Diagnose these 'mental' problems.?!
Question: Diagnose these 'mental' problems!.!?
I have a strange self loathing, I have a hate for others for no paticular reason, I cant cry even when I feel I should and I mean someone in my family dying seriousness!. I have a constant discomfort I have constant conversation situations in my head with people I know but never bring it up!. I don't 'cut'!. I am aggressive and provoke easily!. I often think about causing people pain but don't act on it!. I feel somehow inadequite, yet I try to be the best at everything; more-so then everyone, and if I do so unsuccessfully I further the other symptoms!. I have a disstinct indifference for everything on the outside, yet I care too much about things on the inside, and I am having trouble diffrenciating it sometimes!. I believe that I am 'shut off' but I can't turn back on!. I have a problem communicating, though I can articulatly, I seem to say the wrong things!. Most people hate me, and I can't seem to talk to women!. On top of that I feel bad about it all but can't fix it!. Tell me whats wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Dear Loathing,
You seem to have studied yourself for quite a while to produce such a detailed description of what you're experiencing!. This is a good start!. You know where you're at and you know what you don't like about it!.
Now maybe you should take some time to define how you would like to be - imagine what life would look like if you were living your Full Potential!. It helps to think in terms of the six major areas of life:
Physically
Mentally
Spiritually
Socially
Emotionally
Financially
When you give your brain an inspiring vision to work towards, you summon resources you didn't know existed!.
Secondly, I suggest you learn about meditation and practice 30 minutes of focusing on the breath and then studying the self - one question you could keep asking yourself either in meditation or in the mirror is this: "Who Am I really!?" Just keep asking this over and over again and notice what happens!.
You are at a stage right now where the Ego seems to be controlling you!. But the Ego is nothing more than a tool!. Once you begin to understand who you are really - you can begin to exercise will power over the Ego and carry out your intentions with greater will power, thus turning the Ego into a slave to your will!.
Thirdly, it helps to have a community with a shared mission to support you every day, I host a community called http://www!.FullPotential!.com which serves that purpose!. I invite you to join me and others as we live our Full Potential!.
- James Rick
'Mr!. Full Potential'
http://www!.jamesrick!.com
P!.S!. Words have the power to heal or destroy!. Change your identity into something that you aspire to such as "Joy" rather than something you despise feeling at the moment "Loathing" !. Loathing describes a current state, whereas Joy or another word that inspires you - is an energy state you can now work towards!. Spend less time defining who you are and more time defining who you wish to become!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You seem to have studied yourself for quite a while to produce such a detailed description of what you're experiencing!. This is a good start!. You know where you're at and you know what you don't like about it!.
Now maybe you should take some time to define how you would like to be - imagine what life would look like if you were living your Full Potential!. It helps to think in terms of the six major areas of life:
Physically
Mentally
Spiritually
Socially
Emotionally
Financially
When you give your brain an inspiring vision to work towards, you summon resources you didn't know existed!.
Secondly, I suggest you learn about meditation and practice 30 minutes of focusing on the breath and then studying the self - one question you could keep asking yourself either in meditation or in the mirror is this: "Who Am I really!?" Just keep asking this over and over again and notice what happens!.
You are at a stage right now where the Ego seems to be controlling you!. But the Ego is nothing more than a tool!. Once you begin to understand who you are really - you can begin to exercise will power over the Ego and carry out your intentions with greater will power, thus turning the Ego into a slave to your will!.
Thirdly, it helps to have a community with a shared mission to support you every day, I host a community called http://www!.FullPotential!.com which serves that purpose!. I invite you to join me and others as we live our Full Potential!.
- James Rick
'Mr!. Full Potential'
http://www!.jamesrick!.com
P!.S!. Words have the power to heal or destroy!. Change your identity into something that you aspire to such as "Joy" rather than something you despise feeling at the moment "Loathing" !. Loathing describes a current state, whereas Joy or another word that inspires you - is an energy state you can now work towards!. Spend less time defining who you are and more time defining who you wish to become!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Counseling/medication!.!.!.get to the doctor!. DBT Therapy perhaps!. I think with counseling and possibly meds, the other answer is "age", like good cheese things improve with age!.
When you have a problem, take reasonable solutions to solve a problem; then you have no problem!.!.so get on with the solution, get to the doctor and see if you need meds and referral to therapy!. With help you will get to where you want to be and feel comfortable within yourself!. I don't believe in labels, they are simply categories of symptoms to help provide proper treatment; but the reality is we are very complicated creatures and a label is too defining!. The goal is just to feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you have a problem, take reasonable solutions to solve a problem; then you have no problem!.!.so get on with the solution, get to the doctor and see if you need meds and referral to therapy!. With help you will get to where you want to be and feel comfortable within yourself!. I don't believe in labels, they are simply categories of symptoms to help provide proper treatment; but the reality is we are very complicated creatures and a label is too defining!. The goal is just to feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have good insight into what you are like!. Lots of people in your situation don't have that!. I really like what James Rick said about looking to the future!.
The teenage years are really hard to get through!. Deal with your issues now, and don't forget there is light at the end of the tunnel!. In a few years you will hopefully be able to look back on this time in your life and smile about it!. Best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
The teenage years are really hard to get through!. Deal with your issues now, and don't forget there is light at the end of the tunnel!. In a few years you will hopefully be able to look back on this time in your life and smile about it!. Best wishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like antisocial personality disorder!. Please talk to your doctor about all of this!. He or she will probably refer you to a Psychiatrist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com