I'm sick and alone now what?!
Question: I'm sick and alone now what!?
I have very limited social skills because I'm in pain all the time!. I've been fighting the sickness for years and years and don't see much use in trying anymore when everyone starts labeling you as a phsyco (did I spelll that right)!. Well I can see why people say that about me, i am in pain all the time mentally and physically, all though I'm a kind genuine person inside the pain just limits my social interactions!. So I'm different and people treat me as so!. In other words I can't have a girlfriend, can't lead a normal life so people just don't really want to deal with me!. I'm not really a part of this world anymore, all I feel is pain and dementia!. The worst thing is for the most part I look normal on the outside which has people approach me and then I talk to them and I always see that disturbed face they give me!. So I just don't want to see that anymore!. I'm thinking of ending my life, too many things lost!. It hurts to fall in love and then they leave because of the illnessWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I've made a link to Jesus Christ, who is changing me little by little every day!.
I understand what you are going through, because, I have been there, done that, and got the T-shirt!.!.!.and matching shoes!.
I don't believe you are sick!. What I have found out about me, is that it was just plain immaturaty!. I was never taught how to handle my emotions, and was always protected from the "outside world!." Then when it came time for me to deal with it, I was not prepared!.
You are probably doing what I did, and that was try to please everyone!. That left me starving spiritually, broke, and walking!. Understand that people see in you something they want, steal it from you, and then let you suffer!. You must not let them do this!. When I thought it was too late for me, I began taking control, and stopped being a doormat for people!.
I woke up every morning and say, "Today, I will take care of myself!." I had to literally FORCE myself out of bed to bathe, eat, and dress!. I had to FORCE myself to leave the house and confront life, and live it!. DO NOT think that you are sick and in need of medication!. No!. You are inexperienced!. This inexperience hurt you!. As a result, you listened to everyone else, and ignored your own voice!.
Understand that you are a leader!. So, lead yourself!. It's good to go by the motto, "JUST DO IT!" It doesn't matter if you don't know how!. Just go get it done, and learn!. But, in my experience, sitting around worrying about what others think doesn't help!. If you catch yourself thinking what it might look like to others, you need to stop it!. Of course, breaking the law!.!.!.is wrong!. You don't do that!. But, you must live your own life!. Others do not live your life, so they do not tell you how to live it!. You figure that out for yourself, and you will be a whole lot happier!. You will still get depressed like everyone else, but you will be able to bounce back!.
Another thing!. Sitting at home in front of the tube doesn't help!. Take a stand on what you believe is right!. Then live and do right!. Get a job!. If you don't have one, seek one until you do have one!. When you get one, do the best job you can possibly do in the time you have!. Then, pat yourself on the back!. No one will compliment you!. So, you have to compliment yourself!. After bills are paid, heck, go stag, and take yourself out on the town! Who cares what anyone thinks!?
You are responsible to only 3 entities in this life!.!.!.and that is your conscience, the laws of the land, and God!. No one, or nothing else!.!.!.matters!. Period!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand what you are going through, because, I have been there, done that, and got the T-shirt!.!.!.and matching shoes!.
I don't believe you are sick!. What I have found out about me, is that it was just plain immaturaty!. I was never taught how to handle my emotions, and was always protected from the "outside world!." Then when it came time for me to deal with it, I was not prepared!.
You are probably doing what I did, and that was try to please everyone!. That left me starving spiritually, broke, and walking!. Understand that people see in you something they want, steal it from you, and then let you suffer!. You must not let them do this!. When I thought it was too late for me, I began taking control, and stopped being a doormat for people!.
I woke up every morning and say, "Today, I will take care of myself!." I had to literally FORCE myself out of bed to bathe, eat, and dress!. I had to FORCE myself to leave the house and confront life, and live it!. DO NOT think that you are sick and in need of medication!. No!. You are inexperienced!. This inexperience hurt you!. As a result, you listened to everyone else, and ignored your own voice!.
Understand that you are a leader!. So, lead yourself!. It's good to go by the motto, "JUST DO IT!" It doesn't matter if you don't know how!. Just go get it done, and learn!. But, in my experience, sitting around worrying about what others think doesn't help!. If you catch yourself thinking what it might look like to others, you need to stop it!. Of course, breaking the law!.!.!.is wrong!. You don't do that!. But, you must live your own life!. Others do not live your life, so they do not tell you how to live it!. You figure that out for yourself, and you will be a whole lot happier!. You will still get depressed like everyone else, but you will be able to bounce back!.
Another thing!. Sitting at home in front of the tube doesn't help!. Take a stand on what you believe is right!. Then live and do right!. Get a job!. If you don't have one, seek one until you do have one!. When you get one, do the best job you can possibly do in the time you have!. Then, pat yourself on the back!. No one will compliment you!. So, you have to compliment yourself!. After bills are paid, heck, go stag, and take yourself out on the town! Who cares what anyone thinks!?
You are responsible to only 3 entities in this life!.!.!.and that is your conscience, the laws of the land, and God!. No one, or nothing else!.!.!.matters!. Period!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't mention what the pain is from, so it's difficult to offer suggestions!.
If it's mental pain, are you seeking treatment!? If not, why not help yourself by getting some!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
If it's mental pain, are you seeking treatment!? If not, why not help yourself by getting some!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey we all have things that bog us down, and yes it sounds like your situation is a difficult one, but let"s try to work on this one thing at a time!. First the pain, I have known many people with chronic pain that use not only presription drugs but also herbs and holistic healing also!. The girlfriend thing , well thats just a wrong way to look at it!. There are so many ways to connect with someone other than in a physical way, intamicy is mostly a mind thing anyway!. I wont pretend to know how you are feeling, all I am saying is I've continplated ending my life also, but in the end it wasn't what I needed to do!. Do you have family that will help you!? I have found that to be a tremendous boost when needed!. I hope you don't mind me asking but, what is it that you have!? anyways, if you need to talk more but don't want to use this way, my E-mail deidre!.robbins@yahoo!.com Please don't give up, there is more life out there for you to live believe me ;o)Www@Answer-Health@Com