Why is it that as a American I'm worth more dead the alive to my family?!


Question: Why is it that as a American I'm worth more dead the alive to my family!?
I was laid off from the bank i worked for and have not been able to get a job since then it has been over 6 months and i collect unemployment benifets but that is about to run out also i had several jobs offers but when saw my credit which has gone down the tubes since i have been out of work they passed on me!. I have a large family and was making really good money before!. I got a statement from Social Sercurity the other day that showed my wife and kids qould be get well over $4000!.00 amonth if i was to pass away today that comparied to the $1800 i get now tells me im worth more dead then alive to my family so is suicide the best option for me to stop my family from losing everything if my wife can have the funds to care for my kids and home i think that is my best option am i right r workWww@Answer-Health@Com


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The pain and suffering that you are going through must be immense!. Remember that your family needs you for more than just your income!. I would advise meeting with a debt or financial advisor to figure out where you can go so that you have a plan of action!.

I wish you the best of luck in getting a job - perhaps is there somewhere you can move!?

I too have questioned if I'd be better serving my family if I was gone and they'd have the life insurance - I'm a woman, but I have chronic illness issues that are burdensome for my family!. With good therapy and support I've realised that i do contribute a lot to them, even if it wasn't what I was able to do before!.

Hugs, and hang in there!. I am sure that something will come for you, even if it's not what you expect!. Seek out someone to talk to if it's available - it's toxic to hold all those feelings in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Almost enough to get you to support universal health care, huh!?

Your family loves you, but yes, without social supports like they have in other industrialized nations you're sort of screwed!.

There are a lot of organizations to help poor and destitute people!. Get to know them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hell no, do you think your worth anything being dead!? do you kids want you dead so they can have prada!? No the answer is no! loosing everything would be looseing you, most important hold in there!.!.!. rough times come and go you would understand if you knew my situation

Hang in there and god blessWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's not that you're worth more dead than alive, don't take it that way!. You need to talk to a doctor and tell him/her everything you just told us!. A doctor can refer you to people who are more qualified to help you in many ways!. Good luck!. Don't give up yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Live to see your kids grow up, graduate from school, get married and hold your first grandchild!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would suggest finding a better line of work!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Pretty messed up huh!.
No wonder people try to scam insurance companies!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are so wrong on many levels!. First of all, you can not be replaced!. Your role in the life of others is worth far more than what money can buy!. Would you want your wife or a child to die so that you could have money!? I hope not!. And I would think they feel the same way about you!.

You're in a difficult period right now, but you can't predict that the future will be like that too!. Just because you're having trouble landing a job doesn't mean you will never land a job again!. Things are sure to turn around at some point!. Obviously, you have the ability to earn good income, and you perhaps need to meet with a job counselor and a financial planner to figure out what to do!. But, you are worth nothing dead!. Money will not replace you!.

Also, $4000/month in 10 or so years will be like $2000/month after inflation, so even by that measure it's better that you try to figure out how to improve your work situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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