a list of why you are soo amazing and whenever you feel depressed go over that list!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
God, what is it with you weird emo's!?!?!? You need the help of a qualified mental professional!. Stop wallowing in sadness of your own making and stop complaining about how worthless life is !. Kill yourself if it's that big a deal!. Don't you dare drag other people into your messed up world and deal with your problems the right way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have a serious issue and you need to deal with it!. Please get some therapy now!. By hiding this all you are doing is building up more problems, one day you will not be able to contain yourself!. Talk to your family and get get some real help!. Go to this site, I think it will be beneficial as well!.
http://psychcentral!.com/Www@Answer-Health@Com
http://psychcentral!.com/Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow this is scarey! Honey, You need to talk to your parents about whats bothering you and then you need to get professional medical help!. Pls don't do anymore damage to yourself!. Its not solving your problems!. Go talk to your parents or a close friend!.!.!.!.NOW!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to go and get some professional!. There is an inner reason that makes you want to hurt yourself, and the best way to find out what it is is to be open and honest with a counselor!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont solve depression with a bad solution!.!.!.
seek help from a friend!.!.!. and the best friend whom you can count on is GOD!. ask him in a prayer!.!.!. and you will be fine!.
trust me!.!. its effective!Www@Answer-Health@Com
seek help from a friend!.!.!. and the best friend whom you can count on is GOD!. ask him in a prayer!.!.!. and you will be fine!.
trust me!.!. its effective!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First, try to discuss this with your mom!. If you cannot please contact the National Mental Health Association Hotline!. 800-273-TALK (8255) they will be able to provide you with help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seek professional helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
you seriously need some proffesional helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
If u really wanna to hurt yourself, come to me I will cure you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you need to talk to someone professionalWww@Answer-Health@Com
You've got one option left, and that is to talk to your mum!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
so many complications!.!.what for!?
why don't you try dealing with your problems in a mature and healthy way, eh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
why don't you try dealing with your problems in a mature and healthy way, eh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
0_O!.!.!. Now when I have read this I feel!.!.!. Disturbed!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go and get urself fcked reli hard ok!?!.!.!.!.dat way!.!.!.you'll get hurt reli hard!.!.!.and not in a bad way!.!.!.dats my opinion and suggestion!.!.!.!.heheWww@Answer-Health@Com
are u crazy!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
depressed!?
go hang out even if alone
but hurt ur self this is sick and crazyWww@Answer-Health@Com
depressed!?
go hang out even if alone
but hurt ur self this is sick and crazyWww@Answer-Health@Com
DONT HURT YOURSELF!!!!!
surely there's a reason on why you did this!?
Trust me, its NOT worth throwing and endangering your life away!.
The cause of you depression, whatever it may be is not worth your life because if you keep on hurting yourself it will never solve anything in life!. If you feel unloved, that's a lie!. Someone DOES love you and will always watch out for you, if you feel hopeless you just need to hang on there because that's all you got left!. I think you're a deep person and that you dont deserve to be hurt because you are very important to someone! even if you fake smiling, its a whole lot better than being hurt! please! do not ever think that you are a mistake because you are not! and that you are meant to be in this crazy world for a reason, you just need to accept that life's a fact!. It always will be, and that you hurting yourself wont get you nowhere!. so please! please! dont hurt yourself
God bless you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
surely there's a reason on why you did this!?
Trust me, its NOT worth throwing and endangering your life away!.
The cause of you depression, whatever it may be is not worth your life because if you keep on hurting yourself it will never solve anything in life!. If you feel unloved, that's a lie!. Someone DOES love you and will always watch out for you, if you feel hopeless you just need to hang on there because that's all you got left!. I think you're a deep person and that you dont deserve to be hurt because you are very important to someone! even if you fake smiling, its a whole lot better than being hurt! please! do not ever think that you are a mistake because you are not! and that you are meant to be in this crazy world for a reason, you just need to accept that life's a fact!. It always will be, and that you hurting yourself wont get you nowhere!. so please! please! dont hurt yourself
God bless you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
please don't hurt yourself!.
Try this instead
Mediation technique
We experience life through our mind!.
Experiences are what they are, but the mind often puts a new spin on them, making them seem worse at times!.
This produces the pain we feel inside, and when it builds up enough we either hurt others or ourselves!.
Not because we are bad or evil, but we aren't sure how to deal with the agony inside!.
The longer it stays, the more dead/dull we feel inside!.
Meditation is all about controlling you mind rather than being controlled by it!.
It is difficult to directly approach the mind and tame it, so we start by approaching the nearest manifestation of it- breath!.
It can be seen that when we have tremendous concentration we are not breathing as regularly, and when upset breath shallow and rapid!.
How to do this!.
Begin by becoming aware of your breath!.
With each inhalation pay attention to the air entering you right nostril(air will enter both,but focus on the column of air in the right side)
Exhale and pay attention to the column leaving your left nostril!.
Inhale and pay attention to air entering the left nostril
Exhale and pay attention to air exiting the right nostril!.
Then breath deep and feel the air in both sides rise up to the tip of your nose(like an inverted V ),
and push it all out(feeling both sides)!.
This is one cycle, you can do up to 100 in a day!.
It is a simple game to keep the mind busy(if you loose track on count restart), and off the things it can't change with worry(realistically everything)!.
As you get better at this you'll be able to identify a space between your thoughts!. As that awareness deepens you'll feel a peace when it arises!. And soon you should be able to identify yourself as that peace rather than your mind!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try this instead
Mediation technique
We experience life through our mind!.
Experiences are what they are, but the mind often puts a new spin on them, making them seem worse at times!.
This produces the pain we feel inside, and when it builds up enough we either hurt others or ourselves!.
Not because we are bad or evil, but we aren't sure how to deal with the agony inside!.
The longer it stays, the more dead/dull we feel inside!.
Meditation is all about controlling you mind rather than being controlled by it!.
It is difficult to directly approach the mind and tame it, so we start by approaching the nearest manifestation of it- breath!.
It can be seen that when we have tremendous concentration we are not breathing as regularly, and when upset breath shallow and rapid!.
How to do this!.
Begin by becoming aware of your breath!.
With each inhalation pay attention to the air entering you right nostril(air will enter both,but focus on the column of air in the right side)
Exhale and pay attention to the column leaving your left nostril!.
Inhale and pay attention to air entering the left nostril
Exhale and pay attention to air exiting the right nostril!.
Then breath deep and feel the air in both sides rise up to the tip of your nose(like an inverted V ),
and push it all out(feeling both sides)!.
This is one cycle, you can do up to 100 in a day!.
It is a simple game to keep the mind busy(if you loose track on count restart), and off the things it can't change with worry(realistically everything)!.
As you get better at this you'll be able to identify a space between your thoughts!. As that awareness deepens you'll feel a peace when it arises!. And soon you should be able to identify yourself as that peace rather than your mind!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You could always just NOT hurt yourself, and talk to me instead!.!.!.!. besides!.!. if you realllllly wanna hurt yourself, like badly!.!.!.!.!. then I do suggest talking to me!.!.!. im so fvcking smart, I will probably explode your brain and make your ears bleed , backwards!.!.!.!. i dunno about you!.!.!.!. but to me!.!.!. that would hurt!.!. so next time!.!.!. just strike up a conversation with yours truly!.!. and get some band aids ready!.!.!.lol and cotton balls!.!.!. for your ears!.!.!. oh and I guess you wont need band aids really, after your brain explodes!.!.!. im not even sure you can put a band aid on a brain!.!. wont hurt to try though right!? So yea bring them along I guess!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the funny thing is that I am you!. At least I was!. I has done everything that you have done at the end of the day when I felt alone, broken, hurt I cried and cried and cried until I was no longer anything let alone a person!. Last year when I tried to kill myself, I realized that it wasnt worth it!. I am not a strong person, let alone a stable person, but I am a person who will not take the easy way out by killing every inch of me!. Scares dont leave, if they did then the memories would mean nothing!. You are not disturbing or crazy, you are me!. Making yourself hurt and bleed is not the answer nor does it ever really help!. we bleed, we heal, and we bleed again but what you (and i until it was late) dont realize that we can stay healed!. who is to say we have to bleed again!. We are worthy people, we desirve to live!. you do to!. I know you are smart because I am a fan of yours!. I was never strong, but i will no longer be weak!. you shouldnt be either!. if you still feel like hurting your self take scissors to you upper leg, no one sees it there!. But dont, because I will cry and please dont make me cryWww@Answer-Health@Com