Suicidal thoughts..?!
Question: Suicidal thoughts!.!.!?
Im 13 and Im having suicidal thoughts!.
My parents hate me and they even told me that they don't care if I die
Today they were yelling at me in the car for a dumb reason and thats when they said that it wouldn't matter if I died so I started to cry but I unlocked the door and wanted to jump out of the moving car I was in!.
I've been having trouble sleeping but not because of thoughts of suicide or anything
the sad thing was is that today is my birthday and in my mind I keep telling myself that if I died today it would be on my birthday and know one would care if I dissapeared or not!.
About a month or two ago I had a argument with my mom and dad!. That night when I went to bed I slept with a sharp pair of scissors!. That was my first attempt!. I got so mad at my mom I was ready but I didn't do it!. dont know why but it really didnt matter!.
I even had thoughts of running away!. Im not sure what I should do!.!.someone give me advice that will help and NOT A DUMB ANSWER!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My parents hate me and they even told me that they don't care if I die
Today they were yelling at me in the car for a dumb reason and thats when they said that it wouldn't matter if I died so I started to cry but I unlocked the door and wanted to jump out of the moving car I was in!.
I've been having trouble sleeping but not because of thoughts of suicide or anything
the sad thing was is that today is my birthday and in my mind I keep telling myself that if I died today it would be on my birthday and know one would care if I dissapeared or not!.
About a month or two ago I had a argument with my mom and dad!. That night when I went to bed I slept with a sharp pair of scissors!. That was my first attempt!. I got so mad at my mom I was ready but I didn't do it!. dont know why but it really didnt matter!.
I even had thoughts of running away!. Im not sure what I should do!.!.someone give me advice that will help and NOT A DUMB ANSWER!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Let me begin by telling you that i am the mother of 3 precious daughters!.!.!.and my life wouldnt be complete without them!.
You my dear, are very precious also!.!.!.You may not feel it, or believe it, but YOU are!.!.!.You are a Gift!.
Please first off, get the thought of killing yourself and dying out of your mind!.!.!.realize that you are living, and you need to stay living!.!.!.!.Life may be bad right now, today, tmrw, but it wont always be like this!. So death is not worth taking a promising future away from yourself!.!.!.o!.!.k!.!.
People experience depression, in all walks of life, young and old!.!.!.!.I work with people with depression, and I try to help them daily!. Most of the time, people need to see a doctor for it, and there is nothing at all wrong with that, nothing at all!. Dont feel ashamed about it, realize that it is how to get some help!.
Parents, sometimes say things they dont mean, when they are angry or upset!.!.!.!.I really do not think they would want you to die!.!.!.maybe they feel sad, because you want to die, so they just say things out of hurt feelings!. Im so sorry they said that, I know it must have hurt you!. But please dont let it sink in, and please dont let that statement that they made, control you and your feelings!.!.!.
I think you should talk to your parents, even though you are mad and upset with them, tell them you really need some help, and ask them to please take you to the doctor!. Remember this is nothing to feel ashamed about!.!.!.!.!.
If they will not, I think you need to talk to a school counselor, or someone that can help you, get the help that you need!.
Please do this for me!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Im not sure how your homelife is, but I hope its good enough that they will want to help you!.
I know you are special!.!.!.!.and I take depression and suicidal thoughts very serious!.
Whenever you feel the urge to hurt yourself, please do whatever you can do, to make it go away!.!.!.call a friend, go for a walk, do something!.!.!.please!.!.
If your parents arent willing to help, there has to be someone out there that is!.!.!.!.counselor, aunt, uncle!.!.!.grandparents!.!.!.friend!.!.!.!.someone that you can go to!.
Please do this!.!.!.
And Happy Birthday Sweetheart!.!.!.Im so sorry your day was this way!.!.!.But remember you can fix all of this, and you have the rest of your life, and you can make it Beautiful!.!.!.You really can!. Please dont give up!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You my dear, are very precious also!.!.!.You may not feel it, or believe it, but YOU are!.!.!.You are a Gift!.
Please first off, get the thought of killing yourself and dying out of your mind!.!.!.realize that you are living, and you need to stay living!.!.!.!.Life may be bad right now, today, tmrw, but it wont always be like this!. So death is not worth taking a promising future away from yourself!.!.!.o!.!.k!.!.
People experience depression, in all walks of life, young and old!.!.!.!.I work with people with depression, and I try to help them daily!. Most of the time, people need to see a doctor for it, and there is nothing at all wrong with that, nothing at all!. Dont feel ashamed about it, realize that it is how to get some help!.
Parents, sometimes say things they dont mean, when they are angry or upset!.!.!.!.I really do not think they would want you to die!.!.!.maybe they feel sad, because you want to die, so they just say things out of hurt feelings!. Im so sorry they said that, I know it must have hurt you!. But please dont let it sink in, and please dont let that statement that they made, control you and your feelings!.!.!.
I think you should talk to your parents, even though you are mad and upset with them, tell them you really need some help, and ask them to please take you to the doctor!. Remember this is nothing to feel ashamed about!.!.!.!.!.
If they will not, I think you need to talk to a school counselor, or someone that can help you, get the help that you need!.
Please do this for me!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Im not sure how your homelife is, but I hope its good enough that they will want to help you!.
I know you are special!.!.!.!.and I take depression and suicidal thoughts very serious!.
Whenever you feel the urge to hurt yourself, please do whatever you can do, to make it go away!.!.!.call a friend, go for a walk, do something!.!.!.please!.!.
If your parents arent willing to help, there has to be someone out there that is!.!.!.!.counselor, aunt, uncle!.!.!.grandparents!.!.!.friend!.!.!.!.someone that you can go to!.
Please do this!.!.!.
And Happy Birthday Sweetheart!.!.!.Im so sorry your day was this way!.!.!.But remember you can fix all of this, and you have the rest of your life, and you can make it Beautiful!.!.!.You really can!. Please dont give up!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im 13 too ive thought like that sometimes parents are just idiot and they dont know how you really feel!. bassicly its only about four or five years untill you can get out of that house!.
try hard in school so you can go yo a good college as far away from them as possibleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!.
and then it will be your decision if you want to see them!.
&& give them the silent treatment for as long as possible!.
and lock your door!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
try hard in school so you can go yo a good college as far away from them as possibleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!.
and then it will be your decision if you want to see them!.
&& give them the silent treatment for as long as possible!.
and lock your door!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
got i went through the same!. tell your true-you-feel-its-true best friend, if you dont have one, its good you posted this here!.
are they abusing you!? emotionally is also abuse!. no matter what anyone says, you are beyond the word valuable!. everyone else's negative opinions about you are like doo-doo, and you dont have to take a dump just cuz others have an urge, understand!? tell your teacher, preferably old and female there's also suicide hotlines 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-273-8255
bite on something other than your nails!. please dont do it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
are they abusing you!? emotionally is also abuse!. no matter what anyone says, you are beyond the word valuable!. everyone else's negative opinions about you are like doo-doo, and you dont have to take a dump just cuz others have an urge, understand!? tell your teacher, preferably old and female there's also suicide hotlines 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-273-8255
bite on something other than your nails!. please dont do it!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go see a counselor or someone who could help you!. maybe give you depression pills!. ( there not a bad idea i know some people who have them)!. if your really unhappy with your parents i would maybe suggest getting emancipated when your 16!. they don't seem like good parents if they tell you they don't care!. But im sure they do, they just have a hard time showing it!. idk go to your school counselor first and then maybe set up a family counselor!.!.good luck!.=] i hope everything turns out okay!. im sure you will be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First and fore most!.!.!.try to work it out, if that's doesn't work, try and get some help or advice, anything to keep these thoughts from spreading and turning into actions!If anything (none of that works) run away to a nearb friends house just for a day or 2 and see what they are doing to you! They will realize this and see the error of their ways!. So just try and PLEASE don't kill youself!.!.!.People WILL miss you!.!.!. so smile!Www@Answer-Health@Com
the first thing that you should do is talk to someone!. i personally have had this thoughts and i slit my wrist with a razor when my father abused me but i went to the guidance office at my school and they really helped me so you should really do that or talk to someone else but you really have to help yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just stay away from your parents, talk to them whenever you need them, mind your own business in front of them!. And get closer to your friends share your feelings with them!. and at the end of the day pray to God that everything be alright!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're parents don't sound like very good parents!. you shouldn't let them get to you like that!. just remember that there is always someone out there that will care if you die and if that doesn't help you should seek help from an adult you trust!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have some wonderful answers already from caring people,including myself!.I wish you a happy birthday although a little belated!.Remember,Life is beautiful,we are here for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sure allot of people care about you that your not aware of!. Talk with an adult that you feel comfortable with!. You sound like a very caring person!. You just really need someone to talk to that can help you!. I'll be thinking of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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http://www!.suicidepreventionlifeline!.org!.!.!.
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Seek help!. You should find everything you need at your school's guidance office!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think you should tell that to an aunt or uncle that cares about you and maybe they could take you to a psychologistWww@Answer-Health@Com
DONT DO IT!.
I've had those thoughts before, but its not worth it!. You need to talk to someone, maybe a school counsellor!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've had those thoughts before, but its not worth it!. You need to talk to someone, maybe a school counsellor!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Umm!.!. wow!. Im fourteen and i cant say that i understand what your going through!. If!.!.!.this is real!. If not, well this is not a funny joke!.
Well, i think that we all feel like this sometimes!. Like we just don't want to live anymore!. I know i have!. It is horrible what your parents said but who needs them!? You dont!. If i were you, i would find somebody else i can live with!. think about the good things you have instead of the bad!. Don't dwell in your sorrows!. It's not good for you!.!.obviously!. Think of things you want to do when your older!. you want to do them right!? so do them!. Finish school and go on your own if thats what you need!. If your serious about killing yourself, maybe you could go to your school therapist!. they will take you seriously and help you!. There is always somebody who cares!. And believe it or not, somebody would miss you if you left this world!. Try to stay out of the house if thats what depresses you!. Help yourself!. You don't need them!. But dont kill yourself!. Your better than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, i think that we all feel like this sometimes!. Like we just don't want to live anymore!. I know i have!. It is horrible what your parents said but who needs them!? You dont!. If i were you, i would find somebody else i can live with!. think about the good things you have instead of the bad!. Don't dwell in your sorrows!. It's not good for you!.!.obviously!. Think of things you want to do when your older!. you want to do them right!? so do them!. Finish school and go on your own if thats what you need!. If your serious about killing yourself, maybe you could go to your school therapist!. they will take you seriously and help you!. There is always somebody who cares!. And believe it or not, somebody would miss you if you left this world!. Try to stay out of the house if thats what depresses you!. Help yourself!. You don't need them!. But dont kill yourself!. Your better than that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow you are so young im 18 !.i used to have thoes thoughts but you reallyhave to be strong dont depend on anyone to feel sorry for you because thats what makes you weak!. please just find love in yourself!. I dont even know you and I wish i was your sister or something so that you would have someone cuz it sounds like you are really lonely!. maybe you should try talking to a school counselor!.!.it might sound stupid but you should try!. just say you are having problems at home!.!.!.you dont have to tell the couselor everything in detail!.!.please dont kill yourself!.!.you are so young!.!.!.things will turn around!.!.life sucks i know we go through some really rough patches!.!.!.you just got to keep your head up and fight for yourself!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all take a deep breath and try to relax!. you are 13 with a huge life ahead of you!. i know it is really hard at your age because you are not a kid and you are not an adult!.!.!.and no one takes you seriously!. 13 is about the age when i first attempted suicide!. i look back now and realize how glad i am that i didn't die!. I really wish that i could just give you a hug and tell you it will be ok (in a non creepy way of course) but i can't tell you what is going to happen!. no one can!. it is your choice to make out of your life what you can!. i am really sorry that your parents are being aweful!. that is really not right!. you need to talk to someone you trust about that but make sure it is really someone you trust!.!.!.the school counselor will tell your parents!.!.!.i know from experience!. Medication might be really useful for you but i am sure your parents wont support that decision!. this is taugh!. i guess my only advice for you is to stay strong!.!.!.think of something to live for!. there has to be someone you love and couldnt bare to hurt!.!.!.!.thats what you would do if you killed yourself!.!.!.hurt people!. please pray, and ask for help!. i will pray for you!. YOU CAN DO IT!. oh and happy birthday hun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not sure what you think is a dumb answer, but I'll do my best not to be dumb!.
First off I am sorry that your parents don't care that truly sucks!. I can't say that I know what you are going through, but I am familiar with the struggle of wanting to die!. It is hard, but I want you to know that I care and am concerned for you!. The thing about death is that it is very permanent and it is very hard to deal with!. Do you have any friends that you trust their family or extended family that you are close to that you could talk with!? When I was in your situation I called a place called the hope line 1-800-394-hope it helped me a lot!. I will e-mail you my phone number if you want to talk to me!.
Secondly, I know what it is like to be on the other side of suicide!. My friend in Jr!. High killed himself and my mom has tried many times, and it hurts to be a person that loves someone struggling with this that dies!. You ask yourself a lot if you could have done anything to help them!. E-mail me if you want to talk I'll call you!. I'm leaving but I'll check my e-mail in 2 hours!. I'm praying for you!. You are a unique individual with a purpose!. I truly believe that!. DON"T DO IT!.
By the way!.!.!. Happy Birthday!. May is an excellent month to be born!! (My b-day is tomorrow;-) )Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off I am sorry that your parents don't care that truly sucks!. I can't say that I know what you are going through, but I am familiar with the struggle of wanting to die!. It is hard, but I want you to know that I care and am concerned for you!. The thing about death is that it is very permanent and it is very hard to deal with!. Do you have any friends that you trust their family or extended family that you are close to that you could talk with!? When I was in your situation I called a place called the hope line 1-800-394-hope it helped me a lot!. I will e-mail you my phone number if you want to talk to me!.
Secondly, I know what it is like to be on the other side of suicide!. My friend in Jr!. High killed himself and my mom has tried many times, and it hurts to be a person that loves someone struggling with this that dies!. You ask yourself a lot if you could have done anything to help them!. E-mail me if you want to talk I'll call you!. I'm leaving but I'll check my e-mail in 2 hours!. I'm praying for you!. You are a unique individual with a purpose!. I truly believe that!. DON"T DO IT!.
By the way!.!.!. Happy Birthday!. May is an excellent month to be born!! (My b-day is tomorrow;-) )Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had thought about what it would be like if I committed suicide once!. Im a really quiet person so no one really notices me at school, even my friends!. But when im not there they txt me or something wondering where I am, so that pretty much answers my question, that I do have people that would miss me!. You're family will always be there for you!. Your parents may just be really mad at you, but I doubt they hate you and wouldn't care if you died!. If you think that they do you could always get your family to go to a counselor or something!. Soon you will be able to start your own life and have a family, just think about that and how life will be when you do have a whole family that WOULD MISS YOU if you ever died!. I hope I helped some =) Oh and Happy birthday =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
OK sweetheart you need to speak to an adult!.!.!. if not your parents how bout a close family member or family friend!.!.!. the best thing to do is go to school counselor or teacher!.!.!. anyone who is an adult really!. Trust me they will listen!. If your parents really said that I'm shocked!.!.!. what would be best for your situation is to talk to a counselor!.!.!. and then maybe have family sessions where you can talk to your parents with a counselor present and there to mediate the situation!.!.!. I think you'll realize they will be on your side not your parents side!.!.!. Suicidal thoughts are natural especially at your age but they can not be ignored!.!.!. suicide is not the answer to anything!. Please seek help!.
Good luck and stay strongWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luck and stay strongWww@Answer-Health@Com