I need Help?!!!?!
Question: I need Help!?!!!!?
Sometimes i get an urge to destroy people!. I want to reduce them to nothingness!. Right now I want to do it!. how do i stop these urges before i hurt someone again!. Im not mad sometimes it's people i see on the street!. When I see someone I can immediatly see them mentally!. After talking for 15 minutes i know how they tick and what can tare them down and sometimes i want to pull that string so all the peices fall to the ground!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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hey! can you do me a favor!? (yeah!.!.!. im actually asking you!? :\) will you like, destroy me!? can you do it to someone over the computer!?!? :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have several questions for you but i would want you to email me or im me to get the full picture!. but to start--were you abused as a child!? or did you go through a traumatic experience lately!? you have so much inside of you and it seems to me that you would like to take your frustrations out on others, but why!? if you would like to talk more im me!. if not then, try to understand why you want to hurt others!. there is an old saying that hurting people, hurt people!. i'm not trying to be rude at all, i just feel for you that you have such feelings and if it is a result of being hurt in the past, then my heart bleeds for you!. my 16yo son used to be the same as you but i found out that he was being abused by his father and so i removed him from that environment!. is it your friends that you are around!? you need a strong, supportive support system to help you deal with your emotions!. if you don't have one then i am here to help the best that i can!. god bless you!. keep your head up and try to train your brain to positve thoughts!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Obviously, you're very intelligent ~ otherwise, you couldn't read people the way you do and see their weaknesses so easily!. But, with that kind of intelligence comes a huge responsibility: use your talents for good, not for evil!. It's not an easy decision to make; believe me, I know!. But it's one you're going to have to make, and the sooner the better!.
You say you're not mad, but I think you are!. You might not be mad at the person you're going to rip apart, but you are definitely angry with someone!. You have to figure out who you're really mad at, why you're mad, and then find a way to deal with that person/issue instead!.
My friends used to tell me I was a real pistol; I could verbally destroy anyone at anytime without even trying!. They'd put me on display at bars, calling people over to have me demonstrate my skill for them!. It got to where I hated it!. I didn't want to be nasty in front of people all the time, but my friends wouldn't let me off the hook; I couldn't live down my reputation!. Finally, I had to put a stop to it, which meant figuring out who I was really ticked off at, and dealing with my anger for that person WITH that person!. It was the only way I could move on with the rest of my life without all that anger bottled up inside of me!.
At work, I took a lot of crap; every day, people told me I didn't belong in my job, for lots of reasons!. It used to drive me nuts, but I wasn't allowed to say anything!. I had to take the high road; I was expected to be more mature, because I was older and had more business experience!. As a result, I had to keep my anger bottled up inside of me, day after day, while people kept telling me they were going to take my job out from under me!. No wonder I was angry all the time!
Finally, I had a discussion with the biggest offender!. I told that person, in no uncertain terms, that I was there to stay; I wasn't going anywhere, no matter how hard they tried to get rid of me!. I was the one hired for that job based on my skills and experience; if they thought they could take my job from me, they'd better be damn good, because I was!.
Once I set the record straight and let people know I was't going to be intimidated any longer, the massive abuse stopped!. When that happened, I wasn't running around angry all the time any longer, and I no longer wanted to verbally destroy anyone I came in contact with!. End of problem!.
Find out what it is that's really upsetting you, deep down inside, and deal with that issue first!. If you can't figure it out on your own, talk with someone (a counselor) who can help you figure out what the core issue is so you can resolve it!. Once that core issue is unearthed and you've worked through it, I think you'll find your need to destroy others beginning to melt away, as well!.
I wish you the best of luck!. It won't be easy to do, but I promise you it will be worth it!.
MinPinWww@Answer-Health@Com
You say you're not mad, but I think you are!. You might not be mad at the person you're going to rip apart, but you are definitely angry with someone!. You have to figure out who you're really mad at, why you're mad, and then find a way to deal with that person/issue instead!.
My friends used to tell me I was a real pistol; I could verbally destroy anyone at anytime without even trying!. They'd put me on display at bars, calling people over to have me demonstrate my skill for them!. It got to where I hated it!. I didn't want to be nasty in front of people all the time, but my friends wouldn't let me off the hook; I couldn't live down my reputation!. Finally, I had to put a stop to it, which meant figuring out who I was really ticked off at, and dealing with my anger for that person WITH that person!. It was the only way I could move on with the rest of my life without all that anger bottled up inside of me!.
At work, I took a lot of crap; every day, people told me I didn't belong in my job, for lots of reasons!. It used to drive me nuts, but I wasn't allowed to say anything!. I had to take the high road; I was expected to be more mature, because I was older and had more business experience!. As a result, I had to keep my anger bottled up inside of me, day after day, while people kept telling me they were going to take my job out from under me!. No wonder I was angry all the time!
Finally, I had a discussion with the biggest offender!. I told that person, in no uncertain terms, that I was there to stay; I wasn't going anywhere, no matter how hard they tried to get rid of me!. I was the one hired for that job based on my skills and experience; if they thought they could take my job from me, they'd better be damn good, because I was!.
Once I set the record straight and let people know I was't going to be intimidated any longer, the massive abuse stopped!. When that happened, I wasn't running around angry all the time any longer, and I no longer wanted to verbally destroy anyone I came in contact with!. End of problem!.
Find out what it is that's really upsetting you, deep down inside, and deal with that issue first!. If you can't figure it out on your own, talk with someone (a counselor) who can help you figure out what the core issue is so you can resolve it!. Once that core issue is unearthed and you've worked through it, I think you'll find your need to destroy others beginning to melt away, as well!.
I wish you the best of luck!. It won't be easy to do, but I promise you it will be worth it!.
MinPinWww@Answer-Health@Com