Do you think that people who hog the covers are inherently selfish?!
Question: Do you think that people who hog the covers are inherently selfish!?
my husband was the only child in his family and sometimes seems a bit selfish!. and i have noticed that he always wants to lay in the center of our bed spread out leaving me no room and he always wraps all of the covers around himself!. i have to ask him to roll over and give me covers at least 5 times every night!. however i, who had siblings, never behave this was when i am sleeping!. do you think it is a subconscious thing!? like i am willing to share the bed and he is not!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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That is a amazing thought, I have a boyfriend who take my covers as well!. I wake up several times a night and have to wake him up to get them back!. His personality does reflect slightly selfishly almost like his way or the highway in the aspect of how things should be!. A great example buying things for the house!.!.!.maybe because he owns it he feels I have no decoration say!. I don't know how to explain but awesome thought, you got me thinking!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i dont think it has anything to do with it, some people naturally spread out when they sleep at night and steeling the covors is just a reflex for when your cold- i for instance- strangely enough kick off the covers when i sleep, that does not mean that i am the self-sacrificing type!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I only have one brother and we are 16 years apart!. Never really had to share anything but I have never been greedy like that!. I think it's just because he's not used to sharing the bed or covers!. He'll be used to it with time!. If not get some covers for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah i guess!. Now im aware of it haha Well I'm an only child and I do that!.!.!.I can't share a blanket it makes me feel anxious I'd rather have no blanket at all!. Maybe you should get two blankets and just push him to the side :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it's not so much selfishness but as an only child he did not have to share as much as you, who sharing has become second nature due to having siblings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you betcha he's a totally self absorbed, selfish piece of work!. get a separate blanket and crack the whip on sharing that space!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
UHHHH i had a friend that did that i considered stapling the blankets to the bed next time she sleeps !.!.!.!.
i hate it its very selfish !.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i hate it its very selfish !.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get a different room
obviously hes used to doing itWww@Answer-Health@Com
obviously hes used to doing itWww@Answer-Health@Com
he is used to it!. like when at home i sleep by myself and in hotel rooms i fight w/ my dad for the coversWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe he has issues from his childhood, sub conscious ones that he doesnt remember!.!.!.!.is he ok when out of the bed!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
yes
get sleeping bagsWww@Answer-Health@Com
get sleeping bagsWww@Answer-Health@Com
sleep on seperate bedsWww@Answer-Health@Com
I really don't think he means it!. You might have to just get a cover for each of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i cant prove it, but i agree!. when my wife does that i just steal em back! dont sleep cold!Www@Answer-Health@Com