Does it get better?!
Question: Does it get better!?
In the past 3 months I have failed some classes, been dumped by the most amazing person in the world, lost a scholarship, had my dad die, been sent to a mental institution just because i wrote a "disturbing" poem, lost a job, lost some friends, had custody battles with my parents, gotten addicted and then un-addicted to some pain meds I took after getting really bad side pains and having half a dozen surgeries!.
So, yeah!.!.!. I'm depressed!.!.!. Does it get better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, yeah!.!.!. I'm depressed!.!.!. Does it get better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yes!.
Everyone goes through hard times in life!. I know thats not helpful to hear, but you aren't alone! Things will start looking up!. If you are depressed then you should go see a doctor!. You don't have to go on medicine but maybe there is some kind of therapy that could work really well for you!. Talking to someone is great, and since you posted this I think that you have a lot to say and maybe you need someone to listen!. You could find a councellor or someone to talk with!.
If you are trying to help yourself on your own try to change your way of thinking!. Have you tried writing!? Writing can really help you sort out things and have a clear mind!. Have you thought about taking up a hobby to keep yourself busy!? These are little things you can do to help yourself!. And look to your friends!
Classes are just that, if you have to retake them then thats how it is, no biggy!. Someone else will come in your life and be the most amazing person!! If they left you then they werent the right one!. Losses happen, and its hard but you have to be strong and move forward!. Poetry is great therapy, dont let that set you back!. People come and go in your life for better or worse, find new people!
The best way to make things better is to help your self though!. Believe me, when it feels like everything is going wrong and it will never start looking up you have to just be strong!. Make changes!
Good luck!
Sorry if that sounded preachy, just trying to help, hope I helped :$Www@Answer-Health@Com
Everyone goes through hard times in life!. I know thats not helpful to hear, but you aren't alone! Things will start looking up!. If you are depressed then you should go see a doctor!. You don't have to go on medicine but maybe there is some kind of therapy that could work really well for you!. Talking to someone is great, and since you posted this I think that you have a lot to say and maybe you need someone to listen!. You could find a councellor or someone to talk with!.
If you are trying to help yourself on your own try to change your way of thinking!. Have you tried writing!? Writing can really help you sort out things and have a clear mind!. Have you thought about taking up a hobby to keep yourself busy!? These are little things you can do to help yourself!. And look to your friends!
Classes are just that, if you have to retake them then thats how it is, no biggy!. Someone else will come in your life and be the most amazing person!! If they left you then they werent the right one!. Losses happen, and its hard but you have to be strong and move forward!. Poetry is great therapy, dont let that set you back!. People come and go in your life for better or worse, find new people!
The best way to make things better is to help your self though!. Believe me, when it feels like everything is going wrong and it will never start looking up you have to just be strong!. Make changes!
Good luck!
Sorry if that sounded preachy, just trying to help, hope I helped :$Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes Monk, it does! At the moment it probably feels as if the whole world hates you and nothing is right!. You sound quite lonely too!. You have had one severe trauma after another, but!.!.!.!.you are still here!. After what you have been through that shows a good strong character under all the pain!. That will pull you through this and out to the other side!.Take one day at time and try to find just a little happiness each day; it will take time, but you have the strength to do it, I'm sure!.!.!.!. those little moments do eventually add up!. They say time is a healer and that may sound trite to you just now, but I promise you it will get better!.
I hope you will feel better soon!.
Love and light!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope you will feel better soon!.
Love and light!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Damn!!!!!!!!!!
yeah honey, it'll get better!.!.!.!.if you couldn't God wouldn't put you through it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.u must be one tough egg!. that person shouldn't have dumped you in your time of need!. and Hell yeah, id of written a couple "disterbing Poems" if id gone through that!.!.!.!.!.
if u wanna talk u can e-mail or IM me!.
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yeah honey, it'll get better!.!.!.!.if you couldn't God wouldn't put you through it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.u must be one tough egg!. that person shouldn't have dumped you in your time of need!. and Hell yeah, id of written a couple "disterbing Poems" if id gone through that!.!.!.!.!.
if u wanna talk u can e-mail or IM me!.
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WOW, You have had it rough to say the least!. YES, it does get better!. Hang in there, keep your spirits high, and just look towards positive things, and hang around positive people, that will help too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow im sorry to hear about all that!.!.!.but yeah everything will get better over time!.!.!.just keep your head up!! ive been through some pretty bad things myself so i can relate!.!.!.!.but yeah keep your head up things will get betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
It can get better, but only if you want it to!. It's too bad that all of that happened to you!. I wish you luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh heck yes! Life does get better!. With knowing that; it doesn't mean that everyday you will doubt that fact!. I myself have to be reassured of that constantly to keep my head up!. Life does get better!. I know you have probably hear every lame keep your head up lines of motivation before but the basis of every one is!. Life is a **** hole but sometimes it really is worth living!. Now in your case you do have a lot of **** things to speak to!. Failing classes!. Hello! From the other things on your list; don't worry about it!. Those classes can be taken over and loosing the scholarship wont help but there are always other alternatives you just have to find them!. Loosing a parent is extremely tough and especially if you were close!. Anyone who hasn't lost a parent can never fully understand the pain/grief you'll feel!. Life does go on tho and as cliche as it sounds; they would have wanted you to keep on going in life and growing as well!. The most amazing person in the world isn't!. Not anymore!. They left!. Obviously they have either lost out or really didn't realize what they had when they left!. You never know; later in life you may think back and say if this "amazing person" never had left you wouldn't have found this OTHER even more Amazing person; even if its 2-5 years later in life!. Oh well!. Life doesn't fit our plans EVER!. it's sorta how it works!. Losing a job happens!. If i could remember that stat i would tell you how often people lose jobs and change jobs in there life i would tell you but the number doesn't matter really!? Does it!? No!. people change jobs A LOT! It helps us really know what we like and what we don't! Being put in an institution because of a disturbing poem sucks ***!. I can only begin to understand how frustrating it must have been being in that situation when/if that poem really didn't mean what everyone else must have thought it did!. With all the things you've been through including death, loss of relationships and addiction you must see it like this!. You are stronger!. A person who has not had anything else horrid happen in their life doesn't know the half of what real life is!. Compare you to that person 20 years from now and something else happen that changes their lives completely!. You both would be knocked on your *** by life but since you've all ready gotten back up and beaten life's trickery once; you've got a heck of an advantage!. Good Luck!. Life's rough but to answer your main question!.!.!. YES! it does get better!. :DWww@Answer-Health@Com