If you are shallow, can you make yourself deep?!


Question: If you are shallow, can you make yourself deep!?
My mom keeps telling me I'm shallow!. none of my friends at college have ever said that, but it might be true!. I do care about my appearance a lot, but the real reason I do it is because I think it's the only thing I have going for me!. I don't feel that smart or nice, and I really feel like a pain in the *** to everyone around me, so I take pride in only my looks!. Anyway, I'm getting a job which will hopefully let me focus on other things!. Any other ideas!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You basically answered your own question!. If all you have going for you is looks then yes you are shallow and what's worse is what happens when you get old and don't have those looks anymore!. Solution: Define what deep means to you and pursue those things!. Learn to be nicer!. That's a no brainer and does not require ny special talents!. How!? Study people who aer nice and emulate them!. After a while you will start to adjust!.
If you care about appearance become an expert on it!. Learn everything you can about hair, makeup, fashion, etc!. try classes on public speaking and presentation!. Look into eastern philosophies, try yoga and meditation and relaxation (all of which help you look and feel better anyway)!.
Just try!. It's your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think that we are born/raised with who we become as adults!. If you feel that looks matter, maybe it is the result of your upbringing which is your personal history, and you shouldn't be ashamed of that!.
Besides, your friends and family love you for who you are, not the depth of your intellect!. It was your current personality that attracted them to you!.!.!.overall, you can't fool your heart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, you sound like a normal teenager/young adult!. You will probably get more deep as you get older and experience more!. As long as you are considerate of other people and open to deep thoughts once in a while, I think you are and will be okay!. Not everyone is the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think it is possible!. Some people are born with a certain capacity for wisdom and others less so!. Just do the best with what you have!. Unfortunately, your life may not be as happy as those with better sense and taste!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get hobbies and do stuff u like to do!.U should look good becouse it makes u feel good, not becouse is the only think that is going for u!.I dont know there is not much more to say!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your not shallow but you do come off a little rough though!. honestly i can tell that your a very powerful strong woman and are going make a difference in theis world very soon!. you are a nice person as wellWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow, if I were you I would reread what you just wrote you sound like a complete retard!. You are obviousley shallow and an idiot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

look up shallow!.!.!. or watch shallow halWww@Answer-Health@Com





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