I feel realy depressed?!


Question: I feel realy depressed!?
Im only 11 and over the last 4 to six months ive been realy depressed im to scared to tell my mother and father because i dont know why i am i cry fro no reason sometimes and i cant concertate in class and other things what should i doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I'm 16 and i've recently been suffering from depression!.
I understand that it is hard for you to talk to people about it, but i promise you it will take alot of stress off your shoulders!.
Also have you tried to hold on to the brighter parts of your day rather than the sad, cos i know it sounds hard but it does help alot!.
If you really feel like you may be depressive, and especially suicidal, i suggest you go to the doctors!. if you feel closer to on parent, just say that you've been feeling down recently and try to explain what it is that triggers it, as i think you have to be 16 before you can go to the doctors on your own!.

Best of luck with things, i hope you cheer up soon!
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Maybe when you and your mother are alone or your father, whatever one you feel most comfortable with, start by saying, "Mom I need to talk to you, lately I have been feeling really down!. I feel depressed for no reason!." She will help you, so try to talk to one of them!. It could possibly be your hormones, puberty kicking in!. If you have started your period or about to, you feel sad and cranky, it's hormones!. The next time you go to the doctors, ask him/her in private if that's the case!. Try to think, is there something bothering you, if do try to work it out!. I hope I helped!

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Talk to your friends if that helps!. They'll have a shoulder for you to lean on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

At 11 your body is going through a roller coaster of emotions!. Crying for no reason is a big indication of that!. What sounds a little off is that you said this has been going on for 4-6 months, that is quite a long time so you should tell your parents!. I am not sure why you would be afraid to tell your mom, moms usually understand unless you and your mom do not have a close relationship!. I suggest to write in a diary, that really helps!. If by any chance you are thinking of suicide please, please talk to your teacher, the one you like the best and have an open relationship with!. They will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why are you scared to tell your parents!? You should tell them!. Your hormones are probably beginning to kick in, your body chemistry is changing, and there are many ways to help deal with this!. Let your parents help you!. The best thing you can do is communicate with your parents and they can help decide the best course of action!.

Remember, everyone feels this way sometimes!. It will not last forever!.!.!.you will get through it!. Hang in there and talk to your parents!. I'm sure they will be glad you came to them!. This is normal, you'll be okay, even if it doesn't seem like it now!.

Try to do something you enjoy every day!. What calms you and comforts you!? Music!? Exercise!? Hobbies!? Make time every day to do things you enjoy to help take the edge off!. You may want to google meditation and learn how to do it!. It's very soothing and relaxing and helps you clear your mind!.

Best wishes to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you think your parents will listen to you, then dont be scared, go tell them!. Or ask your mom to schedule you an appointment with a doctor because you dont feel right, I know moms have to be in the room, so ask if you can have a privacy talk with the doc, without mom present, then discuss this with your doctor!. That will work better, if you dont have understanding parents, because the doctor will discuss this with your mom in medical terms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to speak to someone, doesnt necessarily have to be your parents!. speak to a close friend or someone older than you whom you're reaonably close to!. someone needs to know!. they'll be able to get you out of it, and be able to explain why its happening!. people who're older than you have already gone through stuff like this, you need to remember that!.
thats all
please do yourself a favour and speak to someone bout it, everything, all of it!.
ok!?
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You know, you are right at the age where your body is going through hormonal changes that affect your mood!. Guess what!? All humans go through this, and your parents might be more understanding than you think!. As a way to start a conversation, try sharing this thread with them and see what they have to say!. They may have noticed that you have been feeling down lately and haven't known what to say or do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

lil homie i have the same problem now good thing you that your depressed i cry for no reason and cant focus andthat's bad for business im a NA-2 and when i go to work i just cry cry i call it a crying disorder but tell your parents that you need to go to the doctor becuz depression is seriousWww@Answer-Health@Com

u need two treatments

1-Medical Treatment:

u just need to take some vitamins, zinc, calcium and other minerals like that!. for this u may take "ovaltine" or any other delicious product like that!.

2-Psyche Treatment

For this u must read novels or other interesting books which u like to develop ur stamina of concentrating for long time, if u do so u will surely get more concentration in ur studies also!.

wish u all the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hi May, my daughter went through a similar experience just before she had her first period at about age 12!. Don't be embarrased about your mood swings!. What you need is someone you can talk to!. Worst case, go to a drug store (we call the Chemist) and ask for advise!.

Don't be embarrased May, just speak with someone that can help!. Go to a free clinic doctor or something relevant!.

Love Rod!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's totally normal!. your hormones are kicking in!. Beleive me that your parents will totally understand!. Remember, they have been through it too!. they love you more than a teacher!. If your having difficulties at home then seek outside help!. But trust your parents if you think they love you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

when i was your age i used to write everything and that was an outlet!. talk to friends about this or maybe a sibling!. if you really think it's serious you need to tell your parents so you can go see a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Depression is one of the worst thing can happen to a human!. I always think Why should someone be depressed!? Or stay repressed when their are a big help out their!.

So you start by speaking to Mom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why would you be scared to tell the people who love and care about you the most!? You need to talk to them!. They want to know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you don't want to talk to your parents, go talk to the school counselor!.

Everything will be alright!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey hun,
u should tell u'r parents!. i used to be like that too, i would cry for no reason! u can get help trust me ur parents will care 4 u maybe u are depresssed a therapist can help u!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You had better talk to your parents because that is what they are for and they would want you to tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

everone feels like that sometimes !.!.!.!.!. i felt depressed 4 no reason b4 and i kept cryin i tink life just gets to much 4 us at times but it will go away soon enoughWww@Answer-Health@Com

you should tell your mom and your dad and they will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell your parents hiding it only makes it worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

chocolate helps, also think positively about lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com

get it out, talk to someone or write in a diary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

think positivitely and pray to GodWww@Answer-Health@Com

pray to god and talk to your friends about what is bothering you!. it helps :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

well go to a gymWww@Answer-Health@Com

Speak to us here :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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