Bulimic woman in 30's needing help...?!
Question: Bulimic woman in 30's needing help!.!.!.!?
Yes it is me, and I have had this disorder for several years!.
I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend about this, and now I regret it!. We have been together 2 and a half years!. He said he thought I didn't have it anymore!. The reason why I told him is because he teases me too much about my weight!. I have asked him before to stop doing it, have told him that even teasing a 'recovered' person about their weight can trigger them, etc!. Now, he doesn't tease me anymore about my weight, BUT his comments are things like "well, isn't it easier just to throw it up!?" etc!. I just reach out and get slammed, and I know I need help!. No body knows except him in my life right now and I feel so alone!. What can I do!?
!.!.!.I have no insurance first of all so that is why I cannot get help!. If you have something rude to say, it won't bother me, especially from a stranger!. I have heard it all before, and lost so very much from this, so hit me with your best shot if it makes you feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend about this, and now I regret it!. We have been together 2 and a half years!. He said he thought I didn't have it anymore!. The reason why I told him is because he teases me too much about my weight!. I have asked him before to stop doing it, have told him that even teasing a 'recovered' person about their weight can trigger them, etc!. Now, he doesn't tease me anymore about my weight, BUT his comments are things like "well, isn't it easier just to throw it up!?" etc!. I just reach out and get slammed, and I know I need help!. No body knows except him in my life right now and I feel so alone!. What can I do!?
!.!.!.I have no insurance first of all so that is why I cannot get help!. If you have something rude to say, it won't bother me, especially from a stranger!. I have heard it all before, and lost so very much from this, so hit me with your best shot if it makes you feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I am so sorry you have to live like that!. I dont think your boy friend is being very supportive either!. But he just may not understand I know that all to well my husband is belimic he has been in the hospital 3 times once with kidney failure I get so mad at him for doing this to our lifes but I have also learned so much it isnt just some thing you can quit doing I do understand that!. if you have no insurence then maybe journal your feelings instead of purging or find a support group they are free just google it!. then find a sponser and call then when you feel the need to purge!. if you cant find a EDA support group then you could go to an AA group being a eating disorder is an addiction that you feel powerless to over come!. your boy friend could go to a al-anon group to help you and himself with your addiction!. until you find a group and need some one to talk to I could help my email is texanf28@yahoo I hope you can find the strenght to over come this but I dont think you can do it on your own it is very hard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
what a crappy, insensitive boyfriend!. you cant get through this alone so reach out to someone!. dump your boyfriend if he is making you get back to old habits cuz of his comments!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont think your boyfriend is being very supportive!.!.!.!.!.!. dump him and find someone who knows nothing about your life start afresh!.!.!.!.lifes too short to be watching and wondering about your weight!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.im sure your beautiful!. mum of 6 liz (46)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi there!.
I am 28, and have been bulimic since the age of 14, so about half my life!.
I understand how you are feeling, am it sounds like you love this man, but believe me!.!.!.!.YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!!
YOu deserve to be with someone who appreciates you, and loves you for who you are!.!.not takes the pISS out of you at every available opportunity!
Its so sad to hear that you cannot afford to get help!.!.i am lucky, for i have the NHS on my side!.!.!.are there others you can turn to for help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 28, and have been bulimic since the age of 14, so about half my life!.
I understand how you are feeling, am it sounds like you love this man, but believe me!.!.!.!.YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT!!!
YOu deserve to be with someone who appreciates you, and loves you for who you are!.!.not takes the pISS out of you at every available opportunity!
Its so sad to hear that you cannot afford to get help!.!.i am lucky, for i have the NHS on my side!.!.!.are there others you can turn to for help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com