HELP ME, I think I'm depressed and I feel suicidal...?!
Question: HELP ME, I think I'm depressed and I feel suicidal!.!.!.!?
About 4 months ago, my best friend sent me a hurtful email telling me that i was attention seeking, that her mum hated me and other stuff!. She then called about 2 hours later expecting me to have gotten over it!. Who as she kidding!? I was at a friends house crying my eyes out!. Then, I got over it!. But then I spent time with friends who treated me better and i thought it was time to end my friendship with her!. And I did after speaking to my head of lower school (im in school)!. She didnt take it very well and me ignored each other 4 a while!. Then she arranged a 'talk' with our head of lower skool!. she lied about everything!.
Now im really upset!.!.!.I think that I've got clinical depression triggered by her!.!.!.
heres why!.!.!.
my grades have dropped
i get upset about every little thing
i feel suicidal
i feel worthless
im wondering if this world will be a better place without me!.
I have been feeling like that for the last 2 months!. I have tried getting help but it hasnt helped!.
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Now im really upset!.!.!.I think that I've got clinical depression triggered by her!.!.!.
heres why!.!.!.
my grades have dropped
i get upset about every little thing
i feel suicidal
i feel worthless
im wondering if this world will be a better place without me!.
I have been feeling like that for the last 2 months!. I have tried getting help but it hasnt helped!.
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Answers:
I can relate too!. At your age, my body chemistry was all over the place and my world was rocked at the slightest interference!. I imagined my situation was worse than it was!. I always hid that from my parents because the had a habit of either ignoring it or feeding me my mothers Librium!. I never liked feeling dopey and out of control!. My Doctors finally found out I was Manic and gave me several ways to fight it and live with it!. One was to love myself, learn to ignore as best as I could, the bad things people say because I was over sensitive!. Focus on the positive and before I knew it, my feelings of despair and suicide would go away!. This isn't something you can keep a secret from your folks!. You really need to see some one professional!. Just take a deep breath and put a set of head phones on and listen to music or try and go for a vigorous walk!. That too is immediate therapy!. Bottom line!.!.!.Tell your Parents now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel when i was your age I felt like all my friends hated me and all!. You should talk to your parents and your family and tell them how you feel!. Tell them to take you a doctor and take some meds to make you calm down!. Trust me it helps to talk to people I did it and I feel so much better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go c yo self a psychiatrist, skip the psychologist **** that unless u wanna sit on a couch & resolve absolutely nothing while wasting your parents $$!. naw, u need the drugs lol, but im serious tell the parents & tell them u wanna c a psychiatrist to get treatment for your depression!. don't kill yourself, that would be cheating yourself out of the pleasure that could possibly come in the future!. now you're all like omg this life sux, i hate every1, i can barely wake up in the morn, this will never get better ill always b unhappy like this so y go on, right, right!?!?!?!?!? yeah, but remember thats just cuz u r depressed, its kinda like your brain is eating itself alive (haha not really but it feels that way) so u need to help it out with some kinda psychoactive pharmaceutical, believe me it works!. & don't let the world get u down, obviously right now u can't take it bcuz ur already suffering from depression u can't take anymore pain which is perfectly normal,,, just plz get yo self help!. u said u tried getting help b4 & it didnt work,, how so!?!? but u gotta keep on tryin, cuz when i orginially went 2 c my psychiatrist she put me on a drug that wasn't right for me and then i was like this sux & so i switched drugs 2 try another & it worked!!! hallelujah thank god almighty, hope i helped, i no i went on a rant but thats my opinionWww@Answer-Health@Com
You are not worthless and no the world would not be a better place without you! Try therapy and counseling sessions (is very nice to hear others who share same issues)!. When you get down do something to keep yourself busy, I know its not easy to do when you are down but is the best!. What kind of help have you gotten!? And it not helping, it may seem like it doesn't work but take what they do to the next step!. Try the counseling group talk sessions, they help!. Also, don't listen to other people when they talk down to you!. They are just trying to get under your skin and don't also think about what they say!. have you talked to your parents!? Have them go with you to a therapist/ counseling group session so they can see that others share this and how to help you deal with it!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is so normal for girls your age, your body is doing all kinds of wierd things, it will pass and when it does, if someone makes you upset you will handle it much better, thats why they call young girls drama queens, but don't worry you are going to be alright, now as far as the suicide goes, don't be silly, you have so much life ahead of you, if you ended your life now you would miss out on all kinds of good stuff!. I raed a book about the great depression where people were killing themselves because they thought they had lost everything and after they died thier stocks shot up and many of them were dead millionaires!. Note: money is no good when your'e dead!. The moral of the story is this hard times come and hard times go with each storm you get through, you become stronger and you will look back on this and laugh!. Go have a pepperoni pizza and a huge hot fudge sundae!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this rough time hun!.
I know what it's like to have people turn on you!. I grew up the daughter of a preacher and would often be ridiculed when I was about your age!. I remember sometimes feeling SO ALONE like no one understood me!. But things changed for me and I PROMISE they will change for you too!.
When girls are 13 many of them are imature and like to single people out to gossip about!.
First of all I'd like you to think about the people close to you that love you!. If you ever did something to hurt yourself you would also be hurting them!. Please don't ever talk that way hun!.
Also remember summer is coming and there will be a lot of fun things you can look forward to
I also believe when you go back to school in the fall things will start to change!. A lot of girls mature quickly between 8th and 9th grade!. I'll bet things will get A LOT better!
I promise you that things will start to look up soon but ALWAYS thank GOD for the people in your life who love and care about you deeply!
I would LOVE to be your friend! Please email me if you would like to talk about things!.
LOVE MELISSA XOXOXO!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know what it's like to have people turn on you!. I grew up the daughter of a preacher and would often be ridiculed when I was about your age!. I remember sometimes feeling SO ALONE like no one understood me!. But things changed for me and I PROMISE they will change for you too!.
When girls are 13 many of them are imature and like to single people out to gossip about!.
First of all I'd like you to think about the people close to you that love you!. If you ever did something to hurt yourself you would also be hurting them!. Please don't ever talk that way hun!.
Also remember summer is coming and there will be a lot of fun things you can look forward to
I also believe when you go back to school in the fall things will start to change!. A lot of girls mature quickly between 8th and 9th grade!. I'll bet things will get A LOT better!
I promise you that things will start to look up soon but ALWAYS thank GOD for the people in your life who love and care about you deeply!
I would LOVE to be your friend! Please email me if you would like to talk about things!.
LOVE MELISSA XOXOXO!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel, Ive been betrayed as well!. I have severe depression and have attempted suicide as well, and trust me, its NOT fun!.
First off your "friend" was not a real one if she would have the sanity to hurt you like that!. It was downright rude and she is NOt worth all this pain !.
If I were you, I would set up a meeting with your school counselor, they can really help alot in several ways!. If youre close with your parents, you can talk to them too, despite many beliefs, they really are there for you when it comes down to it!.
If you need someone to talk with, you can always email me, I'm around 24/7 and am a very good listener!.
Best of luck
MaggieWww@Answer-Health@Com
First off your "friend" was not a real one if she would have the sanity to hurt you like that!. It was downright rude and she is NOt worth all this pain !.
If I were you, I would set up a meeting with your school counselor, they can really help alot in several ways!. If youre close with your parents, you can talk to them too, despite many beliefs, they really are there for you when it comes down to it!.
If you need someone to talk with, you can always email me, I'm around 24/7 and am a very good listener!.
Best of luck
MaggieWww@Answer-Health@Com