People acting like idiots, smoking, laughing, and staring?!


Question: People acting like idiots, smoking, laughing, and staring!?
For some odd reason, people are acting like idiots in front of me!. Sometimes when my mom drives the car I can see out the window people are looking at me and are either acting like idiots, smoking and giving me pissed/rude faces, and laughing or staring at me!. Some don't do anything at all (I do not like it when people smoke or act like idiots, because it's just plain stupid to be an idiot unless your actually an idiot, and people who smoke will eventually kill themselves!.)

Is this abuse!? I can no longer walk outside my door without somebody doing something to me!. I need to find out what's going on!. WHAT THE H*LL IS GOING ON!? THIS IS SERIOUS!! I'm not crazy nor going crazy!. I actually SEE this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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is this at school!? If so ask if ur mom can pick u up in a diff area where those clowns can't see u!. iTs not being afraid of them, its just avoidng their maliciousness!. Secondly u neeeeed to stop looking at them, especially eye contact!! In a way ur fueling them by looking at them!. These kids or ppl u mention r trouble makers and intimidators!. In all honesty act like their not around and don't be next to them or near them as much as possible!!!!!!! Have ur mom pick u up!.
somewhere else so that they don't know!.
And if she can't, then still IGNORE THEM AND KEEP UR HEAD UP AND EYES OFF THE FLOOR!!!!!!!!!!!! aPPear confident or just where those mini inner ear head phones and jam to music but not too loud so that u can still hear!.
Ignore those drug absuers!. T
heir just hating on u even if its jsut to mess around, they probably do it to other ppl to i bet!! I remeber two kids doing this to e but i already in the car and i didn't know them they made feel ashamed and weird when i know i'm not! But these kids were probably a yr or two younger tahnn me!.!.!.just a pair a punks and yes tehy did like give me weird looks and like laughing and just straring!. I know i'm not weird looking lol, my sis noticed their behavior as well!. I don't think ur crazy from wat u said!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your not going crazy, its called people are a$$ h0les, and sometimes you have to get hard with them to show them that your not playing any games, because if one person disrespects you then they all will!. if someone stares at you you have two options either ignore it and go on ignoring malicious indirect insults, or face it and do something offensive back!.!.!.it might be immature yes but stooping down to their level sometimes gets the point across!.!.!.!.only stoop to it sometimes though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

To be blunt you sound like you have the mental illness of Paranoid Schizophrenic and that is a genetic illness,or you could have Major Anxiety Disorder!. I say that because my former husband was just like you are and had Major Anxiety Disorder!. I would say go get a psych evaluation and if they say you need to take such and such med then take them because it will only get worse never better without medication!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are reading more into people's behavior than is actually happen!. Why would "everybody" be staring at you!. Are you that important!? If you stare at them, they may stare at you!. If this doesn't go down, you need to see a therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its simple: SOME PEOPLE CAN BE TOTAL NIMRODS!.

Take care and stay positive, dont let anyone get you down!.

Ps: YOU ARE NOT CRAZY!. No one is!. Sometimes we ARE irrational though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you are being neurotic!. People do not care about you!. Just live your life and don't worry what others think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think you are suffering from paranoiyaWww@Answer-Health@Com

huh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

i wouldn't worry if i were you!. this happens to everyone!. its not abuse!. they dont know u so how on earth can they abuse you!? giving an unearthly look is not even the essence of abuse!. dont wry!. if they do this to u simply ignore!. Its easier said then done but atleast try!.
i agree with u! like why would u wanna smoke!? smoking is just plain nasty and i dont even know why someone "made" it!.
it happened to me a couple of times!. I simply give them an absurd look back or just ignore!. who r they to u!? u shouldnt even give a dam about such idiots!. walk around with a kiss-my-*** attitude and you'll be fine!

hope i helped! (if u really like my answer, thank me by awarding me tons of points ;) )Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, this is serious!. For one thing, there will ALWAYS be idiots in the world, what they say or do is none of your business!. It's THEIR life!. Yeah, people do weird stuff all the time!. God says 'Judge NOT or YOU will be judged'!. He said that for a reason!. For you to think that they are ALL directing their laughing at you, is odd!. Two reasons come to mind, ONE you are STARING at them!. I think this one is the most logical!. People don't like to be stared at!. It's rude, it's condescending and it's strange!. TWO you are IMAGINING that this is occuring!. Your brain is telling you this, but it's not really happening!. So, you need to either stop staring at people and judging them OR you need to seek mental health assistance!. If you are school age, talk to your parents!. If you can't talk to your parents confide in your school counselor!. Print these responses and tell them it is YOU writing!. You definitely need some help hon!.

PS When my dad used to drive me to school, I had him drop me off at the back entrance!. Kids will ALWAYS tease the kid who is dropped off by mom/dad!. It's the ritual, so find ways around it!. You should seldom be seen w/mom or dad if you can help it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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