Do you know someone that plays the martyr role all the time?!
Question: Do you know someone that plays the martyr role all the time!?
If so how do you handle them!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yes!.!.!.my wife! She does everything and I do nothing at all!.
Let me see, I work 50 hours plus every week, dishes, laundry, help with homework, lawn work, maintain the cars, volunteer work, just to name a few!.
She works 16 hour a week outside of the home, dishes, laundry, help with homework, balances the finances, community volunteer, !.!.!.!?
I remind her where the door is and that if she feels that she is so used and abused here!.!.!.there it is and don't let it hit her in the butt on the way out!.
This has been working for me for 25 years!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Let me see, I work 50 hours plus every week, dishes, laundry, help with homework, lawn work, maintain the cars, volunteer work, just to name a few!.
She works 16 hour a week outside of the home, dishes, laundry, help with homework, balances the finances, community volunteer, !.!.!.!?
I remind her where the door is and that if she feels that she is so used and abused here!.!.!.there it is and don't let it hit her in the butt on the way out!.
This has been working for me for 25 years!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I do, The way to handle us is to acknowledge what they actually have done, and show them clear evidence of what you have done!. I act like a martyr because I actually feel that I haven't accomplished anything, so I have to minimize other's accomplishments to offset my guilt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yeah, I know a few people like that!. Generally they do it because they feel underappreciated!. Just saying "thanks, I really appreciate you doing ______" goes a long way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to them!. They probably want a little attention!. If it bothers you, KINDLY explain to them that they aren't Mother Teresa or Hercules!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my mother in law!. I just ignore her!. I dont bother to explain and say anything because she always make me feel miserable and i am not being that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com