How to stop somebody from cutting thereselves?!


Question: How to stop somebody from cutting thereselves!?
ok so i have this problem!.!.!. my girlfriend will not stop cutting herself she says that she only does it when she is depressed!.!.!.!.!. but when i looked at her wrist's the other day i asked her what some of the scars were and she said that she got bored and wanted to play tic-tac-toe by herself!.!.!.!.!. i have tried telling her that cutting is not the only way to get her mind off of it!.!.!. but for some reason she thinks that she doesnt need any bodys help and she can take care of her problems herself!.!.!.!. WHAT DO I DO!!!!! PLEASE GIVE ME SOME KIND OF ADVICE!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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the next time she cuts herself, ask her why she did it!. ask her why she gets depressed!. girls always want to talk about their feelings, you just have to be subtle about it with some girls!. let her do the talking when she's ready, don't pound her for questions!.

if you want to be really dramatic, you could cut yourself and tell her you can deal with your problems on your own, then later tell her you did it so she could see how you feel when she does this to herself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well im like her and i have also played tic tac toe on my wrists!.!.!.!.!.but i stopped because of my boyfriend!.!.!.!.!.i finally relized that there is someone who loves me and he also cut himself once so i would see how it is for him when he finds out i cut myself!.!.!.!.!.that also made me stopWww@Answer-Health@Com

you can't stop her,
she needs to make the choice to stop,
just try to encourage her not to do it,
and tell her how it affects you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get her help!. Call Emergancy or Succidial Servies!. Just some slits could lead up to succide Im sure their's another reason for it but follow thease tips and good luck!!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You cannot fix your girlfriend!. You can support her to do something healthy: Go to a mental health practitioner!. She needs professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

let her know that she can talk to you when ever she feels like hurting herself!.
ask her if she wants to have those scars with her til the dayshe diesWww@Answer-Health@Com

hide the razors from herWww@Answer-Health@Com





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