Will I ever be the same after this?!
Question: Will I ever be the same after this!?
In April I was beating by two girls, one my age and one a year older(im 15)!. They called me many names, one excused me of sleeping with her boyfriend!.- I didnt btw!. It was after school back of the school!. The gave me both black eyes, bruises, concussion and damaged to my right eye!.(its amost fine now) These girls only got two week suspention and have to do lunch duty(clean up and stuff!.!.)
I hate going to school now, i hardly go!.!.I always get people staring at me and asking if im alright!. Im also scared of those girls too, when i see them in the halls i walk away!. Although the cant touch me, i'm still scared!.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanks alot!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hate going to school now, i hardly go!.!.I always get people staring at me and asking if im alright!. Im also scared of those girls too, when i see them in the halls i walk away!. Although the cant touch me, i'm still scared!.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanks alot!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm so sorry this happened to you =(
Believe it or not, you will heal from it!. But it will take time!.
I had a run in with a classless female recently as well, and the situation shook me up, but now I am taking action!.
As a woman in this day and age, you need to know how to protect yourself from other people!. It would be a good idea to take up some form of martial arts or self defense!. For example, I am going to start kick boxing very soon!. Not only will it make you stronger and more confident, but the next time anyone tries to touch you, you will know how to fend for yourself!.
I have to note, it's odd that they didn't get arrested!. The principal should have called the police!.
Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Believe it or not, you will heal from it!. But it will take time!.
I had a run in with a classless female recently as well, and the situation shook me up, but now I am taking action!.
As a woman in this day and age, you need to know how to protect yourself from other people!. It would be a good idea to take up some form of martial arts or self defense!. For example, I am going to start kick boxing very soon!. Not only will it make you stronger and more confident, but the next time anyone tries to touch you, you will know how to fend for yourself!.
I have to note, it's odd that they didn't get arrested!. The principal should have called the police!.
Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
OK, first u need to learn self defense,if they try to fight you punch the one who touch u in the stomach and if one comes running kick her in the stomach, then wants there both gripping there stomach, get on top of one and start punching her, then punch her in the nose both if you like, don't be scared the only thing you should be scared of is death, make sure no one is around so you want get suspended, message me back and tell me what happens after that and i will get them for you, for real I'm a fighting pro =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need professional counseling to deal with the fear!. What you experienced was very traumatic!. Can you talk with a school counselor or go to a family counseling center in your neighborhood!? Can you change schools so that you don't have to be scared to attend school!? Did you have the girls arrested!? Are your parents supportive of you needing to change schools!? If not, talk to a counselor/principal/nurse at school!. You should not have to live in fear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just walk the halls with your friends at your side to back you up!. School is fine!. You just have to learn how to move along and forgit about it!. Even though im shure it is hard to forgit that!. You should also talk to your schools social worker or counciler and when people ask you if you are ok just tell them yes and move along!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well to tell you the truth id b scard like you to!.!.!.But if u start running away from them they r going to like that they are going to b stuk up an b proud becuz they got u to break an fear them!.!.An thatz whut they want!.!.Im not tellin yout o go up to them but dont try to avoid them becuz they cant touch you enymore remember that wen u r going to pass one of them!.!.Dont let them be soo happy that they hurt you**Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will be the same but you have to let the experience go and not let it bother you!. If I were you then I'd just work out to get your mind off of things and it will help get you into shape so if they did try again then it won't be so easy next time!. Just run, jog, walk, push ups!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well sometimes (almost never) I get beat up!. But just incase this will happen to me I bring a knife!. I know I probably will never use it!. Just by pulling it out it will freak the 'poop' out of them!. But that is just me and I go to a tiny Canadian Christian school!. Just don't get cought!.
I wouldn't really recomend it, just a LAST resort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wouldn't really recomend it, just a LAST resort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well every experience changes you!.!.!.Even if a bird will poop on your head you will never be 'the same' again!.
But with time you should trust people and be less scared!.
It happens to alot of people!. You are not alone and it's not your fault!.
This is a stupid world with stupid people in it!.!.!.!.Nothing you can do!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But with time you should trust people and be less scared!.
It happens to alot of people!. You are not alone and it's not your fault!.
This is a stupid world with stupid people in it!.!.!.!.Nothing you can do!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, you will never be the same!. Every significant experience we have in life will change us in some way!. A break up with a boyfriend, a death of a love one, a fight!.!.!. they all alter our perceptions in life in some way!.
You should seek therapy!. This experience will either make you fearful, or make you stronger!. It's up to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should seek therapy!. This experience will either make you fearful, or make you stronger!. It's up to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont let these girls ruin your life by stopping you from going to school!. When you walk past them in the corridor just smile and say hi - that will intimidate them a bit and might confuse them lol!. it will also show them that your over what they did to u even if your not and will leave them speachless! good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Where are your parents in this!? Have you spoken to the counselor!? If neither are able to provide protection for you, you need to contact someone either in law enforcement or your school!. I will be praying for you!. Those girls should have been expelled!. Please message me on my page and let me know how you are doing!. I care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have a perfectly good reason to be scared!.!.the fact that they would do that is just horrible!.!.!.just remember, not everyone is like that!. Find friends who you know you can trust and who you can open up to!. If your school has a counselor you should consider talking to themWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need confidence!. Try acting normal and all cheery!. Make people think that you are OK with it, and make sure you ARE!. Don't be afraid of those girls, they're weak and pathetic too probably!. stay with a lot of friends and make sure you go home with someone else at least just to feel safer!. :) I hope you feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you've had such an ordeal, but things will get better!. I don't why ANYONE would deliberately hurt someone!. Sounds like your doing the right thing by avoiding them!. People will talk but remember that that's all it is "talk" you know the truth, and thats all that matters!. Hang in there!
Hope this helped
Danielle ?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope this helped
Danielle ?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you should be talking to your guidance counselor or other professional counselor!. They can help you work through your fears!. Please accept my condolences for your trauma, and know that you can stop being a victim and act like a survivor again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
that really makes me upset and angry!.!.!.seriously dont be afraid of them and maybe just dont look or talk to them but still keep walking past them!. theres not much i can do, but just think that there are people here to help you if ever need it
that stuff really makes me upsetWww@Answer-Health@Com
that stuff really makes me upsetWww@Answer-Health@Com
Bullying is a huge problem! lol! why don't you talk to a teacher!? email them if you dont want to talk to there face! And if that dosen't work pretend your tougher then them!. When they say something to you totally ignore them and go off to one of your friends!. Try to avoid them at all costs!Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to a counciler get a school exchange avoid them!. i know exactly how you feel it happened too many time to count to me!. all you can do is push through and hope things get better school will end soonWww@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't sound like the punishment fit the crime!. They need to be taught a lesson!. Form an after school lynch mob, follow them off campus and show them what happens to people who try to mess with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
look, i know that its really hard, but you have to hold your head up high and let it go!. people are selfish and cruel in this world, but if you learn to let things go, then nothing can bother you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Thats horrible, sorry you had to go through that! I wouldnt want to go back to school either!. Look into home school if that is an option, can you take pepper spray to school!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
If I were you, I would transfer to another school but, if you can't just ignore them completely and be confident and then you'll be bigger then them in many ways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope you got the police involved!. They should be charged with assault!. You'll be fine, it'll just take some time and people will forget all about it, including you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sadly you can't forget this, They have permantly damaged you and gotten off too lightly!.
Change schools if you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Change schools if you can!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
just don't worry about!.!.!.!. you'll forget about it really soon!!.!.!.thats what happened to my friend!.!.!. and now everything is all good@ =]
just chill with your friends go out and don't think about that!Www@Answer-Health@Com
just chill with your friends go out and don't think about that!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've never experienced anything like this, just know that these girls are probably very insecure and you are better than them!.!. You should be pitying them!. Don't let them get to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
turn the the school department into the newsWww@Answer-Health@Com
it depends on you if you can get over this just wait tell they get theirs it will come back on themWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe start private school,or go to a different schoolWww@Answer-Health@Com
just keep your head up and be strong!. act like they arent there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You probbally wont forget it!.!.!.but learn some karate!.!.teach them a lesson lolWww@Answer-Health@Com