Self harm? 10 Points best answer...?!


Question: Self harm!? 10 Points best answer!.!.!.!?
First of all i DO NOT self harm for attention (never have, never will)-only one of my friends know about it and i don't even talk to her about it much!.

I first self harmed when i was 11 or 12 (can't remember exactly)!. I am now 18 and still doing it!.!.!.i haven
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You may feel it's okay now, but later down the road, you may think differently!. Cutting becomes an addiction and it'll be much harder to stop the next time you want to!. And when you are older are you really going to want explain the scars to everyone, like your future children, grandchildren, or spouse!.

And because it gets addicting, you have to go deeper each time to get the same rush of endorphins, so it may not seem like you are risk for suicide now, but you might get there sometime!.

I used to self harm, on an off for a while!. I have still slipped up rather recently and at the time, I was convinced that it was the right thing to do!. Now that I'm seeing a psychologist for anxiety, I'm ashamed to admit the self-harming because of how recent some of it was!. But I feel I have to get treated well!. I don't want to get to the place where I feel the need to self harm, so if she knows, she can help me!.

I've thought the same thing!. That cutting isn't that bad!. Maybe as bad as drinking!. It's a relief, both can lead to death, but not always!. I've ranted about how cutting considered bad by just society's slanted outlook, and that is some places cuts are used to decorate the body!. I've been confused over this!. But now i want to stop for good, but i do slip up and sometimes just want to self-harm, but i fight it because I can't stand the marks that people can see, I know a rather shallow reason but it's working for me!.

I think you should keep the appointment, because your mind could change again!. And you might want to stop!.

Best of luck either way!. Just be careful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just relax!. There are better ways of dealing with stress than hurting yourself, and your doctor will teach you ways!. Wouldn't it be great to be able to go out with short sleeves and not worry about scars!?

Having such a crutch as hurting yourself isn't good, but you can get over it, and find better ways to deal with it!.

Good luck, you'll be ok! Just please keep the appointment!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i have a problem with my cutting too!. try using a couple of rubber bands on your wrist!. whenever u feel like cutting, snap the rubber bands on your wrist!. It helped me a lil and it helped my friend too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

keep your drs!. appointment!. Your confusion is definitely a positive sign that you need someone else's advice!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel because i cut and definitely not for attention but i only started recently and it has sort of become addicting, which is what you do you cut because it feels good!. Well i went to see the doctor and they helped me and recommend me to a therapist it may seem useless now but in the end you are going to want to go and get help because one day you may cut yourself worse than you had intended!. I hope this helps though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my daughter used to self harm!.!. it was really bad!.!.!. she has lots of scars where she cut herself over and over!.!.!. so that is reason number one!.!. if you continue to self harm!.!. you will be covered in scars!.,!.!. which will affect your self esteem!.!. self harm is not good!.!. you are hurting inside!.!. even though you think you are not hurting anyone!.!. you are!.!. look in the mirror!.!. when I found blood on teh side of my daughters jeans!.!. and asked her where it came from!.!. I let it slide the first time!.!. the second time!.!. I knew something ws wrong!.!. the next thing I knew she sliced her arm right infront of me!.!. the next morning she had an appointment at the local mental health faciltiy!.!. making an appointment!.!. you did the right thing!.!. now do the next right thing and go to that appointment!.!. there is help out there for you!.!. and you will feel much better ,!.!. they can help you!.!. and you deserve to feel better!.!.!.!.!.!.!. I am so glad that I was there for my daughter!.!. she needed me!.!. I wish you could find it in your heart to talk to your mom!.!. you will feel much better!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. you have suffered enough!.!.!. please feel better and go to that appt!.!. sorry this is so long,!.!.!. I just wanted to help you !.!.!. if I could,!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know what you mean because I cut myself also!. I have tried to stop but I always come back to it like you said you do!. And I understand your point that it's not necessarily life threatening, not hurting anyone, etc!., but I think that since you made the doctor's appointment you should really go!. Deep inside you know it really isn't good and you probably do want to stop if you called your doctor in the first place!.!.!. best of luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

you feel this way and about your situation because 1 you think you are in controll,i did the same thing i cut not only for that but i was trying to get rid of the ugliness in my life !.i seeked help because i was cutting 30 to 40 xs a day and seeking help doesnt mean you failed or are weak it is facing that you dont want to do it no more ,my kids seen this and i didnt deal with any problems and i am so grateful i got help good luck go to dr!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am not going to answer you you meanly at all sweetheart!. This is a serious problem, not one to be made fun of!. Self-harm may make it seem better but in reality it makes it a lot worse!. Suicide is the worst thing you could do!. Hun, this is your only life, don't waste it by being depressed!. First thing to do is find some one who will listen!. If you can't find anyone please email me!. I listen to anyone who needs it!. Try relaxing and really contemplate why you are hurting yourself!. I hope you don't commit suicide because life is so precious and fragile and no one should waste it!.

I hope you feel okay after reading this!.

MacKenzieWww@Answer-Health@Com





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