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you need advice- concerning yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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That would be one of the problems she might have!. They tend to have stormy relationships; very difficult to get aong with!. They say, 'come here' and the next minute, 'go away'!. You need to find someone who will be an equal partner not someone who will demand huge amounts of attention and is emotioanlly draining!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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She has some deep rooted issues and she will complicate your life severly!. Best just to leave her alone!. It's nice to help people!.!.!.!.but thats only if they want help!. When they don't, they will screw up your life!. Sounds like she is really confused!. Take the hint and quit letting her feed off of you before you get consumed emotionally and mentally!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Let's be clear!. Only a professional may attache the diagnosis you questioned!. I am serious about that matter!. On the other hand, she is a young woman without (you suggest) a good male role model!. If you are the decent, likable guy she feels she doesn't deserve, you will have to bide your time, and patience!. It is possible she wants to be with you, or at least someone nice like you, and still feels she is not worthy!. Forget about the diagnosis!. It is none of any ones' business, really!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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There are many things that could be said about this girl but no one but her and the ones closest to her know the truth about any disorder she may have!. The real issue is why do you continue to set yourself up for the fall you know is coming your way with her!? Some women really want a friend that they can confide in and the internet serves as a safe place to connect and the connection remain private and hidden from everyone else, perhaps this is all she wants, she don't want you in real life but values the friendship on line!. Look for another person to share your life with, one that wants the same things as you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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It sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder!. It may also be Histrionic Personality Disorder because of the promiscuity!. Sorry, but there is no real effective treatment for this condition apart from long-term therapy with the same counselor!. With these personality disorders, they fear abandonment, but create situations in which you will abandon them to confirm their beliefs that others cannot be trusted!. They seek out superficial intimacy, usually based on a codependent seeking for sympathy because of their past hurts!. You feed into it and they tell you that no one understands them like you do!. Problem is, they do this with everyone on a superficial basis!. When you remain in a relationship with them, they have a polarized response to you - they either love you or hate you, never in between!. When things are going well and there is real intimacy, they sabotage it because they are incapable of maintaining true intimacy!. At some level, she probably loves you but cannot accept the level of emotional intimacy you offer!. When there is a threat of abandonment from you, get ready for her to go on a sympathy campaign and to, possibly, engage in a suicide attempt or something else dramatic to invite your sympathy so that you feel guilty for wanting to not have a relationship with her!. Obviously, there is a lot I can say on this matter!. My advice - never establish a relationship with someone who is not your emotional equal!. Any relationship which is based on dysfunction can never be equal or healthy!. Sorry for the poor prognosis!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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