Omg he's driving me crazy, how can i deal with him ??? (roommate)?!
Question: Omg he's driving me crazy, how can i deal with him !?!?!? (roommate)!?
What kind of person is he !?
Or what can I do to deal with this crap !?
We're both on the lease for the next 10 months, so we have to make it work!.
He!.!.!.!.!.!.
- is always questioning me / interrogating me
- draws his own conlusions / makes assumptions
- always thinks im doing bad things, for no reason
- worries about things to the point where he believes they are happening
- wait and watches everything i do waiting for me to mess up
- always looks for my flaws so he can point them out and make me feel crappy
- does not stop, does not let up, does not leave me alone
- always trying to read between the lines, or see some hidden motive, even in innocent situations
HELP !?!?!?!?!?
its driving me insane !!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or what can I do to deal with this crap !?
We're both on the lease for the next 10 months, so we have to make it work!.
He!.!.!.!.!.!.
- is always questioning me / interrogating me
- draws his own conlusions / makes assumptions
- always thinks im doing bad things, for no reason
- worries about things to the point where he believes they are happening
- wait and watches everything i do waiting for me to mess up
- always looks for my flaws so he can point them out and make me feel crappy
- does not stop, does not let up, does not leave me alone
- always trying to read between the lines, or see some hidden motive, even in innocent situations
HELP !?!?!?!?!?
its driving me insane !!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You and he need to have a heart to heart or a face to face discussion to clear the air!.
Tell him that if you wanted to be nagged all the time you would have got married or something--Make a joke out of it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him that if you wanted to be nagged all the time you would have got married or something--Make a joke out of it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
"how can i deal with him "
Well there are books with titles along the lines of "How to Deal With Difficult People" !!
He does seem quite mentally upset (severe depression, I would guess)!. It may well be significant enough for you to vary the lease!.
This may seem like a bolt out of the blue though : how about posting the problem, and his (and your) date of birth, on the horoscopes board (under -urgh- Entertainment )!.
Ax
!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well there are books with titles along the lines of "How to Deal With Difficult People" !!
He does seem quite mentally upset (severe depression, I would guess)!. It may well be significant enough for you to vary the lease!.
This may seem like a bolt out of the blue though : how about posting the problem, and his (and your) date of birth, on the horoscopes board (under -urgh- Entertainment )!.
Ax
!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he is trying to drive you to the funny farm so he can have the place to himself!. Drive him crazy back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he needs help, not you!Www@Answer-Health@Com