Have I finally lost my marbles?!


Question: Have I finally lost my marbles!?
I have known a guy for 4 years!. The first 2 years, he promised to marry me, saying he loved me more than he'd ever loved before!. He snuck off and married someone else and didn't tell me, and tried to trick me into thinking he was still single!. I cut off all contact with him when I found out!. Their marriage didn't last (it was his 3rd marriage, he is 47), and he came back to me, saying he still loved only me!. However, he treats me like dirt!. I have tried to put up with his shabby treatment, but I can't do it anymore!. I sent him a text and told him he'd made my life intolerable!. I am refusing to take his calls/texts, because he is so explosive and scary when he's angry!. Am I wrong to not let him fight with me!? He is very cruel and has said very horrible things to me in the past and has destroyed my self esteem!.

Am I doing the wrong thing by shutting him out!? I honestly don't know what else to do!. I loved him so deeply and he was so horrible to me!. He is saying I'm crazy!. Am I!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Are you kidding!? Of course you did the right thing! Do not let this man manipulate you any more than he already has!. I get the feeling that you know you deserve better than someone who treats you like garbage!. Do yourself a bog favor and NEVER speak to him again!. If you do, you might fall for another one of his tricks!. If he keeps harrasing you, call the police and get a restraining order!.

Stay strong and you may find someone who really loves you because he obviously doesn't!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well to me,it sounds very familiar!. my ex asked me to marry him and then married another girl the very next month!. Then when i saw it in the paper and found out that he was married he said that it was a "misprint" in the paper! It hurt so bad but i was just glad that i wasn't the girl!. I would leave him and never go back!. I am single to this day and i am 28!. I am so happy and i don't have to worry about anyone else!. You deserve much better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Let him go! He is no good, look as his past he is using you because he can see that you are a weak person and its convenient for him!. Dont talk to him anymore, change your telephone number do whatever you have to do to let him go!. HE MARRIED SOMEBODY ELSE! Obviously he doesnt love you enough to marry you but only for company!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The man doesn't deserve you! You need to stay away from him completely! No more emails, phone calls, text messages!. I know first hand the kind of man he is!. He is abusive!. And if you do get together again, he won't stop!. He'll only become worse!.

You're not crazy!. He is! So, I hope that you stay away from him!Www@Answer-Health@Com

He sounds like a controlling person and doesnt have any selfesteem so hes taking it out on u!. u need to get away from because he can actually hurt u and I dont mean your feelings!.You are a beautiful person and deserve a better person not one who calls u names and disrespects you!.I also recommend getting a restraining order against him if he keeps bothering you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why would u be crazy!. U did the right thing!. If he treated u badly why would u want to be with someone like that!. If he lies to u then there is no reason to be with someone like that!. I was with someone who lied and u know what it was terriable!. If u don't have trust there is no relationshipWww@Answer-Health@Com

You should never have talked to him again after he got married and lied to you about it!. It seems like he's just keeping you on the side in case his other relationships don't work out!. Move on, and don't talk to him anymore!. He sounds like a complete loser!Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!. You're Not Crazy!.!.!.
2!. You Should Definately Shut him Out!
3!. Don't Feel Bad About It!.!.!.
4!. Try and Be Happy!
5!. Be Kind to yourself *be more selfish ^-^*

Hope this helped ^-^Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes you have lost your marbles!. You need no play play a different game!. Tell him the new rules are going to start with a restraining order if he texts you calls you or anything!. He is pre-stalker material!. Warn your friends I am serious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're not crazy and you know that!. Run as far and as fast as you can from the guy!. With a record like his I think it's safe to say who's crazy!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are incredibly sane-more sane than most of the women who go back to abusive men!. I applaud how amazing you are for getting away from him!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no your not crazy! get out of town!. literly!. get as far away from him as you can!. this dude is freakin insane!!!!

-mkWww@Answer-Health@Com

He's the crazy one!. Let him be and move on to a happy life without him!Www@Answer-Health@Com

No your not doing the wrong!! Someone like that does not need to be in your life!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

you were crazy to take him back!. you are completely sane acting the way you do now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that man is a fat lard!.!.!.!.don't ever talk to him again!!! if he gets "explosive" call the copsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hi Callie :)

I'm afraid I have to agree with you, and know exactly how you must be feeling, as I went through the same for three years, 3 years ago!. It was heaven and hell, hell in one breath!.
I nearly died of a heartbreak, Literally!!

Please do yourself a favour and safe your sanity!.

Don't accept his calls!. Turn off your phone when you go to sleep!.

Find a new hobby to keep your mind occupied!.

Go to the gym or treat yourself at a spa!.
Pamper yourself !. You deserve it!.

Love yourself!.
Do nice things for yourself!.
A facial can do wonders!.
A new colour nail varnish can lift you up!.
A new hairstyle will bring a new beginning!.

Please, please pamper yourself!.
No one else will do it for you at this moment!.

I truly wish you peace of mind and all the happiness possible!.
You deserve it!.

"!.!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you fell my father to my child abused me !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.he said i was a well lest not go their their was alot of nasty bthings said tho and violence you sha=ould shut him out he will keep making your life hell if tyou dont try to forget about him see how that goes if that fails then i suggesdt you tell him hes got 1 last chance and this time if he dont bool his ways up your going and NOT comming back you wont be a doormat no moreWww@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories