Did you ever have a great loss in your life that caused you to lose your identit!


Question: Did you ever have a great loss in your life that caused you to lose your identity!?
And did that loss make you feel apathetic!. If you can relate to this, how did you deal with it, did it get better over time!? What helps this kind of situation that I'm feeling!. I've lost a part of my identity, I feel like!. Can you relate to this!? What is helpful!? I am so apathetic, I don't have a 'will' or 'motivation'!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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We lose part of ourselves!. We always have to make sacrifices but we must always keep what is important, otherwise we become something different!. You become something that you hate!.
I just go forward!. I say that that is how life works!. Live it, love it, hate it, it won't change the world!. All you can do is be confident that whatever is happening, happens for a reason!. And confidence is the only way to go forward and not be stuck!. Because if you are stuck, then the world will take you and then you!.!.!.!.!.you!.!.!.!.!.ARE GONE!!!!.!.!.!. disappear!. Without confidence and motivation, there is no way to find meaning or reason in your life!.!.!.!. And you will only get worse!. Think of life like a train and you are in a train station, but you don't have the confidence to get on it!. It will just go away and leave you in the dust!. Then you will only get cold and get sick, etc!.
But that "train" called life will be in the station every day and if you don't get on it as soon as possible!. Then you are just going to have a hard time later when you try!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, I have and not just one either!.!.!.!.dealing with it caused much confusion and the pain would not go away!.!.!.I lived constantly in the past of the identification that I had had with the loss that I had experienced!.!.!.!.when I totally let go and realized that what had happened was not who I was!.!.!.I stopped living in the past and stopped waiting for life to change the injustice of my experiences and accepted it!.!.!. I then forgave those who I felt wronged me!.!.!. and myself for what was out of my control!.!.!. we all can only give what we know how to give and in this I was able to forgive!.!.!.now I focus every moment to live for right now!.!.!. in that I honor not only myself but those around me who want me here and now!.!. not in the past!.!.!.who you are is that incredible , magnificent essence who lives in you and she truly is strong!.!.!. just look you will see!.!.!.!.smiles!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes I lost 2 babies I had 2 stillborn babies and this changed me so you could say i lost part of my identity!. People who know me also say i've changed since my lossesWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm not really too sure what this question asking but i had a bad childhood and losses which has messed me up !?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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