This may sound stupid to some but.......?!
Question: This may sound stupid to some but!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
I feel like nobody likes me!. Like nobody wants to be around me!. Hang out with me or anything!. I'm a lot of fun and nice and respectful to everyone!. but it never seems to last for people!. my best friend even acts weird!. twice two of my uncles called me out in front of everyone and i didn't do anything wrong! it's like people feel the need to hurt me!. or leave me!. it's making me sick!. i hate it so much!. why can't i call a friend make plans and they happen!? why can't someone actually care about me!. i do so much for so many people and they seem to not care!. even though im very vocal about it!. like my friend wants pics from me!.!.!.and ppvs!.!.!.and taping them!. and never hangs out with me!.!.!.then comes when it begins then leaves!. then when i got upset about it!. she got mad that shes busy and this and that!. and i told her well whenever we make plans u cancel never tell me then go out with other people!.!.!.especially when i need her the most!. i just don't get why people act the way they do around me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It's not stupid at all!.
I've felt that way most of my life!. I've always felt like an outsider!. Not so much that I want to give up on life, but enough that I sometimes get to feeling low!.
I have friends, and I know they like me, and like being around me, but it seems sometimes life just gets in the way!.
Most of it isn't on purpose!.
I'm older and most of my friends are married, a few with children, so they just aren't up for late nights or have other responsibilities and activities to attend to!. And their money is tied up in other things as well!.
Some of them have become home-bodies, while I'm feeling more and more antsy to get out and do things!.
Some of it is my fault!. I know I need to get out more and try to meet new people and expand my circle of friends, but that's easier said than done!.
I'm done with school, and I work for a small company with pretty much 0 turnover!. So meeting people through those venues is out!. And I like the people I work with, but they wouldn't be the kind of people I would hang out with socially!. We got out after work every once in a while, but we all have different likes and dislikes!.
I also have problems at time because I get along with men much easier than I do with other women!.
I'm more into hobbies, movies and games that guys like!. I'm a big old geek girl! That causes problems tho!.
Either they start liking me more than a friend, which makes hanging out with them awkward since I don't usually feel the same, or they have wives or girlfriends who see me as a threat!.
It's even worse for me right now because I was dating someone who was exciting and we went out with other people and had a great time!. But although he really likes me, he has his own demons and felt like our relationship would never go any where!.
We're still going to be friends, but it's been a few weeks and I know it may be a while before he feels OK with hanging out with me!. And even then, it won't be as often as I'd like!. (We've already made tentative plans to catch a movie, and he's friends with a few of his ex's so I know he's capable of having friendship after dating someone!.)
But it's been hard!. I'm not really sure where else to go at this point!.
I'm thinking I might start searching the net for groups in my area that meet up that share similar interests as I do!. Maybe I can even find some other girls who are my age that are into some of the stuff I like!
I guess the best advice I have to give is don't give up and try to cast your friendship net wider! It's not always easy, but we got to keep trying! No sense in sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I've felt that way most of my life!. I've always felt like an outsider!. Not so much that I want to give up on life, but enough that I sometimes get to feeling low!.
I have friends, and I know they like me, and like being around me, but it seems sometimes life just gets in the way!.
Most of it isn't on purpose!.
I'm older and most of my friends are married, a few with children, so they just aren't up for late nights or have other responsibilities and activities to attend to!. And their money is tied up in other things as well!.
Some of them have become home-bodies, while I'm feeling more and more antsy to get out and do things!.
Some of it is my fault!. I know I need to get out more and try to meet new people and expand my circle of friends, but that's easier said than done!.
I'm done with school, and I work for a small company with pretty much 0 turnover!. So meeting people through those venues is out!. And I like the people I work with, but they wouldn't be the kind of people I would hang out with socially!. We got out after work every once in a while, but we all have different likes and dislikes!.
I also have problems at time because I get along with men much easier than I do with other women!.
I'm more into hobbies, movies and games that guys like!. I'm a big old geek girl! That causes problems tho!.
Either they start liking me more than a friend, which makes hanging out with them awkward since I don't usually feel the same, or they have wives or girlfriends who see me as a threat!.
It's even worse for me right now because I was dating someone who was exciting and we went out with other people and had a great time!. But although he really likes me, he has his own demons and felt like our relationship would never go any where!.
We're still going to be friends, but it's been a few weeks and I know it may be a while before he feels OK with hanging out with me!. And even then, it won't be as often as I'd like!. (We've already made tentative plans to catch a movie, and he's friends with a few of his ex's so I know he's capable of having friendship after dating someone!.)
But it's been hard!. I'm not really sure where else to go at this point!.
I'm thinking I might start searching the net for groups in my area that meet up that share similar interests as I do!. Maybe I can even find some other girls who are my age that are into some of the stuff I like!
I guess the best advice I have to give is don't give up and try to cast your friendship net wider! It's not always easy, but we got to keep trying! No sense in sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Owch! I had something like that happen to me once!. But what I'm reading here sounds like you need to get some new friends!. Not to be mean and all, but it sounds like your "friend" is useing you!. Its time to move on and dump her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The point of living for me was I found my passion!. Try and find something that you just love no matter what and forget what other people say!. If you let it bring you down then your just proving them right that your boring, stupid, et cetera!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This question doesn't sound stupid to me! I wold try getting involved in things and you may become popular!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ya i feel the same way like nobody likes me!. i dont get it!. i only have one friend at schoool!. its sucks!. im very nice and respectful!. people just dont take the time to get to know me!. honey i know how you feel!. if you want to talk, email me aazuber4@excite!.com!. you can meet friends by doing activities!. thats what im doing this summer and hopefully i can make some freinds!. i feel you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You be the first to say or od rather than expect other to do for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
now i dont want 2 sound mean but people dont usually like try hards to wingers!. im not saying that u r, its just maybe u give out that impression, by trying really hard 2 please everybody to make them like u and when they arent reciprocating that, u ask them and get on their case about it!. by voicing ur opinions and how all this is making u feel is good, but once is enough, after that it gets annoying!.
i know this is making u feel bad about urself, but maybe its time to move on, find new friends, better friends who will want to spend time with u, or find something to fill ur time, like a job or an after school activity like some sort of sport, something that will get u interacting with other people!. (sorry if i was a bit harsh at the start)Www@Answer-Health@Com
i know this is making u feel bad about urself, but maybe its time to move on, find new friends, better friends who will want to spend time with u, or find something to fill ur time, like a job or an after school activity like some sort of sport, something that will get u interacting with other people!. (sorry if i was a bit harsh at the start)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you need some new friends!. The people you say are your friends are just using you BECAUSE you do so much for them, but you dont EXPECT the respect you deserve!. I dont know how old you are, but you need to become involved in your own life, and not depend on others for your happiness because obviously you arent getting it!. Volunteer at a nursing home, or a animal shelter, take a art class, anything!Www@Answer-Health@Com