Emotions? Post rape and self harm?!


Question: Emotions!? Post rape and self harm!?
I was attacked and raped 2 years ago and was a self harmer for months afterwards!.

I never told anyone, i dealt with it on my own and trained myself to block out the memories!. I have becomed very strong minded and always are cautious with new and old known people!.

Now that i am 16 i find it hard to let anyone close, what can i do!. I can't talk to anyone because i have dealt with it on my own for so long i cant imagine sharing this with another person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You need to find someone to talk to!.

I know it's hard to trust people but it's necessary to move on!.
You wrote that you have dealt with it on your own but your still asking questions about what to do!.

There must be someone you can tell your true feelings to!.

Get a therapist (they are bond by law no to tell a soul!.)
Join a rape survivor support group locally or on the Internet!.

Making yourself emotionally blocked out is not healing any wounds!.
Talking probably will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have been abused by my parents and had a very violent ex boyfriend that use to rape me and cheat on me the lot i ended up losing a baby, I did what you did and block it out and try to forget about it, but believe me you must get help as i didn't at the time and now years after I'm a mess and on anti-depression tablets, tablets for panic attacks and sleeping tablets!. I self-harm alto to!.

Please get help as i dont want anybody to go through it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yuo need to seek help for yourself!.!.!.you are probably sufferring "post traumatic shock syndrome" the effects will spiral out of control, you cannot just put something like this behind you, I feel you may have become "De-sensitised" please seek help, or talk to someone you trust, to help you help yourself!.!.!.!.you deserve a better life than the one you will have if you dont!.!.!.!.trust me, I know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to talk to a professional, no matter how scary that seems!.
What about a trusted adult first!.
If you don't this will slowly eat away at you like a cancer, don't let this ruin anymore of your life, take control or the rapist wins!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you need to talk to someone or i can't see how you will get over this and be able to let people in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop harming urself,life goes on,start life afresh
all the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com





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