I think i need help with my walk with Jesus?!
Question: I think i need help with my walk with Jesus!?
hey,
I'm 13 and i think there is something wrong with me!.!.!.i used to be a strong Christian even know i was so young, now all of a sudden i start to get these feelings were i started to cut myself sometimes i didn't even know why!. i felt like i just wanted to die so i could be up with God!. i cut my wrist a few times as well and i felt as if id gone mental it was like i was two faced!.!.!. one side of me was saying to talk to someone about it and pray, then i started pushing god away and people started asking me to get drunk and i knew that i shouldn't but i did anyway, now i have fully backslided and everything is going wrong, i just fell like killing myself so i can be with god and get out of this world!.!.!. even though i wouldn't go to heaven because ive pushed god away so far, now i just want to dieWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 13 and i think there is something wrong with me!.!.!.i used to be a strong Christian even know i was so young, now all of a sudden i start to get these feelings were i started to cut myself sometimes i didn't even know why!. i felt like i just wanted to die so i could be up with God!. i cut my wrist a few times as well and i felt as if id gone mental it was like i was two faced!.!.!. one side of me was saying to talk to someone about it and pray, then i started pushing god away and people started asking me to get drunk and i knew that i shouldn't but i did anyway, now i have fully backslided and everything is going wrong, i just fell like killing myself so i can be with god and get out of this world!.!.!. even though i wouldn't go to heaven because ive pushed god away so far, now i just want to dieWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
dear chris
from what you write i hear a lot of alarm-bells ringing!. you MUST talk to someone that can help you with your problems!. no-one starts cutting him/her self without reason!. mind you, i am NOT a psychiatrist or something like that but i know for a fact that you need and should talk to one!.
as far as GOD is concerned i can help you because in that case i am qualified to give you insight!. why!?!?!?!? i am an ordaind minister!.
1) GOD never turns HIS back on anyone and if you think you have "fallen' ie backslid all you have to do is ask GOD to forgive you in the name of JESUS and HE will!.
2) if you would kill yourself you would definatly end up where you don't want to be and that's hell!. this has nothing to do with "i pushed GOD to far away from me" because that's NOT possible!. it simply has to do with the fact that GOD said :" you must NOT commit murder" and that includes murdering yourself!.
3) stay away from people that get you to drink alcohol and/or take drugs!. stuff like that will not do anything for you except get you deeper into dispair
4) talk to your pastor about spiritual matters and talk to a scholl-councelor, a psychiatrist and/or a psycho-therapist about you inner feelings of cutting yourself and/or thoughts of suicide!.
there is help for you but you will have to take the first step in order to get that help!.
don't do anything stupid!. there are also hotlines available that can help you!. they are there 24/7, you can find their toll-free-number in any phonebook and they will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
from what you write i hear a lot of alarm-bells ringing!. you MUST talk to someone that can help you with your problems!. no-one starts cutting him/her self without reason!. mind you, i am NOT a psychiatrist or something like that but i know for a fact that you need and should talk to one!.
as far as GOD is concerned i can help you because in that case i am qualified to give you insight!. why!?!?!?!? i am an ordaind minister!.
1) GOD never turns HIS back on anyone and if you think you have "fallen' ie backslid all you have to do is ask GOD to forgive you in the name of JESUS and HE will!.
2) if you would kill yourself you would definatly end up where you don't want to be and that's hell!. this has nothing to do with "i pushed GOD to far away from me" because that's NOT possible!. it simply has to do with the fact that GOD said :" you must NOT commit murder" and that includes murdering yourself!.
3) stay away from people that get you to drink alcohol and/or take drugs!. stuff like that will not do anything for you except get you deeper into dispair
4) talk to your pastor about spiritual matters and talk to a scholl-councelor, a psychiatrist and/or a psycho-therapist about you inner feelings of cutting yourself and/or thoughts of suicide!.
there is help for you but you will have to take the first step in order to get that help!.
don't do anything stupid!. there are also hotlines available that can help you!. they are there 24/7, you can find their toll-free-number in any phonebook and they will help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can start fresh with God anytime!.You can never push God too far away!. He is always waiting to be asked back in!. I would also suggest finding a christian counselor and get help for the cutting!. God gave people wisdom and knowledge to help others!. Ask someone for help!.Keep praying for guidance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So many people will feel sad if you die!. You're taking this religion thing way to far!. There are so many enjoyable things to do in life!. Your "God" will wait for you when the time comes for you to die!. Your were born to live and he wants you to have a full life!. You'll have eternity to be with him after your demise say like in 80 more years!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont wory god dosnt hate you!.!.!.!.!.because he dosnt exist and never has!.!.!.when you die that is the end there is no heven
people belive in god , heven and hell because its impossible to imagen nothing-ness after death
good look trying to prove that he ever has existed!.
and dont bother killing ur self!.!.!.!.what would be the point!?
u`d never hav a life away from ur parents, ud never hav a girlfriend or a childWww@Answer-Health@Com
people belive in god , heven and hell because its impossible to imagen nothing-ness after death
good look trying to prove that he ever has existed!.
and dont bother killing ur self!.!.!.!.what would be the point!?
u`d never hav a life away from ur parents, ud never hav a girlfriend or a childWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey Chris ! Hang in there buddy! It will get better!
Read "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren (best seller)
You know as well as anyone that God sent you here for a reason!. And you also know God said I will never leave you or forsake you!. And guess what He hasn't, even if it seems like you have drifted from Him!. He hasn't left you buddy! Just get back on track with God, He forgives you! I would get some counseling with a church pastor since it is free and it will be good counsel!. Cutting as you know works because it relieves stress and makes you feel like it gives you a measure of control of feelings!. But obviously, we have to learn to relieve stress in healthier ways like exercise, good communication with others, eating healthy, fun activities, friends!. Hormone swings and stress can be rough this time of life, but if you eat right and exercise and keep God first by trusting Him with every area of your life and following your heart, you will feel better!. If it seems like it still is a chemistry problem, see a psychiatrist to get on a good antidepressant for a while to help normalize your brain neurochemistry!. Remember, God sent you here to help Him!. So find out what your calling is and follow His Holy Spirit to fulfill it!. God Bless man! You can
e-mail me at arro2!.mark@yahoo!.com anytime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Read "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren (best seller)
You know as well as anyone that God sent you here for a reason!. And you also know God said I will never leave you or forsake you!. And guess what He hasn't, even if it seems like you have drifted from Him!. He hasn't left you buddy! Just get back on track with God, He forgives you! I would get some counseling with a church pastor since it is free and it will be good counsel!. Cutting as you know works because it relieves stress and makes you feel like it gives you a measure of control of feelings!. But obviously, we have to learn to relieve stress in healthier ways like exercise, good communication with others, eating healthy, fun activities, friends!. Hormone swings and stress can be rough this time of life, but if you eat right and exercise and keep God first by trusting Him with every area of your life and following your heart, you will feel better!. If it seems like it still is a chemistry problem, see a psychiatrist to get on a good antidepressant for a while to help normalize your brain neurochemistry!. Remember, God sent you here to help Him!. So find out what your calling is and follow His Holy Spirit to fulfill it!. God Bless man! You can
e-mail me at arro2!.mark@yahoo!.com anytime!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Eat a very good healthy diet and exercise atleast 1 hr daily!.Continue with your prayers!.God will never forgive, who end up their life themselves!.So don't try to end your life soon!.
Don't expect things to happen as you like!.Just accept everyone as they are!.Don't try to change anybody,that is not your job!.Do your duties and for the rest of the things, leave it to god!.
Agitated mind is very common in teenage!.Don't worry!.Just struggle to live for another 6 yrs!.Everything will go fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't expect things to happen as you like!.Just accept everyone as they are!.Don't try to change anybody,that is not your job!.Do your duties and for the rest of the things, leave it to god!.
Agitated mind is very common in teenage!.Don't worry!.Just struggle to live for another 6 yrs!.Everything will go fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well if u do commit suicide(WHICH YOU SHOULD NEVER DO!!! EVER!) God would still love you if u just asked for forgiveness unless you completely dont belive in Him anymore!. but God put you on the earth for a reason, and that wasnt just so you could get drunk an commit suicide!. talk to the persone you trust most that is safe and doesnt drink or smoke or anything bad, then go to a counselor!. but whatever you do, do NOT kill yourself!. your life will get better if u just hold on for at least a year!. and yes, definately pray about this!. ask God for forgiveness if you are really sorry!. Also, 13 years old is WAY to young to be getting drunk and cutting! but no age is a good age!. Remember, God loves anybody, no matter how much they mess up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
being 13 sucks!. you'll be fine, just wait it out, or you'll miss some awesome stuf when you're older!. out of everyone i know, being 12-13ish was the worst time of their life!. so it can only get better!. you remind me of me!. I'm not religious but i was at your age and it's a hard time, you are growing up and want to push boundries!. maybe try talking to a youth leader in your church!. you can also try someone at your school, although they were no help to me when i was your age!. try not to drink yet, you're still developing and that could mess you up the most, and you have a higher chance of becoming addicted!. if you can't talk to your parents, talk to either someone at your school or your church!. they will be able to help you better then the internets!. but rest assured you will be fine!. being 13 sucks!. high schoool is much better then middle school, and college life is awesome!. i was depressed and cutting when i was your age, you will work through it and be a better stronger person because of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com