Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Question: Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.!.!.
why can't i ever find friends that give a damN about me!?!!?!?! why do i have such horrible luck with people!?!!?!!?!!!?!!? i been depressed for years and i've gotten so bad lately!. after my panic attack i said im changing!. GUESS WHAT NO1 ELSE IS! I'm so upset right now!. I'm so tired of this!. I didn't ask for this!. I'm so nice!.!.!.respectful and everything!. I'm not annoying i'm not a bad person!. Why don't i have at least one friend who would do the same for me as i do for everyone!?!!?! i do have on really good friend but we havn't seen each other in years!. he can't just come over right now if i needed him ya know!. we are talking online so thats good!. i just please cheer me up!. tell me i will find good people one day!. im 20!.!.!.i hate this!. im sitting here crying!.!.!.not out with friends!. my "best friend" who was gunna come the past few days decided to not come and not even tell me!!! im so upset i hate this!. why the hell does this happen!. i didn't do anything to her!!! i hate this baby garbage!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
it sounds like you are much more mature than the people you consider your friends try hanging out with a Little older crowd an I believe that you will have better luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
You want a friend that will be willing to take a bullet for you and, in return, you claim to be "respectful" of them!.
I'm "Respectful" of most STRANGERS I meet!. I consider it the minimum level of acceptable interaction!.
Sounds to me like there's an imbalance of what you expect to get and expect to give in a friendship!.
Plus, you're a drama queen - that gets old really quick!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm "Respectful" of most STRANGERS I meet!. I consider it the minimum level of acceptable interaction!.
Sounds to me like there's an imbalance of what you expect to get and expect to give in a friendship!.
Plus, you're a drama queen - that gets old really quick!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be strong and remeber-if you cannot count on yourself-then who can you count on!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im sorry to hear that you are feeling this way!. I myself have gone through similar situations and feelings!. I felt so down and insecure, i drove everyone away from me!. I felt lonley!. But this terrible disease called depression has landed me there!. One day I got fed up!.!.!.!. I couldnt stand the lonliness had I had restricted myself to!. I decided to get help!. I went and saw a pscycotherapist!. She helped me to rediscover who I was and also gave me the tools to regulate my terrible feelings!. Also helped me undersatnd that the depression is only apart of me, and not all of me and there were parts of myself that i should learn to love!. Small baby steps down the track I slowly but surely held my head up and the bad days wernt so bad!. The people who had drifted away from me were coming back into my life!. I heard things like " jess, its so good to see the old you back, and most importantly to see a smile on your face!."
I learnt that alot people struggle to help people with depression, and sometimes paying for a professional to point you in the right direction helps!.
Dont lose hope, you have a life ahead of you and things wont be so confusing!. You just have to take the first step!.!.!.youl never look back, i promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I learnt that alot people struggle to help people with depression, and sometimes paying for a professional to point you in the right direction helps!.
Dont lose hope, you have a life ahead of you and things wont be so confusing!. You just have to take the first step!.!.!.youl never look back, i promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im 21!.!. ive had hundreds of friends over the years but for some reason or another lost contact with them!. But still i remain!. Deadstar is completely correct!. I say family and friends should be one of the most important things to you BUT the most important is yourself!. Cos when you become old grey and full of wrinkles and everyone has passed on!.!.!. u will be the only one standing there!.!.!. holding URSELF up!.!.!. believe in yourself!!!! When you start depending on people to help you, fix u make u and mold u - this leaves you open to hurt!. Trust your self push urself grow with yourself but always go back to ur mates for a good laugh coz at the end of the day they are all crazy hahaha!.
no need to worry hun!. true friends are like milk they sometimes just go outa date!.
good luck and love urself huni!. its a big world but ull always have YOU!Www@Answer-Health@Com
no need to worry hun!. true friends are like milk they sometimes just go outa date!.
good luck and love urself huni!. its a big world but ull always have YOU!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Welcome to life hun!.
I am 23 years old btw!.
Heres the thing you have to understand!.
NO matter what, you should always be able to count on one person!.!. that person is yourself!.
You are the only person who can get you through anything in life!.!.and when you have problems and need to figure it out, sure you can ask for others opinions but yours is the only one that matters in the end!.
There are good people in the world!.!.but you shouldn't trust any of them with your problems!. Rely on yourself!.!. you are the only person you can count on!.
After I figured it out, that I Don't need anyone else to help me with my life!.!. its made having what friends I do have, easier!.!. especially since they never were there for me when I needed them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am 23 years old btw!.
Heres the thing you have to understand!.
NO matter what, you should always be able to count on one person!.!. that person is yourself!.
You are the only person who can get you through anything in life!.!.and when you have problems and need to figure it out, sure you can ask for others opinions but yours is the only one that matters in the end!.
There are good people in the world!.!.but you shouldn't trust any of them with your problems!. Rely on yourself!.!. you are the only person you can count on!.
After I figured it out, that I Don't need anyone else to help me with my life!.!. its made having what friends I do have, easier!.!. especially since they never were there for me when I needed them!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The first thing is you are revolving your life around other people!.You need to learn to love yourself more !.we came into this world by ourselves and we will leave the same!. Another thing is this has happened so many times to you that you expect it now you need to get rid of negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts!.when you start to do that and start to learn to enjoy your own company you attract positive people and things!.love yourself live for today in joy and don't worry about tomorrow it has enough worry of it's ownWww@Answer-Health@Com
Calm down a little and breathe!.
Whenever I feel bad, I think about the people who would love to be me!. Think about the kids who don't have what you do!. You're 20 and alive!. That much is a blessing!. Not to mention, you have at least one person who cares for you, you're a wonderful person, you have the money for a computer with Internet, and probably a lot more!. Just sit down and count your blessings!.
Then, try to think about what your friends are going through!. Try to understand why they're not there!. Maybe they're having personal crises of their own!.
If this really upsets you and you're not opposed to it, try to go to church!. I'm not a huge Bible thumper, but church is quite uplifting and they have a lot of kind people there!. You can also do community work and meet new people there or just start talking to your waitor/waitress next time you eat out!.
I hope you feel better!. :] Honestly!. No sarcasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Whenever I feel bad, I think about the people who would love to be me!. Think about the kids who don't have what you do!. You're 20 and alive!. That much is a blessing!. Not to mention, you have at least one person who cares for you, you're a wonderful person, you have the money for a computer with Internet, and probably a lot more!. Just sit down and count your blessings!.
Then, try to think about what your friends are going through!. Try to understand why they're not there!. Maybe they're having personal crises of their own!.
If this really upsets you and you're not opposed to it, try to go to church!. I'm not a huge Bible thumper, but church is quite uplifting and they have a lot of kind people there!. You can also do community work and meet new people there or just start talking to your waitor/waitress next time you eat out!.
I hope you feel better!. :] Honestly!. No sarcasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com