Why am i like this, why do i think im not worthy of love?!


Question: Why am i like this, why do i think im not worthy of love!?
i no i do this i look for dad figurs when ii look for boyfriends(my dad died in a motercycle acdent when i was 10)and well that means i gor for older guys and in some way that just never works out!. is it wrong that i do this!?and its like for some reason i like dont think im worthy i end up dating kinda bad guys because even like now when some one sweet cute nice realy likes me it like i dont beleve it he tells all my friends how much he likes me he trys to talk to me but something in my head just tells me he doesnt realy like me!. am i that messed up!? what should i do why am i like this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You can train your mind to believe anything it wants to believe!. So if you think you're not worthy of love and you truely believe it, then you have other problems as well!. You need to work on your confidence!. It sounds like you don't have any!. Change your hair style, get braces, buy nice clothes, smile alot, have a good personality and you will see a big difference in your confidence!. Always remember, you are not looking for a daddy, you are looking for a nice guy to be with!. Big difference there!. Change your attitude towards men and you will change your life! Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think it's pretty common to try and replace the male figure in your life!. But you need to realize that you're not looking for a dad, you're looking for a friend and a life partner!. Give the nice guy a chance, when he's nice to you and says nice things to you just accept them for what they - a nice person who enjoys your company and hopes you return the sentiment!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well it sounds like you are on a road to figuring things out !.!.!.!.Some people continue in a negative circle and just think that's they way life is!.!.!.
!.I don't have the answer, actually your the only one who does, but if you talk to a professional, sense your a woman; I would suggest you seek the help of a female therapist!.

Your have more self awareness than a lot of people in this life!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it isn't wrong if you like older men!. maybe you should look up to a uncle or grandfather as your father figure!. and also sometimes it just takes awhile for us to find our matchWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well, it sounds like you want a father figure in your life!. Someone who will protect you and love you unconditionally!. Losing a parent is not the kind of thing you just get over!. I don't think it's a good idea to start a relationship during such hard times because you'll start clinging to the person to make you happy, and then when it doesn't work out, everything is just much more worse than it was before!.
Be your own anchor, stick with your friends, your family members!. Those are the people who will love you no matter what, they are there for you, and they will stay with you through thick and thin!.
Also, do things that you love to do!. Express yourself artistically, musically or physically (sports, meditating, etc!.)!. Find something that you're good at and keep trying to get better at it!. Be all that you can be!.
As for relationships, stay single until you are sure that you won't be relying on anyone but yourself!. Be strong!. It will work out if you have faith in yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you're aware of your issues!. I'm sure your dad's death had a lot to do with how you act now!. That said, I think you owe it to yourself to act on your knowledge!. I know its easier said than done, but stop hanging with the wrong crowd!. You are absolutely entitled to someone who treats you right!. Do things to help improve your quality of life, and your self esteem will improve as well!. Go to church, go to school, get a job with an environment conducive to your health!. I think if you make the effort - and you're absolutely capable - you can dramatically improve your life!. You have my support, good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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