I'm scared I'm going to fail all the time?!


Question: I'm scared I'm going to fail all the time!?
I'm in high school!. In my 9th & 10th grade I played around!. I skipped class!. I smoked and do whatever I wanted!. I know I ****** up!. Next year I will be helping out at a day care threw my school!. I'm scared I'm going to mess up again and people are just going to give up on me!. I'm so scared of failing!. I don't want to let anyone down!. How do I stop having such bad thoughts!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The only way you can fail!? is if you believe your a failure!. you have to have confident!. yes there is a time in life that we will fail!. and there's a time in life that we will sucessed!. but failing teach's use to learn from our mistakes and be prepared for the next challege that a head of use!. and may be you will be a winner if you believe you can win!. and get serious about school!. I was the same way accepted smoking!. I never did that!. but I went to this school call william t dwyer!. in the 10th grade they kicked me out for fighting to many times!. then I went to palm beach lakes high school the same almost happened but I hang in there and stayed focus what was really important graduation!. and when that day came I graduated!. I think the lord that I graduated from high school!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just think positive because when you believe in yourself anything is possible!! But if you keep failing then make a schedule and make the right times to study and do your homework, but in-between when you are sick of doing homework just take a break and do something fun! I do that all the time and I get 80's and 90's in school all the time :)
I hope this helped! and good luck with your goals?Www@Answer-Health@Com

I just always refused to fail!. I wasn't an over achiever but I stayed on top of things!. My parents were not great and I knew I didn't want to end up like them!. Just try to keep good thoughts!. What you have accomplished and what you want to accomplish!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Focus your thoughts on something else!. As soon as the bad thoughts come in - notice them, then reject them!. You have to watch out for them and never fall for what they are telling you!. You will find your own method - throw them out of your head or just do/think something else!. I sometimes give a name to a particular chain of thoughts and when they occur I say "go away Mickey" - as if the thoughts had come from a person called Mickey who had turned up by my side!. Improtant thing is not to believe the thoughts!. Don't let them take you in!.
Also, it is pointless to fear failure!. Firstly, that fear will never go away - if you let it in it will hang around forever, no matter how much you achieve!. It will never ever let you be free and happy!. So there is no question - it has to go!.
Secondly, failure is often our perception only - what you see as failure may be for the best in the long run (only you can't see it in the present)!. This has happened to a lot of people!.
The main thing is to do your best!. Take the outcomes in good will - with a good and positive attitude!. Have faith in your destiny and in the bigger plan of Existence!.
In life, what matter are: the experiences you have and what you learn from them in terms of how they aid (or hinder) your personal development (and good as well as bad experiences can do this job); following your heart/being true to yourself; and having a love of progress and of learning (whatever kind - practical as well as book)!.
It is great that you have a fun and rebellious nature - because you obviously have a heart as well!. A great mix! It is a good thing you have a sense of adventure and love of freedom and cannot be bullied into submission by systems and structures!. Now you have passed the stage of just using this quality in you to have fun, don't bury it but turn it to good effect!. Rebels are important people (read about them - the freedom fighters, the fighters for justice, for new ideas, etc) - so turn your rebellion and love of freedom to the good of others or to a valuable way of life or a profession that you feel for!. Focus it to build something good or to become someone good!.
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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