I miss sleeping with my boyfriend...?!


Question: I miss sleeping with my boyfriend!.!.!.!?
Hey all!. So here's what's going on with me!.!.!.!.My boyfriend lives three hours away, and I miss him tremendously!. Well, I miss sleeping with him more than anything !. It seems as if I find myself having trouble going to sleep EVERY night when he's not in the bed with me!. I'm a natural cuddler and I need that body next to me to have a peaceful uninterrupted night of sleep!. When i'm in a bed alone, I don't fall asleep till 2 aor threebut then I wake up at like 5am or 6am!. So i'm not getting any sleep!. When i'm with him, I can fall asleep the moment i'm in his arms and not wake up till noon or such! Why is that!? I've tried EVERYTHing to help me sleep, I even went out and bought one of those body pillows!. That isn't helping at all!. Any sugggestions!? And have this happened to any of you!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
yep, happened to me!.
I was married for 10 years, and then had to adjust to sleeping bu myself!.

Pillows helped me, but the will not help you!.

The male is usually the back of the spoon, so laying over pillows will not help you!.

You need something against your back!.

also, you need a repetative noise to simulate breathing!.

go to bed and bath or linens and things and buy an audio tape to provide a repetative audio sleep stimulator!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have the same problem when my boyfriend is gone for a few days!. he bought me a body pillow as well and also a heated blanket 'cause I'm a small woman and I am used to his body heat at night!. I also sleep in one of his shirts when he's not home (or sometimes when he is haha), and he makes sure to call me when he knows I'm getting ready going to bed so we can be together when we go to sleep!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You seem to be addicted to him badly!.
Why don't you try to meditate!? 15 minutes of relaxing your mind, not thinking about him!. Maybe you can think about any other things you like besides him!. Or, if you really can not get him out of your mind, try to think what are you both gonna do this weekend!. You know, instead of hoping his presence now, you can wonder what will you do together in the next meeting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes all the time, my husband stays up on xbox live & i get really lonely & i actually wake up nervous in the midle of the night, you may wanna try some sleeping pills, i am on prescription meds, but they are not helping at the moment, he recently cheated on me , so its been even tougher,,, maybe try to get him to move closer or if you canWww@Answer-Health@Com

The answer seems to be to arrange your life in such a way that your boyfriend is with you every night!. What about marriage!?

But perhaps it could be biological!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know what you're talking about!. My husband is in the military!. We haven't gone through a deployment, but it was hard during his boot camp and tech school!. I would but a pillow behind me, one between my legs, and I would also hold on to one!. That would help a little!. Try talking to your dr!. about a sleeping pill!. I've taken a couple and know they work! You just have to find out which is the best for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you could ask him for a shirt of his to make it easier!. Personally for me, i have the same cologne as my boyfriend, and i spray half my bed with it!. the whole night smells like he's next to me!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Marry him or move in together, that way you'll go to bed with him every night!. And after a while you'll get insomnia from having him there every nightWww@Answer-Health@Com

Have you tried sprinkling some of his deo or cologne on the pillow or wrapping it in one of his shirts!? May be worth a try!.
Best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com

Get a hudge teddy bear!. Like a BIG one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

see a phycologist or someone if you have the money, try takeing sleeping pillsWww@Answer-Health@Com

No!.
May be you love him very much!. better you get married if u are compatibleWww@Answer-Health@Com

well there are a couple of things you could do!. What works for me is falling asleep to the tv because of the light of the television you are less likely to open your eyes though it is not as bright as having the light on!. When you said you probably tried sleeping pills which would have been my next idea!. It is very natural that you cannot sleep without someone by your side because it makes you feel safe!. So what you need to do is find something that will make you feel safe!. I really can't tell you what that might be so try things out!. I could be totally wrong on these things but if you think it could help try it!. Sorry I could not be more help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

happens to me!. my boyfriend had his first year of college, and i slept there with him everynight, for the whole year!. and now that its summer, he moved back home, and his parents wont allow the girl over yada yada (im only 18) and when im home trying to sleep, i cant get to bed to save my life!.

for me, i think it's because i've gone through alot in my past that i get scared of being alone, especially at night!. and just knowing that i have him right there next to me, makes me feel protected so i know nothing will harm me!. and i just sleep like a baby!.

you might have just got used to always having someone there, and without you knowing you got used to the idea of a protector being with you during the night, and now that that's gone, you can't sleep!.


dont know if that helped any!?
hope it did!.
goodluck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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