How do i persuade myself not to commit suicide?!


Question: How do i persuade myself not to commit suicide!?
I am 15 years old!.
My parents have caught me trying it twiceWww@Answer-Health@Com


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aw sweetheart ,let me tell you nothing in this world is worth Killing yourself for, believe me darling there are no second chances if you get it right the third time !.
Darling whats making you so sad!?!?!?!?!?
15 is such a weird and awkward stage of life, but like everything its just a phase in your life, that although might seem helpless and useless and sad, can also be a time of learning , discovering and total fun and happiness!.
Believe me , the legacey you leave the ones you love will be so devastating , that not only will you be killing yourself , but everyone of your loved ones!.
A lot of people think oh the pain will go away once im dead , but it doesnt for the rest of the people who love you , they will always be sad , and depressed and mourning, they will always be blaming themselves, driving themselves to ruin wondering what they did wrong!.
I know this sounds cliche , but sweetheart until your old enough to understand , you have no idea how heartbreaking it is for a parent to bury their own children , its bad enough through sickness , but suicide , Do your parents and loved ones deserve that honey!?!?!?!?!? nO and neither do you!.
You might not think it now , but you have got so much in front of you , your future although maybe seeming bleak to you , is open to so many wonderful possibilities!. You just have to be open to the fact that you are worth being happy , and you count and are a special person, and one who is loved!.
If your councillor doesnt seem to be working for oyu , then seek out one who will make things right, there is an answer darling , their is a solution and their is a huge light at the end of the tunnel for you!. Please dont deny yourself anymore gorgeous, life isnt easy , we all know that , your not the first person to have hard times and feel like its all not worth it , and you wont be the last , but precious, you can work towards making a difference, and with great proffessional support , maybe medication if its required , life can be a happy place again for you!.
I think maybe too if you imagine how you would feel if someone you loved committed suicide , and left you with all the grief and the feel of guilt and shame!. No one should have to suffer that!.
I know things can be great for you sweety, i know you can smile and love life, it will happen darling!.

take care
wanda xxxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is a hard one!. Since you have already tried twice maybe you need to try to do it on your own!. Dont try to persuade yourself!. Just get help from someone else!. Either a doctor, hospital or a friend!. But just get some kind of help!. And in the mean time until you do, if you think you will try again just make sure that you are not left alone!. If your parents are going somewhere go with them!. If you are feeling like you might try then call a friend and hang out with them!. It will be a lot harder to try to do something if someone is right there with you!. But the main thing is to get help from someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have had suicidal thoughts since childhood and now I'm 51!.

I take medication for depression!. It doesn't completely take away my thoughts of suicide but it makes it easier for me to control it!.

The other thing is I think I about my family and it stops me from doing that!.

My uncle, a cousin (his son), and a brother in law (my brother's wife's younger brother) have all killed themselves!. My wife has a cousin who may have committed suicide or it may have been an accident (nobody knows for sure)!. I can see how these suicides have affected their families and that stops me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need help!. My mother shot herself in the stomach with a handgun her in her teens!. She lost her spleen- a;most died several times- and was told she could not have kids!. She has my and my sister- and her sixth grandchild is on the way!.
In my first year of college I had a friend that left my house and went home and ended her life- I am now 20 years older and I still think about and miss her all the time!.
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. I am not a big bible banger- but I know that God exists and he does love you- even when we can't love ourselves!. Please seek help- imagine a lovely sunset, the sound of water flowing, the smell of fresh flowers, the feeling of warmth you get when you help another person!.
It may seem hard, but you reached out to this site for help- just keep reaching out!. I know, and will pray, that someone catches your hand!.
Love life, love yourself, seek help- I now will think of you each day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The most obvious answer would be to see a counselor or a psychologist!.

You have to try and examine your thoughts with the counselor or even a parent or friend and try and see why you feel this way!. Try and do some volunteering or go out of your way to help some people who are really need help - in a shelter or a hospital!. Helping others will give your life more meaning and will take your mind off your misery and perhaps see that your life is more fortunate than others!.

Every life is precious and try to make the most out of yours!. Do not hesitate to ask for help if you need it (professional if need be)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You don't mention the reasons why you want to commit suicide!. The way to persuade yourself not to is to identify the main reason, and realise there is a better way out of that reason - one that can lead to life and happiness!. There is always a way out, it may mean changing the way you think, or seeing someone about the issues that make you feel so bad!. Give all these things a fair chance to work before you do anything drastic!.

Secondly, when we are depressed it does tend to make us focus on our own pain so much, we forget about the pain of those around us should we die and leave them!.

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You may have a medical condition, go and see your doctor, a pill is prob all you need!.

Or it could be your age and part of growing up!.

Also think if you committed suicide you would be gone but your parents would suffer for ever (brothers and sisters the same!. All your friends would suffer and relatives!.

Suicide is said to be a cowards way out, but I don't know why they say this!.

Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Things must be pretty bad for you right now!.But you know what, killing yourself won't make it better!. If you live, you know that you can do something about it and be happy again!. But that chance is gone on a dead person!.

Counselling doesn't work, adults telling you what you should do, it makes you feel worse, I've been there!.

The one thing that got me through was the belief that I could change things, be important, be loved while I was alive, but not when I'm gone!.

"How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before improving the world" - Anne Frank
"Faithless is he that says farewell when the road darkens" - J!. R!. R!. Tolkien!.

Music also plays a key part!. "Emo princess" sounds like you listen to dark music!. I'm not saying change to something you don't like, just dont listen to music when you feel depressed!. You're a teenager, you'll pull through and you'll look back and feel proud to resist temptations!.

I'm 16, I've done the same!. But whatever life throws at you enjoy it, you're only here once - don't waste it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Girl you got to find someone that you can talk to honestly and on a level where you can open up!. It may seem like there is nothing to go on for but trust me things will change, your making a decision now after 15 years of life!. Hopefully you will live until your 80, that's 65 years more, you have lived a fraction of your life and it'll all change!. Please talk to someone, an older friend or relative!. Eventually the world will turn into a place where you be be happy just to live!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I feel so sorry for you as I'm 32 and had lived with depression as long as i can remember, When i get really down i think of my kids and hubby and how are they would find life without me!. I know its really hard but just keep busy when you are having them days, when things are to much for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to find out whats making u want to commit suicide n then try to turn tat negative into a positive and u should also try to focus on the things that make you happy!.!.!.!.!.!.n iv der sumfin tat makes u feel like that try to get away from it!.!.!.n u need to talk to your councillor bout itWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to get help Sweetie!. I Know that things must be really, really bad to think you will be happier if you end your life, but i urge you not to!. www!.there4me!.com has people you can talk to!. www!.youth2youth!.co!.uk also has people you can talk to!. Email me if you want xox_littlestar_xox@hotmail!.co!.uk you have to wait for things to get better!. try www!.-OhSoJuicy-!.piczo!.com and click on reads two!. Please!? GOod luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need to deal with the things inside you -- which are surely the driving force behind why you have to ask this question!.

Sounds like you should get some counselling, they will be able to take into account your personal situation and advise you better than anyone on here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get your self top a doctor asap! They can prescribe you medication that will make u feel better! Also talk about things that are depressing you, to friends family, doctor and who ever else! Don't think no one cares about you because trust me they do! I felt a bit like you 10 years ago when I was 15! But life is so much better now! Don't give in girl! Put ur chin up, live life! !.!. and love it! xWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think of my dad and how much pain it would cause him, but i know it's hard!. Sometimes looking forward to silly little things get me through - like a holiday or something :) You should ring and ask to speak to your doctor when you feel so bad!.!.xWww@Answer-Health@Com

My realising all the horrific hurt and pain you would cause you're parents and those who love you!.

!.!.!.!.and not just for a short space of time, but for the rest of their lives!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please do not suicide! it is a sin because you kill someone (yourself) i think!.
And even if you die and go to heaven, think about the depression you will leave behind with your realtives!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Read "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren (best seller)!. It will make a huge difference!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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