What is wrong with him ??? PLEASE?!


Question: What is wrong with him !?!?!? PLEASE!?
my roommate!.!.!. i swear he's always analyzing my life and its driving me crazy!. he always puts thought sinto his head!.

im at work, and i had a 10 minute break, so i went pee then signbed onto msn!.

i said hi to him, chatted for a minute then said i gtg bye

then he wrote me this big email about how rude it was for me to say bye, and how i talk to everyone else and ignore him and just run off!.

i was ONLY talking to him, but he just tells himself i was talking to everyone else and was ignoring him!.

he's 25 like!.!.!.!. can he not grow up and deal with the fact that i said bye without emailing me a crazy guilt trip !?!?!?

i dont understand!.!.!.!.

every single day its like i have to tip toe my life or he'll be on my case about!.!.!.!.!. some thing he put in his head that's bad about me

maybe he's a narcissist or something !?!?

i dunn but i need help dealing with him cuz we're both on the lease for 10 more monthsWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
sounds to me like he still likes you you can get out of the lease either by asking the people/company you leased threw to get taken off or tell him you want out but either way you have to give I believe 30 days notice your moving and moving really is you best option!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Could be that he likes you and he's jealous or a bit clingy!. Or it could be that he just wants to spend more time with you as a friend!. Either way, don't take him freaking out as a bad thing, he wouldn't have done it if he didn't want to talk to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It seems both of you are going to the internet with your respective gripes!. Why don't you just have an open and frank discussion with him (in person) and tell him how you feel!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

He sounds a bit 'obsessed with control' some people choose the 'control' position in a relationship in order to secure the expected outcomes!.!.!.However, you did say that you guys are 'JUST ROOM-MATES' correct!? Because, this guy sounds to me that he may have a bit more 'interest' in you then you may possibly know! Uumm, he seems a tad bit 'attached' to you~ With this attachment he 'requires' affirmation!.!.!.all of which makes him feel closer to you!.!.!. Soo, without getting too carried away with details, I am going to leave you with that thought, and let your mind ponder the situation!.!.!.Good luck~ Take care!Www@Answer-Health@Com

-well my guess is that he's lonely and overreaccted to how you just said bye
-he likes you
-some people are like that!.!.!.
-he's just messing with you
-had a bad past [if you kno what i mean!.!.!.]

well i hope those help but if you don't think that it's any of those, ask someone that really knows him and if all else fails!.!.!.i guess you may need to him whyWww@Answer-Health@Com





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