Low Self steem???!
Question: Low Self steem!?!?!?
Low Self steem!?!?!?
Here's the thing!.!.ive always considered myself average looking!. I have a good personality!.!.!.that people like!. However, when it comes to guys I like, I'm terribly shy!. I was chatting earlier with this guy!.!.!.!.just started chatting!. We exchanged pics!.!.!.and i thought he was extremely good looking!. He had pictures of him and a couple of really good looking women too!. And I immediately, just left the conversation!. I left it because I thought i wasn't attractive enough!. But the thing is that!.!.!.whenver i see an attractive guy!.!.!.most of the time i think im not attractive enough!. I know i shouldn't think that!.!.!.i know i have to love myself But sometimes I cant help it!. Does this happen to anyone!.!.!.!.any tips!.!.or advice!.!.!.thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Here's the thing!.!.ive always considered myself average looking!. I have a good personality!.!.!.that people like!. However, when it comes to guys I like, I'm terribly shy!. I was chatting earlier with this guy!.!.!.!.just started chatting!. We exchanged pics!.!.!.and i thought he was extremely good looking!. He had pictures of him and a couple of really good looking women too!. And I immediately, just left the conversation!. I left it because I thought i wasn't attractive enough!. But the thing is that!.!.!.whenver i see an attractive guy!.!.!.most of the time i think im not attractive enough!. I know i shouldn't think that!.!.!.i know i have to love myself But sometimes I cant help it!. Does this happen to anyone!.!.!.!.any tips!.!.or advice!.!.!.thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yes, we ALL get intimidated but remember this dear he was talking to YOU not those other bitches in the pic ;)!. YOU got it and he wanted it!. Just remember you are beautiful because you are YOU!. Don't let anyone tell you different!. Make a list of all the things you like about yourself even give yourself a pep talk!. Us women deserve those men, we deserve someone to make us happy!. Remember that! Don't be shy if they're talking to you they're liking something! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your not alone!. I have low self esteem also!. My school social worker pointed that out, and I mean I always knew I did!. I don't feel pretty enough when I'm around guys and I'm really shy when I talk to them!.
I hate being so tall!.!.!.5'11, and i'm 17!. I feel that my height also is very unattractive to men, so I always don't feel like i'm good enough!.
I guess we just need to do what that previous answerer said and look in the mirror and say one thing outloud that we like about ourselves each day!. It may be hard, but we can do it!
Take care!
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
I hate being so tall!.!.!.5'11, and i'm 17!. I feel that my height also is very unattractive to men, so I always don't feel like i'm good enough!.
I guess we just need to do what that previous answerer said and look in the mirror and say one thing outloud that we like about ourselves each day!. It may be hard, but we can do it!
Take care!
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
this happens to everyone!
the thing is, your harder on yourself then everyone else!.
you focus on your flaws while im sure your beautiful and sometimes you just dont realize it!.
you should love yourself and just focus on the good things!.
for example!. ithink i have a big nose, but i really like my eyes!. so i just try to focus on the good things about myself
i hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
the thing is, your harder on yourself then everyone else!.
you focus on your flaws while im sure your beautiful and sometimes you just dont realize it!.
you should love yourself and just focus on the good things!.
for example!. ithink i have a big nose, but i really like my eyes!. so i just try to focus on the good things about myself
i hope i helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
a self esteem boosting exercise I've heard that works after awhile is looking in the mirror everyday and finding one thing (each time, something new) that you like and you have to say it outloud, like you're talking to yourself!.!.!.hope it works =]
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lol yeah this happens a lot!. completly natural!. i used to be COMPLETLY nervous to be around my bf just cause i didnt wanna look like crap!. but now i dont care AS MUCH cause im alays around him!. if ur around them more often or talk more often then u will get used to it and it wont happen anymore =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here's some reading material, check your local library:
Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse
How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Brandon
The Magic of Thinking Big, David J!. SchwartzWww@Answer-Health@Com
Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse
How to Raise Your Self-Esteem, Nathaniel Brandon
The Magic of Thinking Big, David J!. SchwartzWww@Answer-Health@Com