How can I get over this anxiety?!
Question: How can I get over this anxiety!?
Well, the guy that I think i'm in love with i have not seen in around 9 months!. So after we hung out which was last september, Its all a blur my memory is so awful you have no idea!. So i 'think' we started talking again on AIM in Febuary, then i asked him to hangout again, and he never confirmed it, so then about a month of not talking he comes on again (May 1st) and ever since then weve talked nearly everyday (because he got online, we dont talk on the phone) I REALLY wanna see him again but i'm scared i'll just embarass myself and run out of topics to talk about that il get so nervous il just start rambling! It seriously depressing, its so hard to get close to this guy because its just the way he is!. How can i get rid of this anxiety that i have!? :lWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
you're in the state of mind that is "what do i have to offer him!?" that's not the way it should be!. That's not the question here, so stop treating it like that!. Start treating it as "what does he have to offer me" he can be cute and funny, but what it really comes down to is that you have to have self-confidence!.
It's the best way to get over it!. keep asking yourself "what does he have to offer me" and then name all of the cool qualities about you!. you seem smart, and just a bit paranoid you're going to mess up a good friendship if you try to take the next step!.
Next time you talk to him ask yourself "what does he have to offer me" and not the other way around!. Act a bit conceited, like you're better than him, but not too much (playing hard to get)!. It drives guys crazy!. Then one day be all like "hey, so i was originally going to see this movie with my friends this weekend but they totally bailed on me!. But i really wanna go see it, so since i have no one else to go with you should come with me"
It sounds to me as though you want to risk it all but you're just afraid it's going to mess up your friendship!. it's better to have love and lost than to have never known what it was like to love at all!. trust me, it comes back to bite you in the @$$!. Take the plunge, worse comes to worse you find out you can't swim and in that case just have your friends help you out, it's what they're there for
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It's the best way to get over it!. keep asking yourself "what does he have to offer me" and then name all of the cool qualities about you!. you seem smart, and just a bit paranoid you're going to mess up a good friendship if you try to take the next step!.
Next time you talk to him ask yourself "what does he have to offer me" and not the other way around!. Act a bit conceited, like you're better than him, but not too much (playing hard to get)!. It drives guys crazy!. Then one day be all like "hey, so i was originally going to see this movie with my friends this weekend but they totally bailed on me!. But i really wanna go see it, so since i have no one else to go with you should come with me"
It sounds to me as though you want to risk it all but you're just afraid it's going to mess up your friendship!. it's better to have love and lost than to have never known what it was like to love at all!. trust me, it comes back to bite you in the @$$!. Take the plunge, worse comes to worse you find out you can't swim and in that case just have your friends help you out, it's what they're there for
hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Oh good grief!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. its just a guy!. There is absolutely nothing that special about anything that you have said about him!. Either do it or dont but dont make a big drama out of it!.!.!. life is to short!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Accept him, accept you and act!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
how far away do you live from each other!? any talks of him coming for another visit!?Www@Answer-Health@Com