I'm not sure anymore?!
Question: I'm not sure anymore!?
I think i'm depressed!. But everyone arond me says i'm not!. and are annoyed with me and don't want to be around me anymore!. I feel like i'm acting like a baby about everything!. I have no real reason to be depressed!. I've been off and on depressed for real since January!. I've been "sad" before January but lately it has been too much!. I feel as if i'm being selfsih since I don't know why I am so sad and so many people have it worse off than me!.I feel tired all the time I get angry easily I have anger problems!. I have almost all the sympotoms of depression but no reason at all for feeling this way!.!.!.My freidns don't help and make me feel worse about myself one of my friends even told me I wasn't depressed then gave up on me and now she avoids eye contact and we ahve been friedsn for a year and told each other everything and losing her hurts!. Everyone is against me and I am not smart and have no future even if i'm in smart classes!.!.!.does this sound like depression!? Or just a girl acting!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi, I just want to tell you that I went through Depression last year and it was tough!. I am 42, and had lost a few family members in the past!. Before my depression hit me, I was also taking care of my father and his bad health along with keeping up with my own family!. Then, it seemed in the middle of winter, I just felt more and more tired, felt depressed, didn't even want to go out to the mall, nothing!. I wouldn't even go out to the mailbox until dark because I just didn't even want to run into my neighbors!. Then, I went to my doctor for a regular check up and started telling her how I felt and broke down in tears in her office!. She put me on an anti-depressant for several weeks and I felt better!. I also MADE myself go out and do things, which was hard!. I got taken off the medication but still had some work of my own to do!. I still had to force myself to get out, visit family, go to school functions, etc!. But now, it all balanced out, and I am doing ok with it all! I am not saying that you need to go on medication!. Maybe you could talk to your mom or dad!. Maybe a trip to the doctor's to check all of your blood work, make sure you aren't lacking any vitamins!. If you lack iron, that alone will make you tired which leads to crankiness!. Maybe it is just your age and hormones!. These are all things that your doctor could talk about, without downing you!. I know its the worst thing to have to deal with negative junk when your already feeling lousy!. I don't think you are acting like a baby, I just simply think you need to maybe talk it out with someone!. There might just be something going on, it doesn't hurt to try!. Keep your head up for now, and put a smile on that face of yours! Better days are ahead, trust me!. I've had my fair share of bad days and there is hope!. As far as your friends, try to ignore them, and if your friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore, yes, I know that it probably hurts, but maybe she will come back around!. If you are in smart classes, than you must be smart silly! Give yourself a pat on the back and some credit!. Keep up the grades but also allow some time for you!. We all deserve it! I wish you well and I understand how you feel!. Smile!Www@Answer-Health@Com
please know you are not acting like a baby,if your friend is avoiding you and you have known her for a yr,sounds like she really wasn't a friend to begin with as true friends are there for one another through the good and bad times!.we are glad you wrote here as it helps you get out these feelings among those who understand what depression is all about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yea it sounds like it!.
i would ask a doctor
your friends are being rude, on top of you being sad, that must have made you feel even worse =[
anyway, ask a doctor!.
you sound like you might be depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would ask a doctor
your friends are being rude, on top of you being sad, that must have made you feel even worse =[
anyway, ask a doctor!.
you sound like you might be depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think that you need to go see a doctor maybe, you may have something else wrong with you!. there are a lot of medical conditions that cause exhaustion, the anger may just be a result from all the stress you're under worrying about being depressed!. if you have no reason to be in a state of depression then i doubt it's that, by the sounds of it you aren't having any suicidal thoughts, which is good!. i you're embarrassed to come out and ask your doctor if you're depressed then try talking to your him/her about being tired all the time!.!. he/she will do a couple assessment tests on you to diagnose you properly!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com