Should I fight for my job... PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE...?!


Question: Should I fight for my job!.!.!. PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE!.!.!.!?
I work with a very overbearing person!. I have put up with it for 2 months!. I went to my Supv!. and told her how I was feeling becuz she wants to hire me (im a temp)!. I told her I no longer am interested n the job!. She wanted to confront this person and I said that it would make matters worse!. She told me whether I stay or leave I need to Say something so that it can come out and she can deal with it!. I like the job and I need a job like a need oxygen!. But I come to work miserable and since she has been here longer I feel powerless!. I have my SUpv support she told me to NOT let her run me away!. She feels that this person needs to be put in her place and I should fight for the job!. (she wants to say something to her but I asked her NOT to)!. I am just exhausted and drained I am normally a more assertive person and not easily intimidated but my job right now is all I have there is NO guarantee I will find another one quickly!.

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Why don't you stay at your job till you can find a new one and who knows maybye things will get better with that person!.Why don't you confront her and explain that your both here to earn some money so lets just let bigons be bigons and move on from here!.I'll stay out of your way you stay out of mine!.I've seen things like this before and most of the time the girls wind up being the best of friends so you never know!.Also I was given this piece of advice once and by far I am not a religous person but it really works!.I was told that if I didn't like someone or if someone was really pissing me off to pray for that person evryday for 2 weeks!.You don't have to say a whole song and dance just say Plz help me with this person or pray that she becomes nicer, etc you get the hint!.I'm telling you it works evry time and like I said I'm not religous at all!. so try it, cant hurt!. best of luck to you!.Try to stick it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hum this is a toughie, i'll tell you what works for me (i am a temp and no what you mean about trying to hold on to a job!!)

write a list of the goods and the bads then evaluate each point!.

you could try confrunting this person who is the source of your misrible-ness, if it works out then its cool to stay, if it doesnt then you dont have to stay!.

what can you get out of this job!? is it worth the hassle!? can you see yourself working there for a long time!? do you think you would be happy working there on a perm basis!?

try not to think of the money and security as top priorty!. this is the place you will be spending monday to friday, and will most prob decide your happiness!.

good luck and i hope you make the right decision :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you really want this job you need to fight for it but your supervisor needs to be the one to confront this other person!. Does this person report to your supervisor!? If so they need to talk to the person!. If the person reports to someone else you and your supervisor need to go to this person and talk!.

You should not be doing the hard work on this!. This is what a supervisor is for and if she isn't willing to step up!.!.!.!.I would say find a new job!.

Best of luck to you!. I know these situations are hard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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