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I'm 23 and I'm getting married next month and I have a baby due in July!. I work at a job that I do like but the pay is really crappy!. I had to stop doing what I was doing, I was making great money, because !.!. it was illegal!. I am glad that I don't have the stresses of what I was doing illegal!. Even when I was doing that I was sad but now that I stress about having no money and the other stresses I have going on I am depressed!. I feel like I'm not going anywhere in life!. The friends that I try to hit up won't answer my MySpace messages they might respond but won't answer when I say we should get together!. 99% of them just don't answer my my comment or message on their MySpace!. I'm just stuck working 40 hrs a week and comign home and being stuck on the computer or XBox!. I'm a real upbeat guy and you can't tell I'm depressed but inside I am!. I just want more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Good for you for overcoming the urge to make money illegally!. I don't mean just morally or anything (I have no room to judge), I mean to keep yourself out of jail in order to be there for your fiancee and new baby!. You can only do so much, and it seems like you're trying to take on too much at once!. Right now you're on the right track!. You're employed (and honestly), have a fiancee who you're keeping up a decent relationship with, and have a baby on the way!. At 23, you have plenty of time to figure out things in the way of a career!. The most important thing right now is keeping your relationship with your girlfriend on good terms, and doing everything you can to help her out!. If you'll throw all that you have into love, you can pull through anything!. Ditch the Xbox and most of the computer stuff, and do some research on getting more education in your spare time, or just looking for better jobs for now!. Make sure to keep yourself out of debt as much as possible (try Dave Ramsey's book "Financial Peace"), because that stuff can sneak up on you fast and has the capacity to weigh down even the best relationships!. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders!. I hope you can look at your life right now and see what I see: A smart guy who's about to be a dad and a great husband; someone who's pulled himself out of a bad lifestyle and has enough sense to stay away from friends who are bad influences!. "I just want more" - you're failing to realize that you have so much more already than many do!. You're not going to find contentment in more; it's found when you're still and realize that happiness is in acceptance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have had lots of experience with depression in my life!. (I am 47)!. It doesn't sound like you're depressed, it just sounds like what you have in life right now, is not what you WANT to have in life!. I know you want to do the right thing by your unborn child, but I don't agree with being miserable in a relationship just for the kid!. The child would do better with ONE parent, than with TWO who are unhappy!.
I would encourage you to look at your life honestly, and decide what is good in it, and what is boring you in it and how you can change it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would encourage you to look at your life honestly, and decide what is good in it, and what is boring you in it and how you can change it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would like to make a suggestion if you don't mind!.!.!. I have been in your situation previously!. I was pregnant going to school full time and besides that nothing!. I was depressed and saw my friends doing so much!. The first thing is that when your baby finally does come that will be the light in you life! You will want to do so much just for her!
I would suggest that you sit down and analyze your life!. What do you like to do (that is legal)!? How can you make that in to a living that you enjoy!? Why not go to school and pick up a trade!? Talk to your girl and if she loves she should understand and support you!. You are going through several changes in your life and this can be expected!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would suggest that you sit down and analyze your life!. What do you like to do (that is legal)!? How can you make that in to a living that you enjoy!? Why not go to school and pick up a trade!? Talk to your girl and if she loves she should understand and support you!. You are going through several changes in your life and this can be expected!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know its going to be hard but your going to have to talk to your fiance and tell her how u feel becuase if u wait to long all of your issues and feelings will build up and eventually ruin your relationship!. and if she's a sensitive person tell her in a sensitive way so she won't get upset and make u feel bad for expressing your feelingsWww@Answer-Health@Com
your life is changing,your going to be a father soon so i would stop worrying about partys and concetrate on your new family,trust me you will lose friends when you stop doing the things you use to do,(selling weed)life isnt one big party,once your child gets here you will see things in a different light!.then if you think your truly depressed then seek out help!.try to be the best dad you can be ,my son is 24,he has two children,he barely makes it also!.and he works over 60 hrs a week,just hang in there,things will get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
belive the word depression was invented when i was born!. ive been depressed alot of stages in my life!. what helped me get thourgh it was sports and praying!.!.
ur still 23 and do not know where u going in life, its not good but also it's not that bad, u still very young and i belive u need some time alone and think about ur life and what u really love, what's ur passion!.!. and go for it!.!.!.
Best of luck, and congrats fr the wedding!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur still 23 and do not know where u going in life, its not good but also it's not that bad, u still very young and i belive u need some time alone and think about ur life and what u really love, what's ur passion!.!. and go for it!.!.!.
Best of luck, and congrats fr the wedding!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to get a real LEGAL career going!. I can be anything, but you do need a stable job!. Your friends smoking weed does not justify it or make it ok for you to sell it or do it!. I realize you liked it but you need to consider your future!. You DEFITELY need to get back on track before the baby comes!. think about what kind of enviornment you want your child to grow up in!?!? Also, slow down on the Xbox!.!.!.!.make a timer for 30 minutes-60 minutes per day to help slow yourself down on that, and eventually you wont have to play it as often!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can get a hypnosis CD called "Overcome Depression" it's really very good and helps a lot!.
Having no money and no prospect of making good money is depressing to say the least!.!.!.been there, done that!. No money means no freedom and for sure that is depressing!. You need to find other, enjoyable (but not illegal!) ways to make money, There are hypnosis CDs for that too, and all kinds of info available for making money online/work at home etc!. I did illegal stuff at some points in my life, the money is good but the stress is not worth it!. Try going to my blog for some ideas on health, hypnosis, and making money!. Best of luck with your girl and new baby, congratulations too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Having no money and no prospect of making good money is depressing to say the least!.!.!.been there, done that!. No money means no freedom and for sure that is depressing!. You need to find other, enjoyable (but not illegal!) ways to make money, There are hypnosis CDs for that too, and all kinds of info available for making money online/work at home etc!. I did illegal stuff at some points in my life, the money is good but the stress is not worth it!. Try going to my blog for some ideas on health, hypnosis, and making money!. Best of luck with your girl and new baby, congratulations too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hello!. You are 23 and you are very young!. It sounds like you are trying to do the right thing and be with your finace and support her and your unborn daughter!. Your past life before you got your girl pregnant is haunting you!. Are you ready!? once your child is born your will feel this awsome feeling of love, like you never felt before for another human being!. Your dead end job will be - a dead end job!. What about school, student loan!. You will want to give your daughter and your wife everything and you will want to do it legally - illegal will just have you end up in jail and missing out on your daughters first words, steps, laugh, things you will never get back to witness!. You know better and I know you do as you are at your job providing for your family and I commend you for that!. Think about the student loan and furthering yourself to make your families life better!. It wont happen over night but it will happen if YOU want it to!. The push of wanting more will hit your hardest when you see your daughter and hold her in your arms!. At that moment - your friends wont matter, what they are doing in there life wont matter to you as much, because you will be a dad a father!. It's normal to feel caught between the past with your buds and the past life with now!. The past is very appealing because there is no daughter yet!. You will have to be strong and stick it out until you make some decisions!. Friends will come and go but family will always be there for you!. Once you get married your wife will be and should be your best friend - talk to her as maybe she feels the same way you do!. Your having a baby, your not dead!. Your still 23 and she's young too!. This is normal!. Hang in there and the best of luck to you both!. Anyone can be a father but it is someone special that is a DAD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com