I'm breaking up with my Passive Aggressive boyfriend and I'm scared???!
Question: I'm breaking up with my Passive Aggressive boyfriend and I'm scared!?!?!?
I told him to get out today!. He just left without anything and it was all over within 10 seconds!. Door shut and everything!.
But it was easy!.!.!.TOO easy!. I know him and his Passive Aggressive ways, and he's never been one to just throw his hands up and leave well enough alone!. There's always some subtext or some degree of reading between the lines that has to go on first!. He'll say everything is fine, and then sulk, fold his arms, and huff, puff and sigh [temper tantrum]!.
I think he left so quickly because he's expecting me to call back and apologize to him for telling him to leave!. I don't think he takes it seriously at all!.
What worries me though, is what will he do when he realizes I'm serious about this!? After the dust has settled, and I still haven't called him!. The main themes of our relationship are Competition and Control!. I've ripped the control right out of his hands and beat him to the punch, so to speak!.
How will he react to that!? What will he do!? What do you think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
But it was easy!.!.!.TOO easy!. I know him and his Passive Aggressive ways, and he's never been one to just throw his hands up and leave well enough alone!. There's always some subtext or some degree of reading between the lines that has to go on first!. He'll say everything is fine, and then sulk, fold his arms, and huff, puff and sigh [temper tantrum]!.
I think he left so quickly because he's expecting me to call back and apologize to him for telling him to leave!. I don't think he takes it seriously at all!.
What worries me though, is what will he do when he realizes I'm serious about this!? After the dust has settled, and I still haven't called him!. The main themes of our relationship are Competition and Control!. I've ripped the control right out of his hands and beat him to the punch, so to speak!.
How will he react to that!? What will he do!? What do you think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'd make sure your with friends who you truly trust & can truly rely upon when your not at home!.
Also, You need to talk with your parents about this!.
I wouldn't rule out contacting the police either!. It's better to be safe then sorry!.
May God protect & watch over you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, You need to talk with your parents about this!.
I wouldn't rule out contacting the police either!. It's better to be safe then sorry!.
May God protect & watch over you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
stay strong, have someone near by with out him knowing so if it comes to it they can back you up(it would be a good idea that its a big guy that can inforce)!. put everything of his in the lawn, let him know that this is for real not a little fight!. dont give into his temper tantrums!
you can do it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can do it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
just stay near a phone and have a reliablle hiding spot incase the door opens!. get somebody to pretend to be ur bf for some protection!. if he is a true man he would never come back to say anything to you or DO anything to you!.!.!. have a good weapon around just incase ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to play it out like a chess game!. Plan several moves ahead and be ready for anything!. He may try to sabotage your car or break in your home and then not leave!. Stand your ground and i am proud of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ill go beat him up im a black betl in taeqwon do and judo! lol jk idk!. sleep with a knife in your hand!. carry a gun with u at all X's and why did yo go out iwht him if is really aggressiveWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well I doubt anyone will be able to predict what he is going to do the only way to reassure yourself is to do something about this!. I know it may be difficult for you but maybe the best thing would be to call him up to try and discuss everything calmly, even if he is passive aggressive he might take it better if you talk to him on equal terms, but at the same time don't lead him to believe that you still want to be with him!.!. that is the only solution I can come up with if you are really scared, besides that all you can do is wait it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com