HELP Immediately !!!! PLEASE ANSWER EVERYONE !!!?!


Question: HELP Immediately !!!! PLEASE ANSWER EVERYONE !!!!?
Ok!.!.!.well im scared and well scared i exercise everyday for over 4 hours i eat nothing for weeks and if i do eat something i throw it up!.!.!.and well i am 5 foot 4!.5 and i weigh 53 kilos i think im really fat but friends have told me that im skinny and stuff but i don't believe them!.!.!.and well one of my male friends is going to tell someone and i cant have anyone knowing like if he tells someone well my life would be like over!.!.!. :( How do i keep him for not telling anyone !.!.!.!.!. !?!?!?!?!? (and im only 14)

Oh and thank you so much for answering this because i really need someone to help me so if you could tell people about this question and get people to help with advice i would really appreciate that !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You're very lucky to have someone to do what is right for you and not just what you want them to do!.

You have a life threatening mental illness called Anorexia Nervosa and unless someone, somewhere takes over, your life is certainly over because you will either be dead or at best, have a very serious incurable metabolic disorder like Diabetes 1 or irreparable liver and kidney damage!.

Don't you think that your friends will all know that you have an eating disorder and that you need treatment!? Of course they will! They are not experiencing your body Dismorphia (false self image), they will see you as you really are, so I wouldn't be worried about what your friends are thinking, believe me they already know!. I would be worried about the self harm you are inflicting on yourself and the damage to your future and education; this illness has the potential to totally ruin your life for good, so please get some treatment!. What are your parents and family doing about this!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are worried about your weight, then you do indeed have a problem!. The good news is that according to the BMI calculator, you are within the average range!.

While eating well and exercise is important, it shouldn't detract from you leading a normal 14 year olds life!.!.!.whatever that is!.

What it shouldn't be is scared of your own self image, or what people say about you!. Those people that say things that hurt you are the biggest losers on the planet and should be posting questions about their issues here!.

I am sure you are fine, just try not to get too worked up about what other people say!. It is your life and you should call the shots!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he is a bully i don't know, but if he is your friend why don't you tell him not to tell anyone and ask him to feel if he was in your place

To get rid of your problem here are few tips:

1!. Do not to work out for too long especially when ur not feeling to well!.
2!.Don't eat immediately after exercising give at least about 1 hours gap!.
3!.Gain the confidence to tell your parents and if they don't have any cure then ask them to take you to a doctor!.
You try not to eat fried items and eat something like curd-rice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your obviously not fat! You work out 4 hours a day! You dont want to get a eating disorder! Dear your suppose to eat if you want to live! Do it the healthy way! calculate your calories like 1500 calories a day and then work out 30 minutes to a hour and you should stay skinny your not fat from what I read! The best way to keep him from telling is to go the healthy way and tell him your doing just that! He wont feel like he has something over you anymore! :) Good luck sweet heart!Www@Answer-Health@Com

For a young person who is 14 years old who is doing this to their body must have a mental problem and needs attention or is wanting attention!. A young human being needs nourishment for growth and development if this is altered over long periods then the body will eventually shut down!. No bodily functions, no children, hair falls out, skin shrinks, bones becomes brittle etc etc etc!. leading to!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.need I say more !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

Looks like you are getting all the attention you were after luv!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are very good as you are , stop your exercises , and accept how you are , cause it will be come a fixation in the mind,what happens next your hair will fall out ,and your skin will get pale and you get anorexia and your period wont be as it was, and you finish in hospitalWww@Answer-Health@Com

baby girl, It sounds like you really need some help!.!.

its a good thing that your friend is going to tell someone, that means he cares for you!.!.

your so young, you don't need to have these problems at this age!.!.

please please sweety get help cause it sounds like anorexia or bulimia!.!.

good luck baby girl!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

117 pounds is not overweight at all ecspecially if your 5' 4"!. My ex girlfriend is the same way!. it's called self esteem you got to open up your eyes and relize it!. i know its hard but its the only way your gonna get threw this!. If ya need to talk you can text me!. 859-486-9474Www@Answer-Health@Com

sounds like u do have a problem that is not health, the reason u would gain weight after u eat is because ur body knows it will not get any other food for weeks and stores it as fat, see a doctor that is not healthy at allWww@Answer-Health@Com

You gotta eat, I have a friend & she did the exact same thing as you and she fainted once in our science lesson and she had to go to the docters and they said shes anorexic! and she has to EAT!
Please eat! you dont want to be anorexic at 14 do you!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

first you need to calm the hell down !.!.!.then you need to talk to this friend and tell him how important it is that he keep it to himself!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Promise him not to tell anyone if you immediately change your habits and start eating fully and gaining weight!. And then do it! or, your life could be over whether or not he tells someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think u have body disorder and ur anorexic

u should consult someone before ur skin decays and its too late!.

let ur friends help u ur thin based on ur descriptionsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well if you really dont want him telling people you should make a deal with him like for example say to him if you dont tell anyone i will buy you something from the shopsWww@Answer-Health@Com

You really need to talk to a counselor, you have an eating disorder!. They literally compromise the way you see yourself!.
Get help!.!.!.!.your health could be at risk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please!.!.!.!.eat!.
I'm being serious!.
Before it's too late!.!.!.

BTW
Wii Fit isn't completely accurate
and BMI is really dodgyWww@Answer-Health@Com

stop trying to get attention and start thinking of other people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You shouldn't be dieting like this!.
Its dangerous, even for an adult!.

Your not fat at all!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think someone is telling porkies!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need help, you are bulimic!. He's seeing your pain and doing what he can to help you beat this disorder!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your NOT fat, stop being anorexicWww@Answer-Health@Com

EAT!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

uhh u have to f-n tell someone!. im not gonna sit here and help you keep ur annerxia a secret!. STUFF YO FACEWww@Answer-Health@Com

eat something and go to a doctorWww@Answer-Health@Com

You are not fat!.
Stop exercising so much and start eating again!.
I'm not a professional, couldn't you see a doctor!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

GET HELP!!!!! You see yourself as some awful person!. You are killing yourself as the smoker or the alcoholic does!. In my case its depression and insulin diabetes and I eat donuts until my blood sugar soars and causes damage!. This has to be fixed by professionals!. It doesn't matter if your friend tells because it is going to be obvious soon when you have crappy skin like a Meth addict and sunken emaciated cheeks like a crack smoker!.
You see fat but everyone else sees unhealthy and unattractive bones and ribs!. This is the disease!. Its not weight its self-image!.
Do you know that with help you can take all the energy you put into hating and abusing yourself and use it to become a healthy glowing person-a personal trainer- anutitionist- whatever!.
I may seem hard- you are right!. this isn't a Yahoo issue this is a get yur butt to the doctor issue!. You can do it!. One small step at a time!.
Oh and by the way if you haven't eaten for a while don't just go eat something!. that's why you puke/ Start with a liquid diet and not acidic juice!. Milk, soup, pudding and jello!. Good Luck and believe one thing!. Life gets easier in about 3 more years!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

thats good ur friend is gonna tell someone cuz u obviously need help and trust me ur life wont be over i remember when i was 14 and thought every lil thing was gona make my life over ,its not!.!.i used to be bulimic and thought i was fat but turned out i was normal weight ur just goin through a mental disorder that wont make u see that ur at normal weight!.!.!.i bet ur skinny as hell too but when look in mirror u think ur fat!.!.thats crazy u need to stop starviing urself!.!.!.cuz people die from starvation!.!.!. so what do u want to be, really skinny or die!? cuz the way ur goin ur gonna get really skinny, end up in hospital, and die and eventually they will bury u, ull turn into a skeleton and then ur dreams of being skinny will come true b!.c ur a SKELETON!.!.!. ur creating so much problems for body, u should look up anorexia and it side effect its not pretty!.!.!.but most likely u wont will ignore everyone and keep starving urself!.!.so since most likely u will, whydont u bring all ur food to homeless people, soup kitchens, and ship them off to people across seas, b!.c people in those places cant afford food and arent as lucky and arent ungrateful like u are and are unwilling starving so please since u dont want it give to them at least!.!.!.!.most people with eating disorder do it cuz they have no control of something in their life and eating is the only thing they can control!.!.!.so try and figure out the root of ur problems and get healthy!.!.!.i did, so u can tooWww@Answer-Health@Com

i know someone who has the same problem
being only 14teen these must be hard on you
the mind can play funny tricks on you, when
i was sick i thought i was in a war really
believe there was airplanes chasing me,doctors
have meds and therapy to help you, but you
have to believe, your sick and the sooner you
take of it the sooner you will get better
please do not wait any longer, because it will
take that much longer to get better ,it could be
fatal if you let this go on ,be strong!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

There are 2!.2 lbs!. in a kilo!.!.!.so I guess you weigh 106 lbs!. For your height!.!.!.that's skinny!. !.!.so you don't need to be thinking you're fat!. If you think you're fat!.!.then you have a mental problem !.!.for real!. I don't know if there is a medication that will help this problem!. You need to start taking vitamins!. You will get very depressed from lack of vitamins and you could also develop more mental problems!. Also take Omega 3!. I don't mean you're "crazy"!.!.!.It's just that your thinking is wrong!.If you look at black and see white!.!.!.that's wrong too!. If you look in the mirror and think you're fat!.!.!.you're lying to yourself!. Try to get help before you become anorexic and REALLY can't change!. No boy wants a bag o bones!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

This is serious!. Not so much the weight you're on at the moment, NOT YET! But if your body doesn't accept food, a normal reaction if you don't eat for a length of time, your life WILL be over if no help arrives!. Your male friend seems to be a real friend who worries about you!. Don't let him tell just anyone, in fact, he shouldn't have the need to tell anyone if you would just go to a doctor and see what he/she says about it!. DON'T lie to questions asked there, and don't end up thinking you are not skinny when, in a few weeks, you will be if you continue! When people tell you this, they might be right, you know! Especially when they're telling you to go to a doctor!. Don't let it come to that!.
Other thing, don't think that what the media and show world says about weight and how you should look, is the standard!. Be who you are and let your natural appearence be who you are!. PLEASE!!!
I really hope you will come to your senses as you're in for trouble if you continue!. Get counselling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What you need is someone like a counselor or expert in anorexia and bulemia--two eating disorders--who will help you and work with you!. If you are 14, what kind of relationship do you have with your parents!? Do they know what you are doing!? Do you yourself know the possible harm you are doing to your body, especially long-term!?

If you feel you can talk to your parent(s), start there!. If not, then a teacher or counselor at your school can help you get help!.
So could your doctor or local hospital!. This problem needs some expert guidance and help and supportive people who will not blame you for your condition and your behavior, but instead, who will know some specific ways to combat your fears and make you feel better!.

Your first step is to recognize that your problem is not only keeping your male friend from telling people, but--and this is more important and serious--getting physical and psychological help to know why you are so afraid of gaining weight and what you can do about that state of mind!.

I urge you to see a qualified professional because he or she will have access to resources in your community who can help and get you help fast!. Best wishes on this; it's a difficult problem to tackle, but it's one you really need to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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