I feel so stupid, can anyone relate?!
Question: I feel so stupid, can anyone relate!?
Im junior year in highschool and i have been sucking in many subjects oppose to last year where i actually cared!. Im to the point where i want out of school and thing highschool is a joke!. Well i have been trying to do well, but it almost seems hopeless considering our school is on probation for not meeting the accumalative requirments for the state!. Well since this has been discovered, our school has been rather put down and i have to say that it is affecting me!. I feel hopeless as hell!.!.!.i cant seem to CARE!.!.!.i feel so incopentent that im to the point where i believe college will be unmanagable!. I know putting myself down constantly wont bring any good results but i cant seem to help it!. Any words of advice or similar experiences that can relate to this !.!.!.PLEASE TELLWww@Answer-Health@Com
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When I was a junior in high school I felt much like you did!. I was an excellent student in freshman and sophomore year, then things got complicated during junior year- friends acting strangely, teachers judging me for my brother's legal mistakes, etc, etc!. I got so down and out that I just didn't even want to show up, but I knew that high school was important!. Unfortunately, I put so much pressure on myself to have an A, that if I didn't achieve that, it wasn't good enough, so I gave up and failed a whole semester! Then I really felt bad!
You have to just decide that this is just one stage in your life!. Get through this bull **** and this school year and then your done until senior year!. If by the time senior year starts, you still feel the same about this school then transfer to another one!. I think that you just have to accept yourself for who you are, focus on your academics and forget all the other drama, because none of it will matter when high school is done anyway! And, if you fail, it will suck, but it's not the end of the world and you can always go to junior/community college before attending university!. I did that, graduated with honors, and am now a grad student!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to just decide that this is just one stage in your life!. Get through this bull **** and this school year and then your done until senior year!. If by the time senior year starts, you still feel the same about this school then transfer to another one!. I think that you just have to accept yourself for who you are, focus on your academics and forget all the other drama, because none of it will matter when high school is done anyway! And, if you fail, it will suck, but it's not the end of the world and you can always go to junior/community college before attending university!. I did that, graduated with honors, and am now a grad student!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i know that for me, school has always been really tough, and i never really realized how important it was until this year!. I think that in your situation, you should try switching to a better school, or maybe be tested for a learning disorder (which isent weird or make u stupid or anything because it is said that almost 40% of the world population has one!.) Don't give up though, because especially in your junior year, when you have to prepare for SATS, it is so important!. Think about it, the college that you go to, and how well u do in college determines everything about you!. You want to be someone who has a good job, can make their own money, save their own money, and be indepenedent!. Do u think that all of these rich people got rich for not working!? NO!. so if you want to have a good life for yourself, it starts now!. Just remember that and don't give up!. But it starts within believing in yourself!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I cant help very much but I will say this I never took a book home when I was in school and was satified with a b average and if I would have tried I could have made all A's and went to college but now I'm in a dead end job and i'm to old to go back to college cause I have kids and bills to pay, so please put forth the effort and do something with your life while your still young and canWww@Answer-Health@Com
you should study hard to pass from the school!. then if possible, transfer to another school!. you wouldnt know maybe transfering to another school will make you study harder!.!.!. you should atleast pass to get to college!. school is very importantWww@Answer-Health@Com
Due to the schools rathing you could probably get transfered!. See about this first don't let them or anyone else take your futureWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well, I've been out of school for awhile, but, you need to stop and think a minute about how important this is!.! Maybe you need to take a short break!. Go visit a good friend and talk, take some "girl time" and seek some good advice!. "this too shall pass"!. Sometimes school can seem overwhelming!. You need to get back to caring again!. Go do something that you enjoy doing!. Get your mind off school for a little bit!. Believe me, you will be glad you did!. Then you can get back to the business of getting an education!. I've been out of school for 40 years, and 2 1/2 years ago my job told me I have to get a degree! Soooooo, I registered at our Community College and applied for financial aid, got it and started college!. Probably the best thing I ever did! I do enjoy it, even tho I was terrified at first! I got a couple "A"'s, Couple "B"'s and the rest "C"'s!. One of the "A"'s was in Psychology II ! If I can do this, so can you! I'm 60 Years old! Do you know how that is for me!? I have grown children with children of their own! It's made me feel so good about myself!. So, hang in there, You Can do this! Cheer up, look up, and get going! Good Luck, I know you can do it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is so ironic for me to read because i feel EXACTLY the same right now except i'm a freshman in high school!.
people keep telling me girl as smart as me should be getting better grades but i just don't care for school!.
sucks though because i have to go to summer school, and i'm not going this summer!.!.!.so i have to make up two classes in night school when i'm a junior or senior!.
my only advice to you is to straighten out in high school because you never know what college you might decide you wna go to when the time comes!.!.and even though i don't believe grades tell you how smart a person is, colleges don't know that!. you don't wna regret being denied the college of your dreams because you f*cked up one year or something!.
but right now you're lucky you're in junior high!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
people keep telling me girl as smart as me should be getting better grades but i just don't care for school!.
sucks though because i have to go to summer school, and i'm not going this summer!.!.!.so i have to make up two classes in night school when i'm a junior or senior!.
my only advice to you is to straighten out in high school because you never know what college you might decide you wna go to when the time comes!.!.and even though i don't believe grades tell you how smart a person is, colleges don't know that!. you don't wna regret being denied the college of your dreams because you f*cked up one year or something!.
but right now you're lucky you're in junior high!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ohhh!.!.!.so those little minon (demon) spirits are still alive and doing damage I see!.!.!. Funny they know no bounds, they affected me at that same age many moons ago!. Just wait till the ones hit at you that tell you at age 19/20 that tell you that "everyone in the world has some one but you!." "You'll be an old maid!!." So because it seems everyone you know is getting married, you get crazy and try to find someone/thing to said "I do" with!. Which brings another set of problems with it!.
Why do they come around at this time of your life when you were doing so go last year!? Because the finish line (graduation) is in sight! One more year to go! If they can get you focused on how dumb school is, it is such a waste of time and how I can't stand the teachers or certain students, ect, they keep you locked in their grip to make you quit!. (A loser quits, ever heard that one!?) That is what you become when you quit high school at this stage of the game!. Only the minons won't tell you that, they just try to get you focused on your circumstances!. How you could be doing something much better/pleasant/pleasing R I G H T N O W!.
See, when you go to your first interview for a job and they ask you "do you have a high school diploma!?" (this is what I was told) They are actually trying to see if you were able to follow the rules and accomplish something (the basics)!. So if you want really want to get help seek a pastor at your church for prayer!. If you don't have one seek prayer for strenght from a pentacostal faith or Church of God in Christ church!.
Getting focused on accomplishing the task at hand is going to take self deterimination and desire!.
When your thoughts start to get clouded go for a jog/run around the track!. I was told and found this out for myself that people who work out at the gym tend to have less down moments!. As we work off the stress and focus on accomplishing our training program!. Performing our routines that before we know it, our workout program is complete for another day!. I use to work out every other day!.
Now if you are saved: You can take authority of those depression, mind wandering, mind business spirits, bind them up and cast them off of your body by the blood of Jesus!
Then ask the Holy Spirit to protect you from all interference!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why do they come around at this time of your life when you were doing so go last year!? Because the finish line (graduation) is in sight! One more year to go! If they can get you focused on how dumb school is, it is such a waste of time and how I can't stand the teachers or certain students, ect, they keep you locked in their grip to make you quit!. (A loser quits, ever heard that one!?) That is what you become when you quit high school at this stage of the game!. Only the minons won't tell you that, they just try to get you focused on your circumstances!. How you could be doing something much better/pleasant/pleasing R I G H T N O W!.
See, when you go to your first interview for a job and they ask you "do you have a high school diploma!?" (this is what I was told) They are actually trying to see if you were able to follow the rules and accomplish something (the basics)!. So if you want really want to get help seek a pastor at your church for prayer!. If you don't have one seek prayer for strenght from a pentacostal faith or Church of God in Christ church!.
Getting focused on accomplishing the task at hand is going to take self deterimination and desire!.
When your thoughts start to get clouded go for a jog/run around the track!. I was told and found this out for myself that people who work out at the gym tend to have less down moments!. As we work off the stress and focus on accomplishing our training program!. Performing our routines that before we know it, our workout program is complete for another day!. I use to work out every other day!.
Now if you are saved: You can take authority of those depression, mind wandering, mind business spirits, bind them up and cast them off of your body by the blood of Jesus!
Then ask the Holy Spirit to protect you from all interference!.Www@Answer-Health@Com