Do you live with someone very negative and you are a positive person?!


Question: Do you live with someone very negative and you are a positive person!?
I live with someone who is very negative and would like you to tell me all about it and how you cope!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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No, I live alone!. I would just try my best to ignore them and tune out their negativity!. Or every time they say something negative counter it with something positive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My fiance is very negative most of the time!. He;s always tired, cranky and irritated!. He's such a sweet guy on the weekends and when we are on vacation but during the work week, he can be hard to deal with!. It's like, I have my own stress to deal with, I don't need him to add to it!. It's hard to cope but I just keep the good things at forefront in my mind!. Try talking to the person to find out why they are so negative!. Maybe you can help cheer them up!. I usually give him some space when he gets home from work and when he realizes that I have been staying away from him, he will some to me and try to cuddle and then I know he has relaxed and chilled out from work!. You just gotta figure out what the other person needs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am a very optimistic person however i ahve my dabbles in pesitmistic times!. i know 2 very pesimitic people in my house i try to adviod them like the plague but alas it doesn't work!. i find trying to put something positive in the day, like compliment then and cheer them upWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, I do!. I understand exactly what you are talking about!. Nothing is ever good enough!. There is never enough money to pay for everything!. Ask this person to do a favor!? You either get an overdone, OMG yes, let me get to that right away, or it never gets done!. Good luck!. I'm stuck and will remain that way!. Just thankful that I am not battered!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have before in the past!. And sreknawllaru, you have absolutely NO idea what you are talking about!. Sometimes, going through horribly trying circumstances makes a person stronger and they come out even more positive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

/hon is that you!?!.!.!.!.lol too funny; that's my wife's name and I'm the negative one!.!.!.!.bizzare!.

Anyway she pointed out to me that I'm negative in the EXTREME, i am, i just wasn't aware that it affected her!. Once she told me i started to work very hard at trying not to be so negative!.

Small world!.!.!.good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Speak up!. I totally lost my mind when my gf was being so negative all the times!. so i told her, if your afraid to do anything, then you will accomplish nothing!.

so u can try that or something like that!. usually the hard way is most effective!. in means of talking that is!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm the negative one I guess!. Everyone around me at home school and everywhere seems so happy and positive and I'm the one whos negative!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are positive you will be able to say to yourself "yes they are negative, but I am only going to be living here for such and such amount of time"!. Use your skills at being positive!Www@Answer-Health@Com

my family are all negative people trying to bring me down and i dont want to seem negative either i wanna be positive so i just dont talk to themWww@Answer-Health@Com

nah!.!.!.i'm the negative one!. i don't understand how anyone can be really positive!. seems fake to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my partnerWww@Answer-Health@Com

"positive" people have never been through anything to hurt them so bad, they have no place to judge, these people are as valid as anyone else so if you want to put them down your only spreading more negativity, they tend to have real problems and wouldn't do that themselvesWww@Answer-Health@Com





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