How can I rebuild my shocked mind which was broken by my mother's unnatural !


Question: How can I rebuild my shocked mind which was broken by my mother's unnatural death!?
My mother lived with me for a long time!. She was in good health!. One day my elder sister brought my mother to her house promising to give more facilities to my mother!. But my sister did not do anything what she promised!. She has ignored my mother completely!. Instead, my sister has taken over a land owned to my mother!. As a result, my mother's physical condition and mental condition has become to a very critical state!. Even my mother has not been consulted to a Doctor!. At last my mother died!.
I was shocked by this incident!. Now my mind is a confuced one!. Now I regret for letting to my mother to go with my sister!.
How can I escape from my present mental situation!? How can I rebuild my confuced mind!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You can't feel guilty for something that was not your doing!. Your intentions were good ones, but life and people are unpredictable!.
Now your mother has passed, you wont forget her but you should move on!. Take a holiday, or do something positive to renew your life!. In a little time you won't feel so bad about the situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

im in the same state of mind!.my brother had tragic death recently!.take one day at a time!.write to your mother as often as you want!.this really helps,i do this!.you will have all kinds of emotions!.it takes time to grieve!.dont make any major decisions in your life!.time will heal!.talking about the loved one also helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

theres nothing you could of done just remember her the way she was pretend shes still alive but just moved away and go on with your life re-confuse your mind tell your self she moved away either to heaven or Europe shes not complete dead you have her spiritWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are really feeling guilty not confused as would any one else!.I was told long ago if i felt guilt, shame, etc to write a letter to that person!.Get it all out on paper all of your feelings anything you can think of and read it aloud!.when you've done that then its time to let it go and move on!.You cant change the past,but you can change the now if you no what i mean!.Why don't you go the your mom grave and just sit and talk to her!.You really need to get your feelings ourt before you can move on!.Maybe talk to a counsler, priest, etc!.I wish you luck but you can move on from this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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