How to be nicer?!


Question: How to be nicer!?
all my friends say im really mean!.!.HOW do i become nicer!?
ps: this is a dumb question i know alreadyWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
It isn't a dumb question!. Alot of Americans today are in such a hurry and so worried about their situations that they take very little or no time to think about others!. The first thing to do is slow down, think before you speak!. Try to think of the other person and how they will feel if you do a certain thing!. Think about it when you are alone or before you go to bed at night!. How would I feel in a given situation if someone did this to me!? And think of some nice things to say or do to make up for past mistakes!. Try to think deep about yourself and why you think you might act the way you do!. Take it from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Make sure you respect and value the opinions of the people who are telling you this!. If you believe they are serious, and aren't trying to hurt you or play games, then maybe you should do something about it!.

Many cranky/mean people are highly sensitive!. Go to www!.hsperson!.com and take the test there!. If you are, then you will probably benefit from learning to relax in a more deliberate way than most people!. Suggestions include yoga, tai chi, meditation, regular exercise, getting more and regular sleep!. Reading the book THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON may help, and the author has some articles in her newsletter for highly sensitive teens!.

Then, do try to slow down and consider how other people might hear what you say!. Some people who get into the "sarcasm habit" think what they're saying is funny, but it really sounds terrible and hurtful to others!. It's just a habit like any other, you can break it!.

You sound young, that is in your favor, and this is the perfect time to think about being the best person you can be!. If you apply yourself to this, I'm sure you will improve!. Wanting to do so is very admirable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know it sounds lame, but this is how I taught myself,

Remember when your parents used to tell you "treat others the way you want to be treated!?"

Well it really helps, every time you are about to do something mean just paraphrase that in your head!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have the opposite problem, everyone says I'm too nice, so perhaps I could learn a few tips from you, and you from me!.
I'm still called PeachiePie even though I'm a grandmother(smile) so you see what I mean!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

the eaaasiest way!.!. is to just think about stuff in ur head before u r gonna say it!.!. think about how the person might take it!.!. and then rephrase it or dont say it at all!.!. just care about the otehr ppl's feelingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Be yourself, and dont worry about it!. they dont know either!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Be considerate of people's feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

think before you speak! be respectful, don't say anything you wouldn't want to hear from someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

shut ur pie hole!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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