I HATE human contact?!


Question: I HATE human contact!?
i has been a loner and have no friends my whole life, i like to be alone, and got used to being alone and speaking to nobody 24/7 and I am very very comfortable with that!.

but i have to work at a place where i have to greet a lot of people and i have to talk to them and everytime they smile at me i have to pretend to smile and i am going crazy being i am so uncomfortable and out of my element when i have human contact i feel like i just wanna turn around and run off far far far away
my days off are thurs and fri, so 2 more days and i have to return to work again!. but i dont think im willing to go!.!.!. i had thoughts about just ending my life or maybe i'll just do that, because i dont belong in this world i dont like humans i dont like human contact and i am not good at anything, i am always the special case, i suck at everything, my jokes are not funny, i am ugly, i am short and i am insignificant,
and everytime im at work i just want to explode into a million pieces,what do i doWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Jesus of Nazareth!I have never seen someone who hates him/her self like you do hate yours!.
Reason being, you are insignificant!
My dear,at 22 you talk and think like this,no,no!.!.!.
Anyway, if you don't blow your own trumpet,no one will do it for you!.This means that, no one in this wide world will come and make you significant!.Why!?because they are busy making them selves significant as well,big or Small, tall or short!.
So what should you do!?DO IT YOURSELF!. If you are already working amidst tall and short people,why not learn how they cope and follow soot!.
Even those tall ones you admire may not like being tall!.
So accept who you are and achieve your goals!.

Even where you are rushing may not be as peace full as you may think!.may be even those who are dead wish to be alive!.
Good luck dearWww@Answer-Health@Com

Firstly, you are not insignificant whatsoever!. It seems like you may have some important and crucial issues that you need to handle!. I recommend talking to a therapist (Even though you hate human interaction)!.
You've already done the hardest step--- admitting that you have a problem!. Now you just have to get some help!.
I'm KNOW you are a wonderful guy who has so much potential!. You need to believe that!.
Email me if you want extra help!.!.!.
Good luck!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are about 2 months away from walking in there a shooting 12 people and injuring 5 others!.!. if ya know what I mean!.
What are you doing there!? Start researching other jobs that maybe you can work from home, on the internet on!.
Go back to school and go into business for yourself or whatever!.!. Why be unhappy with your life, change it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Contemplate a change in jobs, go see a doctor and talk about depression, and try to get along as well as you can until you have your life set up the way you want it to be!. Dying isn't worth it!. There is happiness out there for you somewhere!. You must go find it for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get a job with the forestry or parks, no people to worry about, after a few weeks of working alone you may be glad of some human company!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm no expert - but I'd say you suffer from a kind of social anxiety disorder!. I think you might feel a lot of relief by talking to you healthcare provider!. Anti-depressants might not be the right thing, but there are all kinds of medications that could help - as could healthy changes in your diet!. Maybe you're lacking some key nutriets that help with mood and good brain chemical production!? I know when I had anxiety and panic disorder, changing my diet and excercising helped tremendously!. For a while - I had thoughts of making people leg-less who ticked me off!. Seemed like a quick fix - totally NOT normal thinking and I knew that!. I never ran anyone over!. ; )


I can relate because I hate fake smiling and being friendly when I don't want to!. I wait tables at a resort in the summer and there are times I'd sooner throw drinks on people than serve them with a smile!. Talk to your doctor and tell them how you feel!. They can help! Hope it gets better soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com

your not alone!.!.!.many people feel like you, I am a bit of a loner, too much contact with people drains me, but I am sociable sometimes and love a chat!.!.!.

Nothing goes my way in life either and I've thought of killing myself plenty of times, but I just go outside and look at the beautiful sky and fresh air and think!.!.!.well sometimes life can be beautiful and I do want to live!.!.!.!.it is just a case of finding your place in life and it is hard to find friends that are similiar and feel the same, so they can understand you and talk to you!.!.!.!.

Just be positive and find a different job that lets you work with less contact with people!.!.!.!.!.!.you don't know whats down the track, could be real fun and connection and joy!.!.!.hang in there and enjoy life!.!.!.death beats us all!.!.!.so you may as well enjoy yourself while you have life!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I really don't think suicide is a viable answer, and I hope you're not seriously considering it!. I am not a very social person either, and, honestly, I don't see anything wrong with that!. Perhaps you should be looking for a job where you wouldn't be forced to constantly interact with people (or, at least, with a smaller set of people)!. I sometimes find that it's much easier to deal with the same set of people everyday than a large number of new faces!. Try an office job, overnight work, or something like kitchen work in a restaurant!.

As far as not belonging in this world, I really don't think that is very reasonable!. You belong here as much as anyone else!. Just because your particular tastes and preferences are not with the mainstream do not make you unsuitable for life!. If there are things you do not like about yourself, make an attempt to change them; otherwise, if you do like yourself, that's all that really matters!. Don't let other people get you down!. Just make yourself happy and ignore the pressures from the rest of the world!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe you should get a job at the computer!. You know you can order your groceries on the Internet too!. I think you have a problem though, no offense though!. I would talk to a therapist or my doctor about this because it seems like u have a metal problem or something!. No one is insignificant every human life is important!. I'm short too, I'm not too good at most of the things I try, and I'm not that funny!. But I always have a positive out look on life and maybe you should try it too!. Believe me humans are hard to deal with but its better than not dealing with them at all!. I'm sorry you feel this way this problem should have been addressed when you were younger or something!. Don't commit suicide you are healthy a fine why ruin a life that there is nothing wrong with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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