How can i STOP hurting??!
Question: How can i STOP hurting!?!?
I am now 33yrs old at the age of 6 my dad left my mum as he wqas having an affair!. I must have seen him since then about 3/4 times!. People used to say to me that i was such a daddy's girl, out of me and my sister!. I feel how can i have been this when he didnt make no effort in coming to see me!. I have spoken to my sister she dont want anything to do with him which i dont blame her if i am truthfully honest!. I have suffered on and off with DEPRESSION since i was 18!. Lately i am thinking of my dad alot i want anwerws from him as to why he wasnt around!? I so much want to be that little girl again where i am running into his arms, BUT i know i will never be that little girl ever again!. He married the woman he was having an affair with and they later went on and had a son who i have found out he does everything with!. Yes i would say i am jealous of him cos he is having what i had lost!.
How do i get over this 27 yrs later!.
Am i ever going to get over it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
How do i get over this 27 yrs later!.
Am i ever going to get over it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I can relate to you because one of my closest friends is in a similar situation!. Her mom and her dad never lived together and she gets to see him only every 6 months or even less!. He fbuys her gifts and they have a great time together but she says there is something missing in her life!. Coming from a dysfunctional family myself I can tell you that sometimes I feel she idealizes families with both parents and feels those kids are much better off!. But this is not always true!.It is hard when you feel when such an important person is not a part of your major events!. She says she has always missed a father figure in her life and felt insecure about her relationships with boys!.
The other thing that might help you is that you have to realize he has made a major life mistake by not keeping in touch with you on a regular basis!. He might feel he has messed up enough and is afraid to face the consequences of his actions!. He is not a bad person but he might feel he does not know how to have a relationship with his daughter!. You are a strong woman and you are the only one responsible for your life and happiness!. Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The other thing that might help you is that you have to realize he has made a major life mistake by not keeping in touch with you on a regular basis!. He might feel he has messed up enough and is afraid to face the consequences of his actions!. He is not a bad person but he might feel he does not know how to have a relationship with his daughter!. You are a strong woman and you are the only one responsible for your life and happiness!. Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You cannot love a person whom you seldom see!.!.!.even if he is your dad!.Perhaps you longed to be a little girl again when daddy was around and take care of every thing and you feel safe!.!.!.but those days are gone and you are not little any more!.You have your own responsibilities to be busy about!.If you are not married than get married and you will overcome !.!.!.the pain and the frustration that dad gave to you nowWww@Answer-Health@Com
sweet heart, I know what you mean!.
But to be honest with you , I think you should never think about him!! Your better than him!. It's obvious ( HE Doesn't love you)!.
If he did he wouldn't waste a single minute without you!.!!
I'm sorry he's like that, but he doesn't deserve a good daughter like you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But to be honest with you , I think you should never think about him!! Your better than him!. It's obvious ( HE Doesn't love you)!.
If he did he wouldn't waste a single minute without you!.!!
I'm sorry he's like that, but he doesn't deserve a good daughter like you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Touch base with him, see if he is someone you!.!. want to have in your life!. He is probably just as scared as you are!. You are a very important person and deserve the best and if you contact him and he is an ****!.!.!. get some counselling and let it go!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have children and love them with all your heartWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know but i feel for you! I hope that we can get over these things because my mum has primary peritoneal cancer, my dad severe post traumatic stress and my brother died all when i was very young (10-13ish)!. It still haunts me! Oh and by the way, To all you big drug and electricity companies, COME AND GET ME! I would like to say to anyone out there who is living with Cancer Google DR!. ROBERT BECK! MY MUM IS GETTING BETTER THANKS TO HIM AND ITS AN INCURABLE CANCER!!! SUCK ON THAT! And all the companies tried to cover it up and they even hired people to beat Dr!. Robert beck up! BUT THE INTERNET WILL LEAD YOU NOWHERE COMPANIES!!!
sorry! I had to tell the people!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sorry! I had to tell the people!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes u are going to get over it!.I think "LOVE" is such a strong bond and the sweetest thing God has given us!.If u still truly love ur father and the same love if ur father has some left for u in his heart,then don't worry my freind just wait!.He will surely one day come back & grab u in his arms,giving u so much love as never before!.Do u know why God send MOSES to egypt!?to free his sons& daughters who used to work as labours under the egyptian ruler!.The reason is God loved his children!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.so just wait a bit more longer!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com